What kind of wife is better to marry?

What kind of woman do men like to marry? It is estimated that many people will say that men want to marry beautiful women as wives. Actually, not necessarily. You see, Prince Charles would rather marry a wrinkled Camilla than a beautiful Diana. Some people may say that men are realistic and most like to marry rich women. Actually, not necessarily. You see, Yang Zhenning married a poor student, Weng Fan. Some people may say that men nowadays also like to marry women with family background. Actually, not necessarily. You see, the Polish presidential candidate married a working girl in Shenzhen as his wife. Some people may say that men like to marry sexy women as wives. Actually, not necessarily. You see Zhuge Liang married an ugly, black and sexy woman and was satisfied. Some people may say that men like to marry women who are sexually harmonious with them. Actually, not necessarily. You see, Cai Qin's husband has been married asexually for 65,438+00 years. Some people may say that men should marry full-time wives and women who don't like to show their faces. Actually, not necessarily. You see, Wang Shuo would rather move his wife and children abroad and return to China alone to fall in love with Xu, a female star who has appeared everywhere. Some people may say that any man likes to marry a woman who loves him and loves him. Of course this is the best, but "love" is a vague concept. What kind of woman and man have love at the same time? What kind of woman can make a man have the realm of "this life is crazy, this situation is unparalleled"? A famous female writer once said that a woman who can become a confidante and wife is the best among women, but such a woman is rare. In addition, what kind of woman can be a confidante and wife? This is a concept that is difficult to express in detail, and the requirements are too harsh. So, what kind of woman do men like to marry best if they are not too harsh and maneuverable? What kind of wife you choose is what kind of life you choose. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Isn't it a man? Hong Yingming, who wrote Caigen Tan, once said, "It's the wife who is jealous, not the deaf!" Strong demons don't last as long as weak ones, and so does marriage. The great writer Shakespeare wrote many wonderful plays in his life, but his view on marriage is not romantic. Because he knows that marriage is difficult, he knows that life will consume love. What do we have to live this life? In fact, what we really need is a good attitude and a leisurely mood. Only people with harmonious families and healthy mentality have leisure conditions. For example, marrying a good woman can give a man a leisurely mood: standard 1: the most important quality of a woman is kindness, and filial piety ranks first among all virtues. I don't know how many bad men are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their biological mothers! Standard 2: virtuous. This is an eternal female virtue. Standard 3: Be knowledgeable and courteous. This is the requirement of the new era for women to keep pace with the times. Women's temperament and upbringing are the inspiration to enrich their hearts, and also the place to really distance themselves from others. Standard 4: Being thoughtful, tasteful and thoughtful makes her disdain to interfere in other people's gossip. She has always been an insulator. Good taste enables her to express her style creatively. I can't stand that my wife can't walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor, but that I don't like her! Standard 5: Being sensible is the most important thing for men. She can attack me at home, but she cannot satirize or laugh at me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity doesn't matter. Standard 6: Full trust, relative freedom, liking the new and hating the old are actually human instinct, and no one can guarantee that he will only have a good impression on one person all his life. It is suggested that all women who are going to get married in the world should study medical psychology attentively, fully understand her husband's hobby of staring at beautiful women in pictorial and web pages, and don't be picky because of these subconscious behaviors, otherwise marriage will be pushed to death. He wants to be alone for a while, don't ask questions, just send a cup of tea and close the door gently. Standard 7: Only when a woman has a stable income and does not depend on a man for survival can she achieve independence and self-esteem. Standard 8: Don't have too many material desires, which is very important! From frugality to luxury since ancient times. Besides, her complacent and optimistic nature enabled her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich" nervous and even at a loss. My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW (BMW blog, BMW news, BMW said) car and ride a bike; Stay in a five-star hotel, don't dislike camping tents, and you have to suffer a little to be the host. Standard 9: Reject luxury and don't be too enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has good living habits. Smoking, drinking and an all-night feast won't happen to her. She won't kill time in bars and nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she won't take the initiative to talk to other men. It's Chun Xue. Standard 10: Innocence is a little childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should take care of her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike interest can make her long and boring eyes enjoy it relatively. Standard 1 1: I like reading and music. I like reading, not reading colorful fashion magazines. I like music, not listening to it and forgetting it. Classic books and music can make the triviality of years and life leave no trace in her mind. Standard 12: Strong working ability and skills. Working women obviously don't have much time to doubt. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well. Standard 13: neither ugly nor beautiful. Of course, you must not be ugly or too beautiful. It should be the kind that looks pleasing to the eye. Standard 14: Physical health requires not only physical health, but also health knowledge and basic medical knowledge. Rule 15: Romance and fun are also important. Marriage is a colorful, interesting and dynamic world. It is hard to imagine that a woman who is not romantic and interesting is a good wife. Well, the above 15 standard should be complete. With such a woman, even if the sun and the moon are cold and the mountains and rivers are dry, the light of marriage can still burn warmly in the initial memory, in any visible and unknowable corner. ...