/kloc-What should I do if my 0/7-year-old daughter goes to high school and lives with her classmates?

After discovering their daughter's puppy love, every parent is estimated to be depressed. I don't know how to get involved in this matter in order to solve the problem without hurting the children.

Parents should not rush to ask their children for proof or educate them with some principles after they know that their children are puppy love. Doing so will only scare them and make them erect a protective wall for you, thus losing the opportunity to continue to pay attention to and guide them.

Never: Beating and scolding children and hitting Yuanyang by high-handed means are absolutely not acceptable. First of all, be calm.

Beat about the bush method: don't tell your child about the breakdown of puppy love, just discuss it with your daughter in daily life, and don't talk too much. Just talk about her views on puppy love from the perspective of some people around her or those who have experienced it, and also guide the child to talk about her own views on puppy love. Both sides can refute each other, but don't say anything. It's time to sound the alarm for the children.

Ways to face the problem:

1), take out the information in your hand and let the children talk about their opinions.

2) Parents admit that it is normal for teenagers to feel hazy about the opposite sex, and the key depends on how to deal with it.

3) Let the daughter think: That boy has certain advantages, but is it worth risking his youth and future for him?

4) Parents and daughters discuss how to correctly handle the relationship between study and feelings.

Home-school cooperation, two-pronged:

Parents communicate with the class teacher, formulate cooperation strategies, deepen the baby's correct understanding of puppy love, divert the baby's attention through study or extracurricular activities, and guide her to grow up actively and healthily.

As a parent, you can guide and escort your daughter in her growth, but don't control or arrange her feelings in the name of love to manipulate her choices.