Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Hotel reservation - The so-called success is just good luck in the right place at the right time.
The so-called success is just good luck in the right place at the right time.
The so-called success is just good luck in the right place at the right time.
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A friend, a middle school teacher, took some children to America, which means short-term study tour. In short, he wants to arrange for children to eat and live in local homes.
On this trip, the children felt completely different.
One child was moved by American hospitality and the spirit of loving life.
The other two children were so popular in America that they burst into tears.
Because they live in different families.
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The first child, like a mouse, fell into the rice jar and lived in the home of a local tyrant in the United States.
A big house, a small building, a big yard with flowers and birds, and a swimming pool as big as the ocean. The child was taken to the first floor and the owner told her? There are several rooms here. You can live in any room you like.
Then take the children to the kitchen. It's very hot. The hostess is cooking Chinese and American-style meals for the little guests: eat and eat. We Americans are poor and can only eat six meals a day. You can make this your home, and don't starve yourself.
The children who live here like music.
The host bought a lot of music and dance books at home, and the whole family made up for them before the children came, saying that they were afraid of talking to the children because their cultural level was too low.
A grand music evening was held specially for children, and all music lovers nearby were invited. Although there are many people coming, they should have asked in advance. People who come here respect the children's China culture. The children in China were shocked to see that the Beatles' uncles stood on the stage, twisting their hips and singing loudly in an abnormal voice: I love mud, sister of Saibei, flying all over the world, your dance is spicy and light, and your skin is white and pure. ...
After the hi, the guests left one after another.
The host shook hands and hugged each guest, and sent everyone out of the vast courtyard-the little girl in China said, I learned an important lesson in life, and I should learn to respect guests and be polite.
When the guests left, the host family cleaned up quickly, and then went into the kitchen to give the children a midnight snack that day.
The little girl is crying, help, I'm afraid her stomach will burst. ...
I was very moved when my cell phone rang. It was two children who came to America and lived in another family.
On the phone, two children are calling for help: help, we are imprisoned, and we are starving. ...
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The other two children live with an American aunt.
Ordinary apartment building.
Aunt's job is night shift. She went to work at nine o'clock in the evening and didn't come back until early morning.
Her room is very small, and the room for China children is even smaller.
When she brought the children in, she snapped: You ugly China children, stay indoors with your dinner, and don't run around. Then he pushed the two children into the house, locked the door with a click and went to the night shift.
The two children said. The room she let us live in is no bigger than the toilet.
Besides, the so-called dinner is two pieces of cold bread. This food standard is rejected by cats and dogs in children's homes.
Hey, everyone went to America together. Why did the former child live in a local tyrant's house and the two children got a working aunt here?
The organizer didn't understand it either, but he was at a loss anyway.
Two children were hungry in the middle of the night. When they called their friends, they were surprised to find that someone enjoyed a personal music festival and had six big meals a day, and their psychology was suddenly unbalanced.
The next day, the children got together to discuss the aunt of this family. She was too enthusiastic about herself. Try to impress my aunt and let her show sincerity and enthusiasm.
How can we impress menstruation?
Throw money!
Down with aunt!
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The last two children went to the mall and spent 3000 yuan to buy a luxury item for their aunt.
Give it to your aunt and observe her expression.
Aunt has no expression.
Still click, the two children were locked up again.
But in the middle of the night-the specific time is two o'clock in the morning, my aunt suddenly came back.
Go home, open the door and let the two children out. Aunt asked softly, son, don't you like me to lock you up?
The two children are secretly happy, and it is useful to throw money. They quickly replied: no, auntie, we want to say that if auntie doesn't lock us up, we will help her do a lot of housework.
I saw my aunt turn her face: pack your things, dog, you are so rich, can you stay in a hotel, dog, now!
In the middle of the night, two children were kicked out.
Looking at the dark day outside, the two children were frightened and hurriedly called the children living in the local tyrant's house for help.
-At this time, local tyrants, all wearing high crowns, sat and ate the sixth meal of the day, while studying the broad culture alone in dense bamboo, while I played the pipa and hummed with the little guests from China. China's children were in tears until they choked up. Suddenly I got a call from my little friend and was shocked.
Have those two children really met Americans?
What's the difference between these two Americans?
Call the organizer quickly.
As soon as the organizer heard it, it exploded. He immediately called his aunt and shouted, What do you mean? Don't forget that you received the money! Do you think that there is no law in the United States by driving with two underage children in the middle of the night with money? Well, it's good for you. Get the child back at once, or you will go to jail!
Aunt was so angry that she wanted to take her two children back and lock them in a dark room.
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When returning home, the local tyrants cried with their little guests and said nothing.
It feels like China took their children.
China's children are crying with snot and tears, and they really don't want to go, and they can't bear to live six meals a day.
Aunt kicked the two children out early. The two children dragged their suitcases angrily and cursed endlessly: Americans are rubbish, not as good as our toes in China.
Surprisingly, these children encounter two kinds of extreme thinking in America.
six
A friend said that the local tyrant's house where the first child lived was not a local tyrant at first, and there was no limit to diaosi.
At first, I also rented apartment buildings.
At that time, many children went to the United States to study. Most of them are Japanese children, Korean children and Indian children.
At that time, local tyrants took this kind of work. Children live at home every day. Local tyrants treat these foreign children who don't know the language as relatives and enjoy good tea and meals. In order to make children feel at home, local tyrants will ask them in advance what they like and what they like, and he will concentrate on thinking.
After so many years, local tyrants have become more and more literate. Moreover, the children he took care of before are obsessed with him and even regard him as their parents-at least a few of these children are banking tycoons, and these children invest in local tyrants in order to create a better environment for them to receive children from all over the world.
-In addition, the children's parents are already rich, which has enabled local tyrants to accumulate deep international contacts.
At this level, even if he wants to refuse to become a local tyrant, it is already very difficult.
My friend said that after so many years, menstruation is still menstruation, and my uncle has become a local tyrant.
It's just a question of investment philosophy.
The most important investment in life is the investment in people-this is the original words of a friend.
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What my friend said is just a special case.
Many families in the United States have caught foreign children, but if they associate being a local tyrant with receiving foreign children, most people will shake their heads.
It sounds like something in theory, but it's not feasible at all.
Local tyrants like children because they are rich in resources and don't need to work from nine to five. He stayed at home and took China children to eat six meals a day, which he could afford.
But the aunt can't afford the apartment.
Aunt's resources are scarce, the environment is bad, and her spirit is on the verge of collapse at any time.
Mental instability has brought more trouble to my aunt than the environment.
This is true for all people who are facing a shortage of resources.
No money, sadness, sadness, despair, others are always telling you that you are not working hard enough, don't work hard on your sister, and then complain and slap your face ... so you always put on a bad face and make people hate it.
Loss of affinity, unlikable, easy to fall into emotional confrontation. There are always difficult things in life. What are the opportunities? I've heard of it, but I haven't seen it.
People with sufficient resources emphasize personal efforts.
But people who are trapped in lack of resources must know that it is not that you don't work hard enough and don't want to work hard, but that lack brings anxiety. Anxiety destroys your will and your body-people who lack intelligence generally feel weak and can't finish their work. We must know this before we can find a solution.
eight
The so-called success is just good luck in the right place at the right time.
Different time, different opportunities, this is called opportunity.
In the same era, the distribution of opportunity points is uneven, which is called geographical location.
The above two points, also called environment, are deliberately emphasized by those who lack resources and deliberately ignored by those who are rich in resources.
Life is a big stage. Some people were born on the stage, some even applauded when they cried, but some people had to squeeze for 30 to 50 years to get close to the stage. People who love to cry swear that his crying is loud and clear, while people who are far away from the stage wish to slap him to death.
The stage was limited and most people were squeezed out. What we have to do is to improve ourselves and make our position the center of attention.
We are doomed to be lonely in the world, and the only strength we can rely on is people and peace.
As long as it's controllable.
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First of all, we must admit that we are not worse than anyone else, but the unequal distribution of natural resources in human society may hurt us.
The injured person is not short of money, but mentally injured and loses the ability to find opportunities.
This kind of mental trauma stems from our growth and the lack of spiritual education. There are many people around us like American apartment aunts, dumping their gray emotions on us like garbage. Many people are buried by this gray emotion, which is the biggest difficulty we face.
-first observe whether there are people like apartment aunts around, and see how they can't control their emotions and get themselves into trouble again and again.
Then look at ourselves. We tell ourselves to work hard every day, but our hearts are incomplete. If the heart is compared to a person, then this person is a cripple who walks with heavy loads. This cripple carrying a heavy load is a pain in our hearts and a deep hatred, as deep as a mountain. It can bury us or let us climb up and have a look. It depends on how we sort out our emotions.
-Observe those who climbed to the peak of painstaking management, such as Yun-peng Yue, who came out to make a living as a teenager and was humiliated by guests when he was a waiter. For example, Song Xiaobao was knocked unconscious by a punch while doing odd jobs to wash dishes. He woke up in tears and apologized repeatedly ... they were not buried by suffering, so we should be fine.
Finally, record your heart-the inner bitterness that is not observed will eventually bury you and make you a nagging complainer-record your anger and bitterness, and record your sadness. After ten or eight days, if you look again, you will be shocked to find that all your anger and resentment were caused by your own apartment in menstruation.
Learning to observe yourself means opportunity.
As I said, success means luck in the right time, place and people. We can't grasp the right time and place. Even in the face of my broken heart, I feel powerless. But the mind is our only independent place, and avoiding it shows the root of the problem.
This process is extremely difficult at first, and the heart that loses joy often refuses to be observed. So we can only start by observing others and gradually enter ourselves. Once you get close to your heart, the whole world will be overturned-from then on, you will climb out of the garbage dump of lost emotions and start climbing. Everyone finally walks in his own heart, and you only reach his own essence.
Only when your mind is healthy, will you see countless flowers in this world, which will open up and shine with your heart.
Wan Li Road, thousands of books, endless vicissitudes of life, feelings for life. But only for the greatest happiness at this moment.
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