Type 9 personality-looking for the key to imprison yourself.

Type 9 personality-looking for the key to imprison yourself.

What is the significance of learning nine types of personality?

When the gods created mankind, they also created a key to open the door of heaven. But they decided not to let humans get this key, so where should this key be hidden?

They argued for several days. Some gods suggested that it should be buried in the mountains, and some gods said that it should be placed in the center of the sun, but these were rejected by them. Because all the immortals think that clever humans will find this key sooner or later. At this time, the cleverest fairy spoke first. He said: "hide this key in the hearts of human beings, which is a place they will never see."

In normal life, we have to deal with a strict boss, a child who makes our head grow bigger, and a partner who doesn't understand us at all. In fact, what needs to be fixed most is yourself. If you can't even cure yourself, how can you cure others? Helen palmer, the originator of modern nine-type personality, said: Learning nine-type personality can help you understand yourself, and at the same time let you know what a prison is and where the key to it is.

Why is it most important to repair yourself?

Because our lives are influenced by our patterns.

Some people can't help but help others when they see that others are in trouble, and they are cheated as a result. Many people say that you are so stupid, you are always cheated, and you don't have a long memory once. He just can't help it.

Some people are anxious when they encounter something. Even if their goals and achievements are achieved, they are not happy at all. He will consider what to do next. Others envy his successful career, but he feels as if he is standing on the top of the tower and may fall at any time.

Some people always hurt spring and autumn, and when a petal falls, they cry, but I don't know why. Others say he is melodramatic, but in fact he just wants to find the meaning of life. Unfortunately, I didn't understand him.

You don't know why these things happen, but they are repeating what is happening. This is our model and the background of our character. Only by figuring this out can we know ourselves better.

When you change, the world changes, because there is no one outside, only yourself.

Abdominal center corresponds to nine models.

Abdominal center: referred to as abdominal area, the main emotion is anger, which controls our instinctive desires.

Nine models corresponding to abdominal area: 1 perfect model, 8-leader model and 9-flat model.

Dominant emotional anger is related to our life energy instinct. The energy that embodies our life is embodied by aggression.

For example, take the puppy out for a walk. When he sees a puppy of the same size and sex, he barks, looks sharp and grins. Because it is very angry and dissatisfied with another puppy invading its border and its territory. Even animals have this instinct, and anger is a kind of life energy.

People in the abdominal area have the same characteristics:

When making decisions, I will trust my body's intuition more.

For example, in the face of someone you don't like, a friend in your stomach will say: As long as you are close to the person you don't like, you will get goose bumps immediately, he will be unhappy, and he will have the impulse to hit the other person and feel that the other person is so annoying.

Heart centers corresponding to nine models

Heart center: referred to as the heart area, the main emotion is sadness. It is in charge of emotions, emotions and feelings of beauty.

Nine models corresponding to the heart area: No.2 helping others, No.3 achievement and No.4 self.

The heart area is the center of feelings, emotions and emotions. The partners in this center pay more attention to feelings, longing for love, being recognized and appreciated.

When we listen to some friends in our hearts, we will find that they will say: I feel very bad. Do you have my feelings? Wait a minute.

People in the heart area have the same characteristics: people in the heart area will be more emotional.

For example, if you meet someone you don't like, the person in your heart will say, Oh, I think his words hurt me. I don't like him.

The brain centers corresponding to nine models

Brain center: referred to as brain region, the main emotion is fear. Mainly in charge of wisdom, thinking and ideas.

The corresponding nine models: rational model No.5, loyalty model No.6 and initiative model No.7.

The brain region is the center of thinking. Relatively speaking, they are more rational, pay attention to logic and analysis, and are good at analyzing results through data.

People in the brain region all have the same characteristics: methodical work, seeking regular truth, and being good at making plans, but sometimes it makes people feel puzzled.

For example, leaders in the brain area can't stand the emotionalization of subordinates in the heart area, which is the case at work. When you get home, if your partner is in your heart and you can't understand your partner's voice, there will be a lot of friction in such a marriage.

For example, if you meet someone you don't like, he will say: I have to think about it. Although this man's words are not pleasant to hear, what he said is very reasonable. I must decide whether to continue to associate with him.

Three subtypes of instinct and self-protection

Self-protection subtype: seeking survival instinct, caring about living conditions and worrying about interests.

The refrigerator is full of food; Even if you don't attend classes very much, you will store a lot of learning materials; The point is that you can save it first.

I prefer to master some skills at work, and I am not overwhelmed by many skills.

Every time you go to a group or a strange environment, you will first occupy a favorable position and favorable resources, which usually belongs to the material category.

Survival seems to be threatened at any time. With enough resources (things that can be measured by money), life can be safer.

It's just that possessiveness is a bottomless pit. For most people, there will never be a time of satisfaction, so it is easy to worry about profit.

It will also be too self-protective and ignore the relationship with others, which will make people feel inhuman and miss many opportunities to cooperate with others.

Self-protective people want to take everything they buy home when they go to a hotel or fly, even something as small as a wet towel, which makes people feel a little stingy.

Three instincts and one-to-one type

One-to-one type: caring about the integration in intimate relationships, it is easy to be trapped by love.

One-on-one people, it is difficult for them to associate with many people at the same time in social situations. They prefer to find only one person to talk to and develop a one-on-one relationship with that person. It seems that these people are not interested in material rights, which can bring a sense of security to mankind, but in fact they just put a sense of security on someone. As long as they keep a good relationship with this person or this object, they will feel very comfortable.

On the other hand, if they lose this relationship, they will be very painful. Such people are more likely to suffer in the relationship, because it is difficult for people to completely integrate into another person and completely control another person.

One-on-one people like to maintain good intimacy, intimacy or integration with a specific person, such as a partner. There is a saying that love is all water, and they care more about the integration of that special person.

Three instinctive and social subtypes

Community subtype: the friendly relationship between organizations and peers, disturbed by names.

People of social subtypes prefer to establish one-to-many relationships with others. For them, they need a lot of people around them to attract more people to stand on their side. They will try to show their personality charm in the crowd, just like being complacent.

They need a lot of sense of accomplishment and attention, but sometimes their emotions are in the hands of people around them, and they attach great importance to others' evaluation of themselves. A word from others can make them go to heaven or to hell.

As a sub-type of community, people like to find friendly companions and friendly relationships in organizations or teams, and pay more attention to their role in the group, the degree of acceptance of themselves by the organization, their sense of belonging, their sense of participation and group friendship.