What does it mean to be a mature woman now?

Mature women today, we actually need to redefine the word' mature women'. Xu, a consultant and master of consulting psychology at the Psychological Counseling Center of East China Normal University, said, "Mature women come from Japanese pornography, and now they generally refer to mature women aged 30 -50. But not all mature women are mature women. This is not just about sexual maturity. A truly mature woman should be economically independent, relatively successful in her career, rich in life experience, connotative, elegant in temperament, self-loving, confident and considerate. " Sexual maturity is the premise of mature women. Ge, a professor at the College of Literature of Shanghai University, recently completed a survey on "single communities in modern cities". Among those women who "actively" choose single status, "mature women" are relatively concentrated. Ge said, "The process of high-level singles in China has been gradual since the 1990s. With the gradual opening of society, the tolerance of society for single life is getting higher and higher, and the gradual prosperity of economy also provides the possibility for single life. Especially 1995, some white-collar women working in big companies in Shanghai got housing subsidies alone, which became a landmark event for singles, meaning that' one person can also form a family'. " With relatively mature economic conditions, it is very important for Ge Hongbing to independently control and exercise sexual rights. "Sexual maturity is a necessary and sufficient condition for mature women. They hold an open attitude towards sex, believing that sex is a tool for love and saving men, and no longer regards sex as a tool for possessing men and getting married. Ge Hongbing said. The ideal woman in his recently completed novel "Chopper" is based on "mature women". " They have more sympathy and understanding for men, will know how to save men selflessly through sex, and will have more maternal brilliance. Xu also believes that sexual maturity is one of the prerequisites for women to become "mature women". She said: "When women have sex, their psychology will undergo subversive changes. And sexual maturity will give women a new understanding of themselves. Women's sexual maturity is both physical and psychological. In addition to physical maturity, there are also psychological maturity including sexual skills. One of the manifestations of' familiarity' is' sexual maturity'. "Mature women emphasize sexy beauty or intellectual beauty. Once a lady smiled at the camera and said, "My skirt is very short and my high heels are very high!" " "After finishing this program, she became the idol of countless college boys. This lady is neither an actress nor an image designer. She is Ms. Ye Ying, vice president of Kodak Global. In the eyes of younger brothers, Ms. Ye Ying is definitely a super mature woman: not only because she has brains and her own career, but also because of her fierce competition and her feminine charm. "Recognizing sexual charm is a change in people's values and tastes." Ge Hong Bing said, "The group of mature women has always existed. Recently, it has been noticed and used by people, indicating that people are beginning to agree with women's understanding of themselves. The word' mature woman' is a symbol of social openness. " "Since the 1960s, there has been a trend of' sexual liberation' in the West, which made people, especially women, pay attention to themselves, and feminism rose. Mature women are actually the embodiment of this essence. " Xu believes that change begins with ideas, but ideas need economic conditions and social environment as support. All these are realized, and women can be "familiar" from the inside out. Compared with the expert's point of view, the image of "mature woman" is obviously more intellectual in the public mind. Just like the survey of "Beautiful Mature Women in Men's Eyes" conducted in Taiwan Province Province for men of different ages of 20, 30 and 40, men of different ages have the same choice of beautiful mature women. Nearly 55% of the respondents believe that mature women should have three necessary characteristics: confident brilliance, mature sexy charm, intellectual connotation and thinking, in order to meet the optimal conditions for their communication. "Mature women are a general term for women in their peak period. "Ge Hongbing believes that these are the qualities that people should have at their peak. Huang Jiwei, an interpreter of fashion vocabulary, said, "It's like the words' rookie' and' ashes'. The word "mature woman" is relative to "green". The' ripe' of' ripe female' refers to all experiences and experiences. "As time goes by, the public will have a deeper understanding of' mature women'. Nowadays, the word "mature woman" not only contains the ambiguous information of "sexual maturity", but also contains higher requirements for women. This requirement expresses women's yearning and pursuit for perfection from the outside to the inside. The charm of a woman is not in her age, especially in a woman with temperament, the calm smile she sees, the calmness of being humiliated, the calmness of the wind and the demeanor of a mature woman. Women who can be called mature naturally reach mature age. What they have experienced, felt, surprised and sad are all deposited in their hearts, deeply accumulated and condensed into a deep look and a casual smile on their lips. This charm takes time to practice, comes from the heart and is not easy to radiate. Mature women are good at hiding and discovering, they are good at decorating themselves, know themselves very well, don't like blind obedience, and have their own principles. They advocate simple life and don't like affectation and posturing. Even if you are already in the middle and high income level, you are still low-key and introverted, and you are pursuing your true self. " Connotative, knowledgeable and confident "is equivalent to" charming ". This sentence seems specious to men, but it is actually insincere. It is not as real as "looking comfortable and getting along comfortably". However, it is a "mature woman" who can reach this level. Comfortable "can be said to be a state of" mature women "they think is perfect. Literally refers to mature women. According to folk slang, this is an overcooked peach. Ripe peaches, youth has gradually drifted away, the key is the code name of the old woman. I read the novel The Roar of a Lost Dog by Japanese writer Toshiko Sakai earlier. In her novels, Toshiko Sakai calls single unmarried women over 30 who have no children "lost dogs", which has become one of the buzzwords of the year in Japan. The word "mature woman" is a word spread from Japanese entertainment circle. "Mature women" originally refers to single young women over the age of 30, which means that they are no longer young, their faces are fading, and they are uncomfortable in life and work. Now, the meaning of "mature woman" has gradually evolved into a compliment. On July 18, 2006, there was an article entitled "The Latest Popular Words in China" in the British BBC Chinese website, which explained the popular meaning of "mature women". The article said: "Mature woman" is a very popular word recently, which means mature beauty and means "a lady is mature". Although they are no longer young and conquer men with beautiful faces and figures, they are elegant, pure and sexy, independent and confident, experienced, talented, tender, connotative and amorous. Women in China now want to be so beautiful, so the word "mature woman" has become popular. Therefore, anyone who is called a "mature woman" means that this woman is comfortable in her work and life, handles it well, and has a mature, confident and fashionable taste that people can't catch up with or at least envy. As a result, "mature women" became popular all the way. The fashion circle seems to prefer "mature women". Many high-end brands are aiming at "mature women" movie stars. Kim Bessinger, a 52-year-old actress, shot her first advertisement for MiuMiu in American Vogue magazine, and Halle Berry, the Oscar winner, spoke for the Italian fashion brand Versace. Julia, the super winner, spoke for Italian fashion brand GianfrancoFerre, actress Drew barrymore spoke for Italian fashion brand Missoni, and sexy actress Sharon Stone was also invited as Dior's global skin care spokesperson. Take Maggie Cheung, our nearest "mature woman". It is estimated that not many people like her once invincible image of youth, but her now "mature woman" image makes both men and women feel distressed. It can be said that "mature women" are popular!