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Human nature asks, why do you love to "strike up a conversation"?

So-and-so star appeared on the stage and rushed into the audience with braids. Dress free from vulgarity, lead the trend, twist the waist and swing the hips, and be free from vulgarity. Shake your head and pose, the action is novel and unparalleled. Hippies kiss fans and scream, promote literature or fool around? From the first line to the eighteenth line in "Celebrity on the Internet", they all follow suit and look good. BLACKPINK's debut leads the trend and fashion. Ancient and modern China and foreign countries can't avoid customs, and this countercurrent is popular all over the world.

The word "solid" in Shaanxi dialect usually refers to putting on airs, punching a swollen face and filling a fat man. "Solid" is often used as a derogatory term to describe some people's posturing or bluffing, especially those who put on airs, play big, put on airs, are not fat enough to support their stomachs, are not thin enough to support their shelves, and even show off their strength. In fact, it is one of China people's hobbies to "build momentum". The reason is that it is a gesture to show its extraordinary existence, reflecting the secularity of an era and people's mental state, and it is a false performance and packaging. In recent years, this social phenomenon has intensified and spread to people of different ages. Some people learn from others, and so do some toddlers in Handan. This trend has been filled with some WeChat businesses for some time. It has become the "show" of some people with poor spirit, poor economy, insufficient energy and little knowledge, and has become rich, fat, talented and superhuman, satisfying vanity and showing off wealth 13, which is quite different from some fine styles of the Chinese nation, such as being practical, humble, honest and low-key!

"Iron Stone" reflects some people's mental state and attitude towards life. It is understandable that people should pursue and realize their dreams. But be down-to-earth, and don't be vain and unrealistic. Examining its performance, the author thinks that love has the following intentions: to show off wealth and satisfy abnormal psychology; Follow the trend, follow the trend; Professional needs, detonating fans' eyes; Unconventional, show your extraordinary self; Gold-plated powder, showing self-worth; Boring imitation, novel stimulation; Beauty and ugliness are indistinguishable, IQ is in arrears, and brain damage. ...

At all times, at home and abroad, this phenomenon of "setting up the stage" is too numerous to mention. With the development of society, people's outlook on life, values and cognitive level will be different. In order to whitewash their own packaging, attract attention and earn traffic, some people will attract the attention of the public through unconventional and distinctive actions!

There were also in ancient times. As early as the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Yan Zi, the prime minister of Qi State, had a coachman to drive the car for him. On the road, the driver's wife saw Yanzi's husband sitting under the luxurious hood before driving, urging four big horses to be in high spirits and very complacent, and going home for a divorce. The driver is very confused. His wife says that Yan Zi has a high position and prestige, but she is deep and humble. But you are just a cocky groom. What can you expect? It can be seen that the psychology of "chatting up" has existed since ancient times, and this kind of "chatting up" is not desirable! You need to be cautious and modest, and don't show off. Only by achieving "high-end atmosphere and high grade" can we achieve "low-key luxury and connotation".

In order to win the full house and achieve the desired effect, the star network red "tied the momentum" and took pains again and again, vowing not to give up until the goal is achieved. Have you ever found that some people wear big sunglasses, hold brand-name bags and slap Hanako's ass in order to overcome the addiction of pretending to be a big boss? "Big gold chain and small gold watch, three small barbecues a day", and other things are bulging around the waist, looking like "nouveau riche". When they looked at the price tag, they nodded and said, "The price is low." In dialect, it means "a local dog has the potential of a German shepherd"! When there are many pedestrians on the road, his mobile phone rings "XX treasure arrives at one million", which surprises passers-by's eyes. He also likes to talk on the phone while walking, "Boss X, when will the W funds for our cooperation arrive?" Others thought it was the Prince of Dubai traveling incognito. I met an acquaintance for dinner at the hotel and left quickly. Before leaving, I said to my friend, "Take your time, please forgive me." I said to the waiter, "that table is my friend, and the bill is in my name." Then he took a toothpick and left. The waiter looked puzzled and asked the front desk manager who was who? The front desk manager shook his head and didn't know him. This situation makes people unprepared and can't help laughing. I don't see it, not because I don't know much, but because I always like to talk. Have you noticed that he is a small leader who has no "taste", but he always likes to put on airs, else, hum with his nose when he speaks, and the shelf is too big to get off the stage, but in the end he can't call his father ... These "ties" are really toads lying on the road-disguised as camouflage jeeps. Have you noticed that luxury shops, luxury real estate, western food, Japanese food, casinos ..., places where you can spend a lot of money, in order to seize the momentum, bloom for yourself, and let others see, no matter who you are, no matter where you come from, don't steal the limelight, compete with me, there is huge space and stage for you to display, and if you drink too much, you will shake.

You can't kill people with a stick. If it is hard-earned money, it is understandable to splurge and show off, because some people believe that "wealth does not return, such as a night trip", so people are embarrassed to go out. But for those who are unknown, inherited from their ancestors and don't feel bad about "spending money", this "tie potential" can't help but consider their virtue!

"Iron stone" is also limited by some people's cognition, vision and realm of "sitting in a well and watching the sky". Due to the general improvement of people's living standards, some people are sincerely satisfied with "showing off wealth also has capital, and you don't have this capital if you want to show off wealth!" A q-type satisfaction!

Iron stone is like a man who can lift a weight easily: he tries to iron stone, but he doesn't move because he lacks strength. He can only confuse the audience with his lame performance, saying that "this is pediatrics, too light", which makes people feel unfathomable and unclear.

Isn't it? Whether it is "rice is like a tiger, the salary is 2500 at a glance" or "rice is like a cow", in our time, there are many real cows that don't show their mountains and rivers, and most of them dress up as pigs to eat tigers. The ancients all understood this truth. The original text of Li Gang's Theory of Destiny in the Three Kingdoms period is as follows: "Therefore, the wood in the forest is beautiful and the wind will be destroyed; When piled up on the shore, the water will surge; The line is higher than the people, and the public will not. Not far from the front line, just on the track. " Who doesn't understand the truth that "the neck is rotten first"? After all, "low-key is the most awesome show off".

In today's society, if you work hard, you will get something, but if you have talent, you will not bury it. Neither the place of origin nor the region can stop you from glowing! As long as you are good enough, you can live a wonderful life and get recognition. Of course, strugglers and strugglers achieve "brilliance", and naturally "the wine is not afraid of the deep alley." The "medal" won by hard work is cast with sweat and is an affirmation of hard work.

In a society, if everyone is complacent, mediocre and enterprising, without honor and pride, what will happen? Will definitely be eliminated by society! We will also be full of pride and cheers when we succeed-but this is not the same concept as the "tie situation" and has a completely different meaning. On the contrary, it is commendable and advocated.

The trick of "talking up the momentum" is inseparable from any era. Some characters in the film, such as Japanese devils who show their right to kill innocent people with swords, robbers and executioners who invaded other countries ... In a football match between Iran and Spain, Iranian player Mo hammadi tried to throw a foul ball in a somersault, but he screwed up and failed to become a laughing stock. It is recognized that sometimes strength is really needed to "tie the momentum". It is a symbol of strength to "kill" others by strength and "tie the momentum", which is not derogatory.

Social progress needs more elites as the country moves towards faster, higher, stronger and more United pace. Rejuvenating the country through science and technology is inseparable from the talent strategy. No matter who works hard, you will win the crown of social life! If a country wants to stand in the forest of the world, it must stand on its own feet, because "falling behind will be beaten." As long as it has enough strength, it will beat the shit out of some countries that have "tied the momentum" and go back to their hometown to publicize our prestige and expand our ambitions! This kind of "forced" practice with strength will scare off some invaders with ulterior motives and make them dare not "frivolous" easily!

The arena of life is surging, and life is as colorful as a song No matter what the situation is, the stages of life need to struggle! If you don't shine, even if you are "imposing", others will sneer at you and regard you as a wild crane in the clouds! You are brilliant, and your life will be poetic without "imposing manner"; Become an example to everyone, "peaches and plums don't say anything, and there will be a way next time." When it is in full bloom, the butterfly will come!