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Long-distance travel is the fastest and best way to understand a person's personality.
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A domestic friend came to Australia for his honeymoon, and we joined a tour group to travel to Sydney. One day, we went to the Blue Mountain. We were picked up by a bus, which may be the last one to come to our hotel. After getting on the bus, we found that there was only one seat in the last row and next to the driver. Before we could talk, my friend's husband said he was carsick and sat down next to the driver.
At first, the car was still laughing. At the end of the blue mountain, there is a winding mountain road with many bends. It's quiet in the car. I feel my stomach turning. Finally, I arrived at the Blue Mountain. After getting off the bus, people suddenly felt much more comfortable. But my friend is sick and ready to cry. Her husband hugged her and said, "Drink some water, and it will be all right in a minute."
On the way back, my friend's husband got on the bus and sat in the co-pilot position again and again. I was a little angry and thought, what kind of husband is this? It's really embarrassing to know that my wife is particularly uncomfortable with carsickness and go to the front to sit alone. I didn't speak when I saw my friend, and I was embarrassed to say anything. On the way to the last row, a big sister in the middle gave her seat to a friend.
The group we signed up for is a small group, with a total of *** 10. The tour guide stipulates to meet at the gate of the hotel at eight o'clock every day, and the restaurant serves breakfast at half past six in the morning. On the first day, my friend and her husband were late 15 minutes. When they were late for the second time, other tourists on the bus began to complain to the tour guide that they were wasting everyone's time.
When I returned to the hotel in the evening, while her husband was away, I said to her, "Can you get up early tomorrow and meet me downstairs on time? Other tourists have always complained to the tour guide these two days. "
Just then, my friend's husband came back. He asked what we were talking about. After a friend told her, she didn't expect her husband to say, "Isn't traveling just to relax?" It's like a war. You start so early every day. When you are not at work at home, sleep until you wake up naturally every day. I was just a few minutes late this morning. When I am free, don't people often come back on time! "
I was speechless, and my friend spat out his tongue to apologize to me. On the third day, she just pulled her husband out of bed early and finally didn't arrive late.
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Not long ago, my friend Cancan complained to me that she went out to travel with some friends, and the expenses were AA. They gave some money in advance to a friend named Xiaoli for unified management, and then Xiaoli used the money to pay for meals, accommodation, tickets and transportation. Xiaoli and Cancan usually have a good relationship, but this trip together completely changed her impression of Xiaoli.
When eating, Xiaoli scrambled to order food, which she liked and didn't ask others whether they liked it or not. When eating, I try to put the dishes in a bowl for fear that I will suffer. Every day after dinner, she uses public funds to buy many snacks in the supermarket. Other friends didn't eat it, so she took it back to the hotel for fear of gaining weight at night. At first, she didn't have much money, but her haggling behavior disgusted everyone.
All the itineraries were designed brilliantly, and several other friends were consulted in advance. They are all lazy, so let them arrange themselves beautifully. For this trip, Cancan spent half a month looking for local delicious and interesting places after dinner every day. After making a plan, send it to everyone. No one raised any objection until we set out.
Some tourist attractions need to walk, plus the hot weather, everyone is a little tired. Xiaoli's face suddenly stinks, and everyone cares about her, and she has been complaining about why she came to this place and walked so far.
Cancan was very unhappy and said to Xiaoli, "I worked hard to make a plan, so don't thank me." Before departure, the itinerary was distributed to everyone, and no one raised any questions. Up to now, when I am tired, I begin to blame others. Why didn't you mention it when I showed you the plan? Xiaoli whispered, "How did I know I had to go so far? I know I won't come. "In the next few days, I didn't talk to Xiaoli again, and then I went out to travel. Nobody wants Xiaoli to go with him.
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During the trip, we can see many details about how a person treats others, and we can also learn more or less about each other's outlook on life and values. Usually good friends, as long as you travel together, you will find that the other person is different from usual. Some people say "it doesn't matter" and "whatever" before they leave, and they have opinions and complaints when they arrive at their destination. Others, when it comes to their own interests, will be self-centered regardless of other people's feelings.
In fact, most people can pretend to be charitable when they are comfortable. Once you travel for a long time, staying together day and night for a long time will make people gradually lose their disguise. Especially when people are tired, their behavior is easily out of the control of the brain and becomes emotional, depressed, negative and irritable, but it is also the time to see the gap between people. Unfamiliar environment, sudden situation at any time, coupled with the fatigue of the journey, some people only have themselves in their eyes and hearts, exposing their essence.
A person's accomplishment depends on his appearance when he is tired. He can be considerate of others and know how to control himself when he is physically and mentally exhausted, instead of throwing his bad mood to others casually. Such people are truly cultivated and of good quality, and deserve to make friends.
Long-distance travel can also "see" whether a person is suitable for living together. Of course, long-distance travel is only one way to test, but it is not the only way. For example, whether his attitude towards you and others is compassionate or selfish, whether he will deal with problems calmly or emotionally, and how to deal with and coordinate your differences will clearly send you many signals, so that you can see whether you are harmonious or not.
In fact, travel is a mirror, reflecting the quality of others and yourself.
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