As a college student from the countryside, where is my way out?

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The college admission rate is getting higher and higher, and college students are not very precious. Unit recruitment, not because you are a so-called college student, worship you, accommodate you and let you go to work. Nowadays, college students all wear "university" hats, get diplomas and degree certificates, and then go out to look for jobs. Like most ordinary people, this works for others. If you are not good, you have to work for others. If you have power and influence, you can struggle for a few years with less connections and still have enough food and clothing. However, I want to ask, what do you college students from rural areas rely on? Do you rely on your parents who grow crops or on yourself? ?

This is a thought-provoking topic, and it is also a topic that I once dared not face directly. Because I was once in this situation, I was born in the countryside and have been struggling to explore how to jump out of the farm gate, but this road is bumpy.

The answer below this post shocked me even more:

Children from the countryside, do you have a dream?

I forwarded this post, and soon someone replied at the bottom:

My boyfriend and I graduated from the same school. I have worked in Nanning for almost two years. At present, their wages add up to more than 4000 yuan. Both families are rural and have no burden of providing for the aged, but they can't help. We must struggle on our own. Many times I really feel so tired, so tired. Sitting in a rented house and looking at the tall building opposite, I don't know when this city will have our habitat.

This is a remarkable pain. As a college student from a rural family, I have deep feelings for myself. It is not easy for a rural family to train a college student. But if we get better grades, my parents will put almost all their bets on us: study hard, my child, and my parents will send you to college even if they sell iron.

This expectation beyond my ability made me panic once. I always can't eat well and sleep well. I always remember how to improve my grades and take one more exam. Finally, in that kind of hardship, I went to college. Although it is not the best university, it is within my ability.

From reading to graduation, I am now working in my favorite company and I have learned a lot. There are some thoughts about my future, and some thoughts about the significance of the university. Although I am hesitant, I am still working hard. Now I will talk about some of my ideas in this article.

Admitting the gap is the first step to recognize and accept the reality.

On the first day of college, I was forced to accept this fact. At the beginning of school, my father sent me to school. Arriving at the dormitory, a classmate came over. In the evening, he and his father went to the hotel. In order to save one or two hundred accommodation fees, my father and I live together in the student dormitory. It turns out that he and I share a bed. In the middle of the night, in order to make me sleep comfortably, he actually fell asleep on another uncovered hard bed board. When I saw it the next day, I felt particularly uncomfortable and asked him: Dad, how did you sleep there? He smiled and said, nothing, I can't sleep. At that moment, I was very uncomfortable. I blame myself and hate God. Others can go to comfortable hotels, and my father and I can only sleep on hard beds. What's more, he accompanied me on the train for a day and a night, not tired. The next morning, my father bought a few boxes of instant noodles and a big bottle of mineral water in the school canteen in a hurry, and set foot on the train home, which took more than 30 hours. Looking at my father's distant back, I finally felt what Zhu Ziqing felt when he saw his father's back, and tears rolled down. I told myself: you must be successful in the future, otherwise how can you live up to this mountain of deep fatherly love?

Because I was born in the countryside, I don't have much money at home, so I can't make my father feel comfortable coming and going by plane, and I can't take my father to enjoy the elegance of this big city, just in a hurry. However, I am willing to admit this gap. As I come from the countryside, I can't compare with others in many aspects. I haven't played computer much, and I don't know the latest and most fashionable clothes. Even when they discuss the brand, I still choose to accept it calmly. Because only when you have a clear understanding of your current situation can you know the direction you should work hard. That is: study hard in college and change your destiny bit by bit.

The significance of the university is especially important for me who came out of the countryside.

I think college means more to me than people usually give it to her. Because when I graduated from senior three and went to work in a glass factory, I used to think that my future had been fixed: I got up at 6 o'clock every morning and got on the bus with a group of big men who sometimes didn't even bother to wash their faces. I grabbed a bite of rice at noon, and then I slept in the garbage pile all the time, and I used the same energy in the afternoon. When I returned to my apartment, I had been sleeping. Clothes and sheets are always the same color. At that moment, I was full of fear for the future.

When I arrived at the university, I realized that my chance to answer the fate paper was hard-won, so I cherished it very much. A person goes to the library, a person goes to eat very cheap fried rice with eggs, and a person goes to cram lessons after self-study at night. In short, in order to make more changes in the university, I walked a lot by myself. Until I successfully signed my present job, it went well in the workplace. I'm glad I went to college, which gave me another possibility given by life.

I have no complete plan except doing my best.

? It is an unchangeable fact that we can't choose our origins. Just like some people are born with good looks and some people are born with defects, this does not affect my choice to broaden the future length. Born in the countryside, we can't rely on our parents to achieve a stable life like others, and we don't have an extraordinary background and awesome relationship. The only thing we can do is to change this situation with our own hands and diligence.

We can't choose to complain, because this negative emotion will only make you more and more degenerate, which will not help you change the status quo at all, and will also hinder your growth. I once thought about stopping the pace of progress, because I was too tired, too tired. But how can I bear to let myself choose comfort when I think that my parents are still at home facing the loess and sweating for my tuition? I must make myself stronger and stronger, so that I can support one day. This is not only worthy of my parents' expectations and efforts, but more importantly, I am afraid that they will put all their bets on me. How can I bear to let them lose? This love, I think, is not a burden, but a motivation to remind me all the time: my parents are still working hard for my future, so what qualifications do I have to choose comfort?

This is also the only reason why I am strong.

This road will not be smooth.

As a child from the countryside, I admit that there is a gap between some places and others, but I still have an upward heart.

I have never lost my pursuit of life and dreams, even though there is a distance between reality and dreams.