The reason why a middle-aged man is afraid to go out to play on a business trip turns out to be …

I came to Xiamen on business yesterday afternoon, but I finished my work this morning. I had nothing to do in the afternoon, so I rested in the hotel all afternoon until I went out to eat at night, and then I went back to the hotel.

Video chat with your lover at night. My lover asked me what I did this afternoon. I didn't say anything, so I rested in the hotel.

The lover asked again, didn't you go out to play?

I said no.

The lover then asked why he didn't go out to play.

I said, middle-aged people don't like to go out to play, mainly because:

Not in the mood to play.

Perhaps because of my personal character, I have never been interested in sightseeing. I just feel that I am watching mountains, rivers, flowers, trees and people in another place.

And now the mobile phone information network is so developed that many places or beautiful scenery are not as good as those in video photos.

Of course, some people say that we should often go out and see the outside world, increase our knowledge, broaden our horizons, and let individuals grow and progress.

There is no denying that there is some truth, but that is for young people who have just started their careers or just stepped into society. For a person like me who is about to enter middle age, I have gained knowledge and vision, and I understand what I will depend on for food in the future. Therefore, these are not attractive and meaningless to me.

Since my heart didn't run out and my feet naturally didn't move, I stayed in the hotel honestly.

Look at mobile phone articles and feel the artistic beauty brought by words.

Tired.

I didn't sleep well last night, but I was busy this morning. I'm running around, and the phone keeps ringing. I have been busy until one o'clock and come out for lunch by bus. It's almost two o'clock when I return to the hotel after dinner.

Unlike those guys who toss around all morning and then go out for a walk after lunch, they can only say that they are full of energy, or they may be young.

On the other hand, I want to go back to the hotel and have a good rest after dinner. I know in my heart that going out shopping is very tiring. I don't usually spend time with my lover, children or other important people. I still think it's better to stay, read books or do something meaningful to kill time and restrain myself.

Afraid of spending money.

When I have a job and a salary after graduating from college, I have no idea about saving money and spending money. Buy whenever you want, and use whenever you want, so that you haven't saved any money for several years after graduation. Later, when I was a little older, everyone considered buying a house, but I looked at the poor figure of the bank card and couldn't help sighing. Why do I have no money?

When I grow up, especially after the results, I find that money is becoming less and less durable, such as buying a car, buying a house, decorating, having children to buy milk powder, diapers, and so on.

For the expenses and expenses other than the necessities of life, it is not like the one who just graduated from college.

The saddest thing now is that saving money has no extra income except dead wages. The only way to get rich is to save money. If you want to save money, you must save money. Those who can spend less spend less and those who can spend less don't spend.

Of course, this is a requirement for yourself. I am strict with myself and lenient with others.

I always do the same thing. I don't smoke, I don't go to bars, I don't pick up girls, and I drink occasionally when friends and relatives get together.

But for wives, children and elders, the flowers should be spent. After all, in this life, besides money, there are family ties and love.

Finally, after chatting with my lover, my lover suddenly said, how do you feel that we are really middle-aged?

I said, although not in age, but definitely in mentality and behavior.

I read many articles about middle-aged life on the Internet.

I feel the same way here.

Also pay tribute to those middle-aged people who are still persisting in life and striving for progress!