Interview with Venus, the reason why I like Venus-Arrangement of interviews with Venus

I like Venus very much. She is frank and direct, and her values are very clear. She can even be said to be a mentor and a good guide for young people and professionals. As my boss told me, he thinks I have no parents and no husband, so no one will discipline and restrain me. In fact, I have always been a person in charge of myself. The words and opinions of others are all references, and it is myself who makes decisions and choices.

For the word mentor, you can find a real mentor, or you can use some ideas and words as a spiritual mentor.

Venus is definitely not my mentor, but in some ways, she can also be said to be a mentor.

The following is a recent interview with her. I really miss it since the Venus Show and Paramount stopped broadcasting tonight.

Venus answers questions sincerely and directly-sincerity refers to the attitude level. As for the viewpoint itself, this is a matter of different opinions. Basically all questions are open to everyone, and she doesn't dodge at all, even though some may be sensitive or even sharp.

Invited to Oxford University, this time she is an artist. Frankly speaking, I was a little surprised when I first saw Venus as a guest speaker on the information of China Development Forum of Oxford University. She appeared in the art section, talking about the contradiction between business and art, China's cultural export, and the responsibility of artistic creation. The topic actually suits her.

In the same exhibition area, there is Bing Xu, a world-renowned top artist.

I'm a little surprised because, like some people, I'm used to the side that has gained great secular popularity for Venus: the acerbic variety show host.

As a dancer and a pioneer of modern dance in China, she has a relatively weak sense of existence in public cognition.

But in Venus's own self-confirmation and value ranking, she always gives priority to dance and stage. She will naturally call herself a "dancer" in conversation and has no intention of being modest about her professional achievements.

Her confidence and confidence are understandable. Among all kinds of awards and commendations, there is a knight medal of French China's art and literature with high gold content.

That year, she was 39.

Therefore, if Venus is asked to choose between a multi-million-dollar TV program invitation and a multi-hundred thousand-dollar stage invitation, she says that she never hesitates to choose a stage.

This value ranking is fully reflected in her time allocation. From Monday to Friday, she works in a dance company. Two or three hours in the morning is her firm practice time, and the afternoon is her time for choreography and creation.

There is only about one or two hours at noon, and she will leave it for the planning meeting of TV programs. She will ask everyone in the TV program group to come to the dance company for a meeting, so as not to delay her dance practice. She recorded the program, basically arranged on weekends, not out of Shanghai-this is also to ensure family priority.

She said, "The stage is my root." She knows where she comes from and doesn't set a destination, but she is confident that with her support, she will never go astray.

Having passed the age of 40, I know my destiny now. At present, Venus gives me the feeling that the three views are self-contained, the gains and losses are orderly, the life is free and clear, and the vitality is extremely strong. This is what I like most about her.

How to have enviable vitality? She has two secret recipes. An important sign of vigorous vitality is appeal. Venus undoubtedly has this gift. Originally, it is impossible for people who are not infectious to become artists. Artists either infect people with their works or live themselves into an infectious work. Venus is rare, and it has both.

Androgynous people often have unparalleled talents and wizards. Besides, Venus is really hermaphrodite.

Speaking of hermaphroditism, I asked her directly if she was not feeling well now. She said she was not worried at all. The biggest difference with other women is that she doesn't have a uterus and doesn't menstruate. Say that finish, I smiled.

Later, because some readers said that they were curious about whether she still needed to take medicine to maintain estrogen levels, I dared to ask her on WeChat. I'm afraid people will think my question is really abrupt and impolite. I specifically said that if you don't want to answer this question, you don't have to reply.

As a result, she replied generously and was not unhappy at all: she had stopped taking drugs for a long time. She told me that she just took medicine for a while after the operation, and then relied on her own thoughts and willpower to maintain her health and balance.

Yes, it's really amazing. Venus's skin and energy state are so good that I envy it. Her eyes are clear and her skin is bright. You know, she was faced with such a close, face-to-face interview. Make-up, of course, but wrinkles and fatigue can't be covered up by perfect makeup.

After more than two hours of forum, she was interviewed for more than one hour and didn't have lunch. Her voice was penetrating from beginning to end, and she didn't feel tired at all. She sat straight all the time. No wonder her colleagues in the dance troupe said that her energy was shared by five or six people.

I can't help asking her the secret of being young. She said that she never did any beauty treatments. The secret is to sleep and exercise, plus a little proper cleaning and skin care products.

She said that she has one skill, that is, even if there is something big, she can put it aside and sleep for six and a half hours every day. Because of this ability to establish "silence without disturbance", her sleep quality is very good.

I asked her if she had a sense of age crisis and anxiety, and she replied, "Not at all." "I have two birthdays a year, the day I was born, and the day Tomb-Sweeping Day has surgery every year. From that day on, I am only 23 years old now! " She smiled generously and bluntly said that the most important thing in fitness is to have a good attitude and live a good day. This mentality, as Nietzsche said: "Every day without dancing is a disappointment to life."

And keep practicing for two or three hours every day, so that full exercise will make her whole person's qi and blood pass and her body will naturally get better. She said that her muscle mass is still in her thirties.

The strength of a person's vitality depends not only on innate genes, but also on the results of acquired practice.

Freedom is power. She earned her freedom. Many people say that they especially like Venus, and the most frequent answer is: How brave. In fact, these two qualities are interrelated.

The premise of a person's courage is truth, including being true to others and being true to oneself, being able to face and accept oneself frankly, and then making choices that respect one's heart and stick to one's own. This is called courage.

But if you are not brave enough, it is difficult for people to be true. Not everyone has the courage to face their true selves. Especially when this real self may be "different", it has a strong stimulus and great challenge to the surrounding environment.

But Venus basically achieved these two points. Her truthfulness and bravery not only won fans, but more importantly, won her broad freedom of life. At the age of 28, she has the freedom to choose sex again, which is the first milestone on Venus' road to freedom.

Another expression of "freedom" is actually called "the right to choose". In the final analysis, a person earning different degrees of free space for himself is nothing more than winning the strength of different interfaces for himself.

Freedom is power.

To be selective, in addition to having the financial strength to undertake the operation, she must also have strong self-cognitive strength and mental and psychological strength to bear the physiological and social consequences-not to mention the criticism caused by this incident in society at that time. After the operation, because of a medical accident, her left calf was almost paralyzed, and her recovery saved her. She not only saved her health, but also saved her artistic life.

Of course, she was able to travel around the world freely later because of her artistic strength.

Being able to communicate with international friends and partners is because of her multilingual ability. This interview with her at Oxford University was really amazing by her talent for language learning. Her spoken English is very fluent and rich in vocabulary, and from what I heard in five or six minutes, there are few grammatical mistakes-you really shouldn't think that people who have stayed in English-speaking countries for many years will definitely pass the language and speak English fluently.

Besides fluent English, Venus can also speak Italian and French. Communicate with mom. She speaks Korean, which is Korean. She said that all her languages were not learned from books, but from her practical communication with people. What she always likes best is to communicate with people.

Also, Venus was 265,438+0 years old when she first went to study in the United States. She joined shenyang military area command Qianjin Song and Dance Troupe at the age of 65,438+065,438+0, and later studied in the Dance Department of PLA Art College, so she never formally studied English. It is rare to obtain such accurate language norms through this way of learning.

Besides, Venus has wealth and freedom. What is wealth and freedom? My understanding is that you don't need to sell your labor time to get money. You spend your time doing things in order to transcend some pursuits of money, such as happiness, such as the realization of the meaning of life. This depends not only on a person's economic strength, but also on your attitude and cognition of the value of life and money. There are many people who are too rich to get rid of wealth.

Venus's economic strength allows her to rent the presidential suite of Shanghai Central Hotel as her home for more than 3 million yuan every year, and her attitude can better represent her wealth and freedom than "paying 3 million years' rent".

"I don't care if there is a house. I care more about my time and quality of life. The house is valuable, but my time and quality of life are priceless. "

Therefore, it is also a kind of wealth freedom to give up millions of TV program invitations and do hundreds of thousands of stage performances, including economic strength and cognition of the value of wealth.

Giving up is also an ability. Freedom is not only embodied in "gaining", but also in "giving up". Just like he once chose to fake marry a female friend in the United States for an American green card, he finally felt that it was meaningless to tie up for a green card for a lifetime because he was too tired to cope with immigration inspection, and finally gave up returning to China.

Strength is a big game, and accounting is a big account. Moreover, human power is multidimensional and three-dimensional, and various forces can complement each other. For example, in the face of reality, courage and truth are actually fragile. Without other excellent strength, I'm afraid I can't protect them.

Therefore, Venus can enjoy a relatively large scale of freedom of speech and expression-not wronged by herself, not afraid of offending others, straightforward and sharp, or because she has other strength or freedom to be the bottom.

From gender freedom to freedom of language, freedom of migration, freedom of wealth and freedom of public opinion, Venus is always striving to expand the maximum free space for itself.

In response to the rumor of "blocking", the new program will be broadcast soon. There is never absolute freedom in this world. We can only earn the capital to trade with reality and exchange the greatest possible free space for ourselves.

Venus doesn't want to hide programs that have stopped.

Venus is also often outspoken on the show.

Venus' program was stopped, starting with a blind date in China.

"Some people say that the values of this program are incorrect, but what we show is actually a real social situation and a living social reality. Must we pretend not to see it? I put the reality out to arouse the audience's various discussions, right and wrong, leaving it to the audience to distinguish and argue. This is the value of this program, but unfortunately some leaders can't see this layer. "

Now, this program has stopped broadcasting, and the Zhang Guoli version of "New Blind Date in China" has started broadcasting.

After that, the "Golden Star Show", which had a great influence on public opinion, was stopped, causing public outcry.

Not long after, Paramount changed its name tonight after the end of the first season, and Venus was replaced. Rumor has it that "Venus is banned".

Venus denied the rumor of being "banned". "It is a fact to stop broadcasting, and the ban is purely speculation and rumor. Some people hope that the rumor that you are banned is true. " She said that so far, there is no red tape saying that Venus can't go on stage and the program can't be broadcast.

"I was invited to be a lecturer at the host training class organized by the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television." She said that Wu Yi, the former deputy prime minister of the State Council, also told her that she liked her program very much and praised her for grasping the bottom line well.

I know how to speak Chinese well.

This time, she chose to cooperate with the network platform instead of TV. Now the influence of the network platform is very great, and she also wants to make some new attempts. As for the topic direction of the program, it will also be social.

She said that from another perspective, it is actually a good thing and a buffer, giving everyone a chance to adjust and rethink.

In addition to the modification of the original program, another brand-new square dance program of hers will soon be launched on a domestic satellite TV platform, and the creative planning is her own:

"Meet people through the popular square dance and show the story of life. I am a dancer, which is very suitable for the topic of square dance; When it comes to chatting with ordinary people, there is no more suitable host in China than me.

She said that the audience's trust in her is her greatest value. Truth and sincerity are her greatest weapons as a host.

The following are some selected interviews.

1 Talking about value ranking My background and foundation is the stage. 20 17 years, I jumped more than 70 times. Almost every weekend on the stage. Talk show on Friday, dance on Saturday.

I have a great influence on TV, which is good. I can promote dance; The money I earn can support my dance company. Of course, the business of Venus Dance Company is doing well now, and it is completely self-sufficient. At this point, my heart is very balanced and my mind is very healthy. I have confidence.

However, my days are more important than my career. I get up at half past six in the morning, and then I watch Hans make breakfast in the kitchen. He did. I was in charge of the company, and then I went to work in the dance company at nine o'clock. Practice for two hours every morning, and the afternoon is the time for dance creation.

Go home for dinner after work. Especially when the children are around, I must have breakfast and dinner with them, because if you miss it, you can't make it up later. Usually children sleep at night. After 9: 00, friends will come home to chat, and then 1 1 arrive at 12 to go to bed on time.

Talking about money

I haven't made any commercial endorsements. I have to be responsible for endorsement. I don't earn this money. Money chasing you is the realm, not you chasing money. I'm chasing something. So my husband often applauds me and says hello, you can refuse money.

Spending money is an art. When I was not famous, it was not bad. I don't buy a house or a car. When I have no children, I take a taxi.

I always keep my distance from capital. If capital abducts my freedom, I don't want it. Because freedom is priceless.

Talking about success

This is a society of capital kidnapping, and everyone is looking for money. The media are advocating that everyone should be a boss, everyone should start a business and everyone should be a CEO. I don't think it can be adjusted, so I just want to be an ordinary employee and live an ordinary life. Why, not being a boss or a star is a failure? Are you kidding? You encourage college students to start businesses, but they haven't contacted the society yet. What kind of enterprises can they start? !

I was eager for success before, but later I learned that you should be patient. And there is no fixed standard for success. Your success has nothing to do with others.

I told myself from an early age that I would never be a starving artist in the future. I set a standard for myself. After 36, I will only fly first class in Venus. But this standard is set by myself, not by society. When I set a standard, I must work hard. I have many dreams, but I am not a dreamer. I make my dreams come true.

My children, when they were young, followed me in business class and hugged each other, but as soon as they entered the first grade of primary school, they were told to take economy class. The child asked me why, and I said that my mother also sat up from behind, and you are sitting up from there now. If you want to sit in the front in the future, you have to earn it yourself.

4 Talking about gender relations

We must put aside gender in our work.

Emotionally, there is still a difference between falling in love and starting a family, so you should choose clearly. When deciding to live together, marriage should know how to show weakness. Marriage is the result of compromise and tolerance.

When two people are together, it is impossible and unnecessary to agree. Life is 360 degrees, and the basic three views are similar. It is good to have a coincidence of 180 degrees. The remaining 180 degrees can be found by friends and colleagues. Why do you want an overlap of more than 200 degrees and more than 300 degrees? You can't be too greedy.

No one is perfect, you should allow yourself to have shortcomings and allow the other person to have shortcomings.

The most important thing to form a family is not similarity, but complementarity. Similarly, you should be friends and business partners.

My husband and I are very complementary. I am bold, my husband is cautious, and I don't have those. Every time I get angry with my child, he stares and I walk away.

Our children will say that our mother is the law, which is amazing, and our father is very humanistic. (Laughter)

Equality between men and women is not reflected in the so-called collocation of each other. Hans can't compare with me in economic strength and he can't compare with me in social expansion ability. His wife is also very capable, like a duck to water, but this inequality is no problem. People say this is Mr. Venus. He's fine, so am I. I won't say, why don't you work hard? This shows that you are not confident enough. According to the traditional view, if you think you have to be attached to a man to be valuable, or if you think your man is better than you to prove your value, then this is your problem.

The most important thing for men is a sense of responsibility. Respect for people, including respect for women, especially for women, will take a step back and make way, with self-restraint and self-cultivation. Hans has all these, but he doesn't have my earning power.

I told my children why I love your father so much because of his taste and patience. (Laughter) You see how tasteful he is in choosing a woman like me! I can also tolerate and understand such a woman. Why I won't cheat, because this man is too good and the cost of cheating is too high, forget it! (Laughter)

On August 18 this year, we will hold a wedding in Italy, witnessed by our children and relatives. I think this will have a very positive effect on children.

Talking about the future

Future? Let it be. I never thought I would be a host before.

I am an actor. As long as you give me a stage and open the curtain, I will give my best performance.

I have never left the stage.

Everyone has his own destiny. This is a limitation, but it may also be the key to success.

This is my favorite Venus, saying that she is like a Buddha. She asked that she follow the trend, but in good times, more people accepted and liked her. The most important thing is that she is a powerful speaker. Telling the truth means that you are better and harder than others, so it is also a good example for me. Come on!