Did Zhang Zhangjin break up? After Kim cheated, Zhang said it was a misunderstanding.

# Zhang Fawen said that Jin was derailed #

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Less than four months after the official announcement, something happened to Kim and Zhang.

/kloc-In the early morning of 0/8, Zhang issued a document in Weibo accusing her boyfriend Jin of cheating on her husband and looking for the periphery. "On the night of my grandmother's death, you were still looking for the periphery, and the micro-signals in another mobile phone were all peripheral. Now you've been looking for something all night to find a woman, and you deliberately quarreled with me and went to another room on the same floor of the hotel? Love rat! "

In the middle of the night, affectionate men and women are always the most easily troubled by feelings. During the day, they can control their emotions. At midnight, it is easy to do something out of line because of emotional venting.

In addition, Zhang also exposed their chat records, one of which showed that his girlfriend was too safe, and the more he wanted to put the part beyond safety above himself, the more he wanted to go out for a drink with girls.

Before everyone woke up to eat melons, Zhang sent a message at one o'clock and four o'clock in the morning, saying that he was just misunderstanding: "I'm sorry, everyone didn't cheat, there was no periphery, just misunderstanding, plus drinking too much and quarreling. I've made it clear that I've caused you trouble at midnight. Sorry. "

Such a confusing behavior that some netizens commented: If you are kidnapped, blink.

Regarding this matter, Kim has not responded at present, and it seems to me that there is nothing to respond. Since it was a misunderstanding, the woman has already explained it, and he doesn't need to explain it again. If he comes out to talk, the two will definitely break up.

After Zhang exposed Kim's infidelity, it was also called misunderstanding. How to comment on this matter? What I want to say is that no matter whether Kim's affair is true or not, they should not continue to talk about this love.

Think about it carefully, if it is really a misunderstanding, Zhang has already filed a big complaint without conclusive evidence. Can you still have such a girlfriend?

If it really wasn't a misunderstanding and Zhang was threatened to delete the article after complaining, could their relationship continue? Whether a boyfriend like Kim makes people think carefully is extremely scary.

So, whether it is true or not, don't continue to talk about this love.

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Let's start with the first case: as Zhang said, it was just a misunderstanding.

This involves the sense of security of girls in love. In fact, in the process of falling in love, many girls will, like Zhang, suspect that their boyfriends are cheating, and they will also have the same WeChat quarrel and chat records, but if you don't have conclusive evidence, you'd better not make a mountain out of a molehill. Think clearly, what is the purpose of your brain?

If you are just suspicious, your noisy and open chat record will not have any good effect, and it will only make him farther and farther away from you. If you really want to break up, you can do whatever you want, but you can't "publicly punish" without thinking, especially without a hammer.

Zhang told me that this was just a misunderstanding. What does that mean? It was she who misunderstood Kim and then acted irrational. Who can stand such a girlfriend? I'm not saying that the victim is guilty, but that Zhang's handling method is completely wrong.

Kim once said that his girlfriend is too insecure. The more she wants to put the part other than safety above herself, the more he wants to go out for a drink with girls. Some netizens think this sentence is very slag. I don't think it's more angry remarks, but the different ways men and women treat feelings. Girls always think that you will care about me if I make trouble, but this way of making trouble will only drive boys away.

Girls should not be too headstrong in love. Every time you are willful, you make the boy give in. Instead of winning, you are pushing him further and further in extreme ways.

So, how can we make girls feel safe in love?

What I want to say is, don't make unwarranted speculation about your feelings, you should focus on improving yourself. It is useless to doubt whether there is an affair, and it is useless to "hit" a boy with a real case. If he really cheated, it can only prove that he is love rat, so we broke up.

Let's talk about the second situation first: if there is no misunderstanding, Kim is derailed.

If Zhang was threatened and then deleted the article and lied about misunderstanding, how could such love continue? Especially when your lover made a mistake and didn't know it. Zhang's behavior is even more puzzling. What are you doing if you don't break up with such a boyfriend?

Feelings, the cornerstone of loyalty, cannot be squandered. If you touch the bottom line, the wall of trust between you will collapse, and you two can't continue. There is nothing to forgive for cheating, but it is tolerable in marriage and intolerable in love.

So here I remind some girls: If you find your boyfriend cheating in love, please break up decisively. We should learn from Rachel Momo's decisiveness, instead of boys making you feel indifferent. Emotion is the most insignificant thing. Cheating is only zero times, countless times. You will cheat when you are in love. How do two people talk?

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Four months ago, when Kim officially announced their relationship in Weibo, it was actually quite likable, and everyone gave them more blessings. We all like pure love and hate disloyal betrayal.

Loyalty and trust are the cornerstones of two people's love, and they can't be squandered at will.

Teacher Tu Lei once said, "Men are affectionate and long-lasting, while women are infatuated and heartless. When a woman is infatuated, a man is affectionate, but after a woman is heartless, a man becomes long-lasting. All the unruly past has hurt yourself and overdrawn the trust of others. "

Please take this matter seriously. If you are absurd and affectionate, two people will break up sooner or later.

A mistake that touches the bottom line cannot be easily forgiven by simply saying sorry; Sometimes, the harm caused by infidelity will not fade with the passage of time, but will become a knot in my heart that cannot be opened. It is the same for two people to deal with each other's emotional problems. If they don't handle it properly, it's easy to bury the knot, their feelings will be hurt, and finally they won't make it to the end.

Let each other grow up and don't be emotionally confused.

If you love, love well. Don't speculate until you catch the hammer. If so, please break up and fly away. Don't think that if you forgive something, it will pass. Facts have proved that things that touch the bottom line cannot be a thing of the past. In addition, girls' sense of security in love comes from themselves, not from their partners.

Today's topic: How do you evaluate Zhang's confused behavior? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.

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