Do people in Guanli, Shandong still have feelings for the northeast people who come to China from Shandong?

I haven't had feelings for a long time! When I was a child, every time someone came to Guan Li's house, my parents were always delicious and ill-treated. Take local products and buy train tickets when you leave! There are weddings and funerals in my hometown in Shandong, and my parents either pay or give something. About 15 years old, my father asked me to take me back to my hometown in Shandong! I am very excited and my father is very happy! After all, I want to go back to my parents' hometown! However, my hometown people are not as enthusiastic as I thought. Only my father, an aunt who is almost 70, received us. My aunt gave birth to seven children, and no one took care of her! Gunai lived alone, originally planned to travel for a month, and my father took me north in three days. On the way back, my father was speechless and just looked out of the window! Since then, my father has never mentioned that he is from Shandong!

In fact, fellow villagers in Shandong and Northeast China are related by blood after all, and the bitter days of that year really made people cry. In fact, this feeling has gradually faded now, but the descendants of those fellow villagers still have feelings for their hometown.

Why do I say that? Because of the climate, the three northeastern provinces intend to move south, and many descendants of northeast villagers choose to buy houses in our coastal cities in Shandong. I asked them a few days ago, and he said that buying a house here can breathe the air of my hometown, as well as the unchanging local accent, living habits and favorite seafood. In fact, when any one of us is in China, no matter which province, our feelings for our hometown will not change. Although the environment has changed and people's appearance has changed, it is difficult to change one thing, that is, blood relationship. Of course, since the reform and opening up, the population movement has accelerated. In fact, your hometown will always be in your heart.

Hearing this, I shed tears.

Said: it is ashes on the soil.

Of course, it is because of the same roots, a family. Although there are many ancestors who have traveled to the Northeast for more than 60 years, there are still many family members in Shandong.

For example, my father came to the northeast before liberation, but my grandfather's two younger brothers were both in Shandong. Although the older generation is not here, they have always been in contact. Now that we have a WeChat group, it's called the root. My mother has been in the northeast for more than 60 years, my grandparents are in Shandong, and my parents have been back many times. Now my brothers and sisters are in Shandong. My brother and sister and I have been back to Shandong.

Neighbor's parents are in Shandong, and now they are over 90, and their families come and go frequently. Kiss or not? I'm still from my hometown, and my mother is willing to say that I'm from Guanli. Go out for a stroll in Little Square, and when you meet me, you will say: Who's from Guanli and who's from hometown? Villagers are kissing each other.

May not be close to the younger generation, but there are old people, brothers and sisters who still keep in touch. After all, we are a family, and we can never forget Ben. It's the same blood. We can't separate. ...

Sometimes, I ask my mother: Do you want to go back to Guanli? Because my grandfather was afraid of breaking up with my father, he got married and took it to the northeast. My mother's hometown is Qingdao, and now my uncle and aunt are doing well. My mother said: don't go back, I am used to living in the northeast, and my children are also in the northeast. Few people go back. Habit becomes nature, but family ties are still there. ...

I don't know if people in Guanli, Shandong Province have feelings for the northeast Shandong people, but the feelings of the northeast Shandong people for their ancestral home are eternal. No matter how many generations the descendants have gone through, their native place is always filled in a city and county in Shandong. Although relatives in Shandong are gone, they will always remember where their roots are! Everyone has a dream to go to his ancestral home and see how his family spreads branches and leaves. Remembering our ancestors and creating the future!

Three-dimensional social view, vertical and horizontal outlook on life; Society is diverse and the world is cold; Environment changes ideas, and reality determines life.

The city is poor, no one asks,

Money in the mountains has distant relatives.

When a teenager leaves home,

I wonder who old boys met. …

Parents are there, and life is still there;

With parents gone, there is only one way home in life.

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The laughter of brothers and sisters digging out food around a pot has become a childhood memory. In today's environment of "everything is for money, laughing at poverty rather than prostitution", have family friendship and nostalgia ever had an unspeakable taste in different forms? ……

Veterans have been away from their hometown for more than 40 years, and they will visit their hometown in Shandong from time to time. They burn incense and kowtow to their deceased relatives, seek psychological balance, talk about the past and talk about some ancient family traditions in Silas. Brothers and sisters have a deep affection for their hometown. The love and friendship of classmates is a book. When opened, they look like stories in various ways. Together, they are memories of pure friendship.

People are not vegetation, how can they be ruthless? I love the affection and friendship in my hometown. In the information age, I will talk more about my true feelings. Don't forget an urchin in my old age: a "wandering wanderer" in Qilu and a veteran in the desert! …

Before the reform and opening up, Shandong's hometown was poor, and relatives, friends, neighbors and strangers from the hometown came to the Northeast every year. When you come, you have to eat and live, and you have to dig windows to help settle down. In the first six months, we must help them from time to time. After the reform and opening up, Shandong's hometown has changed and gradually become rich, so they seldom go to the northeast again. The northeast is indeed getting worse year by year. A few years ago, relatives and friends in my hometown could still make a phone call. In recent years, with the death of the elderly, most of them are depressed in the northeast, and communication is getting less and less. They have forgotten how the past helped them. Ahem! Few words, ungrateful!

No, Shandong's per capita resources are few, its survival crisis is great, and the struggle between people is fierce, calculating, harsh and exclusive.

Northeast China has feelings for hometown. There is no survival pressure on the per capita resources in Northeast China, and the urban state-owned enterprise culture.

Actually, no.

On the contrary, the northeastern people from Shandong have become more familiar with the speech of Shandong people. I will take the initiative to mention that my ancestral home is also Shandong.

In Shandong, speaking Northeastern dialect will be labeled as a Northeastern. The enthusiasm of Shandong people is relatively slow, and it will be released after familiarity or relationship.

One side of the soil and water support one side. The so-called hometown must be where you were born, and the so-called home must be where your parents are. And ancestral home is just a kind of genetic memory.

My six grandparents and brothers, four of whom are in the northeast, all went to the east. My grandfather once traveled to Guandong, but he returned to Shandong for various reasons, and the right and wrong can not be clearly stated in one sentence. One of the grandfathers died in the northeast to resist US aggression and aid Korea. Grandpa and the four northeastern universities are half brothers. Probably in the early 1990s, when I was five or six years old, one of my grandfathers went back to Shandong and lived in my home because of a quarrel with his son. This grandfather lived in my house for about a month. Maybe it's really because of blood relationship, we are no strangers to this amiable grandfather. Now I still clearly remember the picture of grandpa sitting in the yard laughing and playing with us. When grandpa went to the northeast, there was no car at that time, and it would be nice to have a donkey cart at home. On a drizzly day, grandpa was sitting on his uncle's donkey cart, and our family watched grandpa leave at the door of his uncle's house with tears in their eyes. Later, grandpa sent me photos, but he died not long after he went back. There is still a grandfather alive. My father has always wanted to visit the northeast. Once I went to Dalian and asked him if he would go, he said no. Because we all belong to an ordinary family, in my father's view, only when he has a good life, he is embarrassed to visit his uncle, and his family is not well off, and he is embarrassed to go. In fact, we all know that he really wants to go. We said you didn't have to think about the economy, but he backed out. In fact, I think my father thinks too much and thinks that he may be a poor relative, so he is afraid of being looked down upon when he goes. In fact, this grandfather's son, that is, my uncle, once went to Jinan on business, and in order to come back to renew his family tree, he took time to go back to our hometown. I ate a meal in the middle and hurried back.

In the past, my parents kept in touch with grandparents in Northeast China every New Year, sent videos and sent some special products. But the economy has developed in the past two years, and I don't lack anything. I won't send it. I'm just calling to say goodbye to the new year. My mother said that she didn't call this year, and she didn't know that her grandparents were still alive.

Although I feel far away, I still have some affection for the broken bones and tendons. Although I don't contact often, I still have feelings. But as the old saying goes, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor don't ask in the downtown area. Maybe families can't avoid this.

I went to Liaocheng on business the year before last, and went to the park on Sunday. During the break, an 80-year-old man chatted with him and asked, where are you from? I said northeast, but my hometown is also from Shandong. He inquired about it and heard that life in Northeast China has not been very good in recent years. I said it's ok, but it's not as good as here. He went on to say, since you are back, don't go back. [Cover your face]