Have you been denied the opportunity to add WeChat by female colleagues?

Honestly, I may have asked for it. There is a female colleague in our company who just graduated from college this year, but we are not from the same department and our relationship is limited to understanding. I think she has worked overtime for several hours without a car, and our company is far from the subway station. I can't bear to see her walk so far at night. I sent her home on the principle of being a gentleman, and she followed me!

She started looking for me frequently, first in the company, obviously not in a department. Why are you looking for me? I can't teach her anything, and the company has arranged for seniors to take her. Every time I see her, I'm scared. Besides, she will come to have dinner with me at noon, which is really annoying.

Secondly, I will send her. Whether I work overtime or not, I will habitually let me see her off. If I work overtime and leave late, she will wait for me. Isn't this a waste of time? I will go out alone during the holiday. I'd rather watch the huge online live broadcast at home, really! But I'm too embarrassed to refuse her. It's always troublesome I want to keep my distance from her, but she will insist on it.

Although I have been single for almost a year, my last relationship hit me hard, so I am still in the healing stage. I don't agree with the view that "to cure lovelorn, you should start a new relationship". I think this is irresponsible to others.

I hinted to her that I had no idea about love now, and she didn't have any special reaction. She also said that she and her boyfriend felt that they were about to break up, and she had no idea about love. ...

However, she still sticks to me in the company and still sticks to me after work. Last time she moved, she called me to help her. I am particularly reluctant to part with it. She just felt a little begging. It's pathetic. I work here alone and don't know anyone else, but I really don't want to be a free laborer! Please tell me how to refuse her.

What you are doing now is too tactful and unprincipled, that is, if her tone is soft and pitiful, you can't persist. She may regard you as dependence, not necessarily love, but dependence is easy to deteriorate, so she should refuse in private.