When you get married, do your parents-in-law receive gifts from friends or do the young couple do it themselves?

Wedding night is one of the four happy events in life arranged by our ancestors. However, with the continuous development of society, what our ancestors said is useless today.

In the past, the wedding night was worth 1000 dollars. After all, people's secular ideas were very strong at that time. The newlyweds who have never met before only had their first intimate physical contact on their wedding day. Dry wood is on fire, so it's strange that you don't burn it quickly.

Nowadays, the society is becoming more and more open, and people's minds are becoming more and more open. Young men and women's desire for sex is no longer hidden, and premarital sex is more common. Wedding night is just a form of legal sharing a bed.

Generally, the evolution of a thing is multifaceted and even has a chain reaction. It is such a reaction that the value of a moment in the Spring Festival has evolved into the value of a moment in the spring night.

Why do you say that?

As we all know, it is necessary to invite relatives and friends to a banquet to watch the ceremony, but this banquet can't be drunk for nothing, and it is natural to accompany the wine.

In the past, due to the limitation of economic conditions, people's wedding gifts ranged from three yuan to five yuan, and ten yuan to twenty yuan. Now that the living conditions are good and the money for buying gifts is rising, I am embarrassed to take out 200 yuan.

Like our Weihai side, ordinary friends start at a minimum of 400, and there are thousands of good relationships. Between relatives, there are no specific figures.

However, the wedding ceremony is a debt of gratitude, which requires reciprocity. This involves the question raised by the topic lady: When getting married, should the in-laws receive the gift money from their friends or from the couple?

Generally speaking, there should be a difference between the two. Others pay New Year greetings to their parents-in-law, and the usual debt of gratitude should be collected by their parents-in-law, while the young couple can collect the gifts from their friends themselves.

Of course, it is understandable that a few in-laws care about the hotel wedding banquet and ask the young couple to compensate part of the expenses from their friends' gifts (this usually does not happen).

So, what I mean is: spring night counts thousands of dollars every moment, counting the gift money given by her friends, not the part that her parents-in-law deserve!