If I were Andy, I would also give up the Singularity and choose Xiaobao

If I were Andy, I would also give up Singularity and choose Mr. Xiaobao

? Actually, I like the actor who plays Singularity very much, and I also like the role of Singularity, but when As soon as the second half of "Ode to Joy", Xiao Bao's boss Yang Shuo came out, I was thinking that if there was a sequel, there would definitely be some stories between Andy and Xiao Bao. When the filming of "Ode to Joy 2" started, everyone was looking forward to Mr. Xiao Bao, and sometimes everyone even expected more of Mr. Xiao Bao than Wu Mei. But after 2 was aired, I still hoped that Andy could be with Singularity. It wasn't until Boss Lai entered the 22nd floor that I understood that if I were Andy, I would give up Singularity and choose Boss Xiaobao. When "Ode to Joy 2" reached episode 30, my heart was deeply touched. The same Andy, the same life experience, the same time bomb in his body, but he can give up the Singularity, but he still holds on to Xiaobao because he is reluctant to let go. Not only lament the reason.

?1.

? Andy is not very fond of singularities.

At the end of "Ode to Joy", Andy and Qingdian break up. He is calm, decisive, cold and not sloppy, and is extremely sadistic. At that time, I always felt that it shouldn't have ended like this. Such a breakup was a bit too cruel to Singularity. Looking back at the entire plot, every scene where Andy and Singularity are together is very warm, quiet, and comfortable. Before Andy and Qingdian met, she had already developed a liking for Qingdian, and was full of expectations for the meeting, but also a little worried. We were very happy after meeting. Although it was Andy who was pursued by Singularity, Andy also recognized her boyfriend very much. They went on dates with him, saw her brother together, met their friends together, listened to music together, stayed at home together, read books together, An Di enjoyed it very much, but she never heard Andy mention the word "love". Even though she decided to break up with Singularity after knowing her life experience, the sisters on the 22nd floor sighed with her when they cried with her. I regret her separation from Singularity, but I just can’t feel how much she loves Singularity. Even the reason for breaking up was just because "I didn't want to drag him down" and I let him go. Rather than letting him go because you "love him". There is a kind of love called letting go, giving up for love lasts forever.

From the good impression he had on the forum to meeting and being pursued, Andy felt a sense of security. In this strange city, he was different from the previous way of life when he had someone he could trust, rely on and rely on. A partner who enriches his life by accidental companionship, all this happens naturally and passively. It's not that Andy doesn't love, he does love, but he loves passively and doesn't know how to love or how to love. Of course, if you love passively, if you don’t know how to love, you won’t love enough. So break up calmly and without being sloppy. Although it hurts, it won't make me miserable.

?2.

? People who are too smart and rational are not suitable to be together.

Singularity is very similar to Andy, smart, cautious, and reason is greater than emotion. When we first met, Qi Dian was wearing a brand-name suit, but he was sitting on the subway very low-key. When they met again, they asked a friend to investigate Andy before pursuing him. This uncle, who seemed to have experienced a lot of ups and downs, treated Andy like a young man would show affection to an admirer, treat him to dinner, and invite him on a date, but he lacked the madness, passion and desperation of a young man. He has the caution, shyness and stability of an uncle. He loves to be steady, and because he has a strong accumulation of books, he also loves to respect. He guides Andy in big things and respects her feelings and ideas in small things, so it is difficult for him to spend the night at Andy's place. He is smooth, clear-thinking, rational and smart. Whether he is facing Qu Xiaoxiao's problem or her brother's problem, he can quickly and comprehensively provide solutions, making Andy feel safe and dependent. .

But if two people are very smart, especially rational people, they will be too sober when they fall in love with each other, and this kind of love will not be very interesting. Especially when Singularity brought Wei Guoqiang to Andy and exposed Andy naked in front of Singularity, Andy couldn't bear it, because that was not a graceful figure, not a young figure, and she thought that was her life The most unsightly aspect is the scarred and deformed body, which is unsightly. For the first time, he was unprepared and caught off guard by his lover who took off his clothes and showed him in front of his lover. Andy could not accept such an arrangement or the reality. So she chose to break up.

No one wants to face such a lover. Facing such a lover is equivalent to facing one's own unbearable past, reminding oneself that there is such a reality all the time, like a time bomb, following him everywhere. So Andy broke up decisively, coldly and unable to look back.

3.

Xiao Bao’s overall masculinity shows more.

Qingdian started from scratch, experienced the financial crisis, almost jumped off a building, and finally left his companions to survive alone, so he is cautious, steady, and mature; he has a girlfriend who has already discussed marriage, and in finance Dumped him during the storm, a hurt man, not rich in love, and his character seems a bit dull. He has read a lot of books, so he is smart. He likes to read, so he is quiet a lot of the time. He loved Andy and respected Andy. Andy didn't like it, so he tried his best not to do it. This makes Andy, who also likes reading, is also sensible and smart, not feel much novelty and excitement. Xiao Bao always faces a family business, a famous rich man, a rich second generation, who has never experienced any ups and downs in life, has a cheerful and optimistic personality, is cynical, has had many girlfriends, and has rich love experience. Facing the different Andy, it can be said that he is stalking, chasing and fighting, and using any means necessary. He didn't play by the rules and "begged for support and shelter" and insisted on staying there, sleeping in Andy's room, eating Andy's breakfast, hugging Andy suddenly, and kissing her accidentally. He didn't ask Andy in advance, but helped her arrange a hotel and checked into the hotel. This made Andy's plan seem to be disrupted, but it made Andy's plan more fresh and exciting. Mr. Xiaobao's domineering attitude just shows his masculinity. No matter how sensible a strong woman is, she is still a woman, and sometimes she needs a man to be domineering over her. That is the domineering nature of love. That is an oath to the outside world: This is my woman's dominance. So Andy didn't chase Xiaobao from the beginning. She likes this man who is different from him, she likes this domineering love, she likes this man who is more masculine. Just like many girls like domineering presidents, not because they are presidents, but because they are domineering.

? 4.

? Singularity has laid a good foundation for love for Mr. Bao.

"Ode to Joy 2" has reached more than 50 episodes. Andy and Xiaobao are always together in scenes where they are either cuddling or hugging each other. It is completely impossible to tell that she has a problem in her heart and does not like to be with her. Anyone who has physical contact with a woman can thank the Singularity for this change. It is said that a second-married man is like a second-hand house, with perfect decoration and formaldehyde dissipation. All he needs to do is move in with his bags. And Andy, who had had a love experience, was guided, taught, and driven by Singularity. He changed a lot and gained a certain amount of accumulation, so he made a qualitative leap in Xiaobao. She understood how to love and how to love, and finally became a so-called normal person or a common person. Although Xiaobao always knew the truth, she was already prepared in her heart and would no longer be helpless or caught off guard. She had a miserable life experience, but she carefully protected herself. At the same time, she also enjoyed the warmth and happiness brought by physical contact. Qingdian almost renovated a furry house and gave it to Bao Yifan, laying a good foundation for his love. So Andy chose Bao Yifan because she loved Bao Yifan. A girl who has just learned how to love will always love pure, complete, great, tolerant, and without hesitation.