Only 30 years old: Wang Manni was cheated by her feelings, and she should find a slap in the face. Any tips from the cruise chef?

To prevent this, we should not be too impulsive and calm in everything, just like Gu Jia, who is 30 years old. Girlfriend Wang Manni has a problem with Liang Zhengxian, saying that he is single. Suddenly, her real girlfriend of seven years, Zhao Jingyu, went directly to Wang Manni to declare war. Not only defended her position, but also slapped Wang Manni and their store. It means that although she and Liang Zhengxian didn't get the license, their relatives and friends recognized their relationship. Wang Manni is just a pastime when he travels from one place to another. Once he is tired, let Zhao Jingyu come out to help him with his things. These remarks naturally hurt Wang Manni seriously, not only emotionally, but also seriously damaged her self-esteem. For a while, I couldn't accept that Wang Manni went to Gu Jia to seek comfort. The general idea that Gu Jia persuaded her was this: "Maybe this is not the case. You don't trust strangers. Ask Liang Zhengxian yourself ... "

This comfort seems simple and unremarkable, but it is wise and correct. Many relatives and friends encounter this kind of thing, most of them help to scold the guy who hurts their own people indiscriminately, and even go out to find each other in person. People who seem brave and are helping to protect themselves are actually very helpful, or may lead to more rigid and complicated relationships. It was supposed to be calm, but it got noisy and more complicated. For example, Zhou Fang in "Happiness at Your fingertips" misunderstood her boyfriend Song Lin. Before she knew the truth, she ran away and broke up, and her best friend Qin Qing found Song Lin and threw water at him in public, warning him to stay away from Zhou Fang in the future. In fact, these practices are not very good, and it is easy to deepen misunderstanding or throw them away. Of course, the point is not here, but to discuss the fear of misunderstanding caused by impulse. It is naturally wrong to trust a stranger who speaks ill of his lover. Even if he is in doubt, he should ask the client himself or find out the truth by other means. Try not to misunderstand the person you love, don't miss it, don't be wronged, don't be confused, don't be impulsive, and don't let "strangers" succeed.

As for Rainbow Manny, I listened to Gu Jia, asked Liang Zhengxian, gave him a chance to explain, and quietly flew to his house to find out. Until I heard Liang Zhengxian say, "Aren't you good with her?" I completely lost my heart. Although it hurts a little more, only in this way can I clearly understand that people are at ease and are conducive to a firm and clean start.