What does "spell marriage" mean?

In order to save costs, several couples meet to take wedding photos, buy furniture and appliances, and spend their honeymoon together ... through "spelling marriage", they can enjoy preferential "group purchase price", thus reducing the cost of marriage. But there will be conflicts in favorable places, because personal characteristics and uneven interests can easily lead to interpersonal disputes or resentment. Fight for marriage [edit this paragraph] Overview Nowadays, the cost of marriage is rising, which makes the "fight for marriage" family appear after punching cards, carpooling and cooking. In order to save costs, several couples meet to take wedding photos together, buy furniture and appliances together, and travel on their honeymoon together ... They can enjoy the preferential "group purchase price" through "spelling marriage", thus reducing the cost of marriage. [1][ Edit this paragraph] Background Introduction Many young people plan to prepare for the wedding, but they encounter a lot of troubles. Wedding studios, restaurants, wedding reservations and car rental services are full every day, so it is not so easy to choose a good day. Therefore, spelling marriage has become a helpless choice. When several couples happen to have similar wedding dates and similar personality tastes, a kind of "spell marriage" similar to group buying caters to the actual needs of young people to save worry and money when raising marriage. Spelling marriage cannot be understood as "spelling" to get married together, which is similar to holding a group wedding. Instead, it is mainly for getting married together, that is, preparing before marriage. Some wedding banquets are held separately at the same time and place, and the honeymoon after marriage is a group tour. From the reservation of the wedding banquet, the purchase of candy, tobacco and alcohol, to the wedding photography, the bride's makeup and the "enjoyment of resources" of the wedding host. [2][ Edit this paragraph] The characteristics of "spelling marriage" are usually carried out in online forums and QQ groups. In addition to relatives, friends and colleagues, there are also many strangers, but most of the "marriage-fighting families" are "post-80 s" However, in the interview, although most prospective newlyweds have heard of the word "spell marriage", they will not try it for various reasons. Some said, "It's too much trouble to fight for marriage. It's best that both sides have similar personalities, preferences, styles and economic conditions, so they can only piece together when they get along, otherwise conflicts will easily arise." Others said: "Marriage is a big deal, and it is too shameful to fight for it." However, from wedding photography, to buying candy, tobacco and alcohol, to booking a wedding banquet and hosting a wedding ceremony, the "marriage-fighting family" who seems to save money and worry is not necessarily completely trouble-free. Some citizens are already full of anger because they want to "fight for marriage" to save money. In order to save money, "fight for marriage" and "when prices go up, the cost of marriage goes up, so we can save money by fighting together." Mr. Xiong, who talked about the price in a wedding photography building, calculated an account for the reporter: "The big heads of buying a house, decoration, furniture and home appliances are not counted first, and the clothes, shoes and rings of the daughter-in-law are almost10000; My clothes cost about 3000 yuan; All kinds of odds and ends cost about 3000 yuan, as well as wedding day gifts, alcohol, tobacco and sugar thousands of dollars. If we work together, many people will get great discounts, and group buying will save money. Counting it, the whole wedding can probably save thousands of dollars. " Most people get married, preparations and wedding procedures have been standardized. Therefore, some young people suggest combining the repeated parts with others to save wedding expenses and make full use of wedding supplies. Zhang Xiaohua and Chen Hui, who live near Bayi Bridge, are good friends. Their approach is to choose the same month to hold a wedding and book the same hotel. They bought air conditioners, refrigerators, televisions and other household appliances together, and the air conditioner alone saved more than 400 yuan. At the same time, they made an appointment with some friends who had a close divorce to order wedding candy. Usually you can only get a 10% discount. Let's buy it together and get a 15% discount. Group buying like this saves a lot of money. Keep your eyes open to prevent merchants from raising prices. Deputy Director Cheng of the Economic Research Institute of the Provincial Academy of Social Sciences told reporters that everything has advantages and disadvantages. How to satisfy every couple's wishes as much as possible requires the organizer to have certain organizational ability. At the same time, she believes that "spelling marriage" also has risks. Many merchants also understand that the marriage-fighting families come to bargain, so it is easy for some "marriage-fighting families" to raise prices, so the marriage-fighting families should keep their eyes open and not be confused by some phenomena. [Edit this paragraph] has no effect on your marriage. The main thing is whether you can really save money. As a new popular product, we should first consider whether the marriage time is close when accepting it. In addition, because many people work short hours, most people don't have much savings. In the face of this great event in life, we should avoid unnecessary troubles in the future. Everything has interests and conflicts. How to satisfy the wishes of each new couple as much as possible requires the organizer to have certain organizational ability. Marriage is a financial behavior, an economic phenomenon, not a social behavior. So it has no effect on the marriage itself. [2][ Edit this paragraph] The market obviously has an acceptance process for the fashionable and trendy marriage method of "spelling marriage". "In our place, it is very common to get discounts through group buying. We have never received real wedding guests such as wedding banquet, wedding dress and makeup artist in the same hotel. Personally, I feel that the operability is not strong. If you burn a hole in your wedding dress, you have to pay hundreds. If something goes wrong, it is difficult to determine whether the two sides share the responsibility or shirk each other. " Li Yan of Nanjing Pan American Wedding Company said frankly. However, he also said that "spelling marriage" for the purpose of saving money will still become the choice of many people. [Edit this paragraph] Precautions "spelling marriage" is by no means suitable for everyone. Couples who are demanding and want different weddings are unlikely to "spell marriage". All aspects of marriage cannot be "spelled out" at once. Couples can spell dresses and enjoy a suit. If disinfection and cleaning are not in place, there will be health problems. Photographers and makeup artists can only serve a few new people every day. Once they are in several couples, the quality of service is bound to suffer. Marriage is done by colleagues and friends. The risk of spelling marriage is that it is not easy to verify the authenticity of the spelling marriage object you know through the internet, so you need to take precautions. Here, I would like to remind prospective newcomers who are keen on "spelling marriage" that while enjoying the benefits brought by "spelling marriage", they should also pay attention to the possible risks brought by "spelling marriage". The so-called spell marriage is not a collective wedding, but several brides get married together with a dress and a dowry. More unique experiences in life make it easier to leave a deep memory for yourself. But there will be conflicts in favorable places, because personal characteristics and uneven interests can easily lead to interpersonal disputes or resentment. Let's talk about another risk, that is, in the process of "spelling marriage", many businesses also understand that everyone is spelling marriage in order to bargain, so it is easy to raise the price for some "spelling marriage families", so spelling marriage should keep their eyes open and not be confused by some phenomena.