Should Gu Jia get a divorce?

With the development of the plot of "Standing at Thirty with Nothing", more and more people began to search for the development and emotional trend of the characters in the play.

Especially recently, the marriage of Gu Jia, a housewife in the play, was intervened by Lin Youyou, a mistress, and Xu Huanshan, a former model husband, finally fell in love with Lin Youyou, who was full of youthful vitality, which made people cry.

It turns out that it is not difficult for a good man to cheat.

As soon as Gu Jiagang appeared, he brought his own powerful aura. He is not only willing to carry shoes for his son's good kindergarten, but also helped her husband's career a lot. Even if the family changed to a big house, her husband Xu Huanshan never said a word "no".

It can be said that Gu Jia's marriage has made many women who are also full-time mothers "sour". Why can't she be untidy? Why can she change rooms without making a penny, so that her husband is willing to buy her a limited number of bags, just to avoid being thrown when taking pictures?

In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is not difficult to get the answer. Did Gu Jia get all this because she was lucky? More should be her efforts.

Even if it is not easy to take care of the baby at home, she will insist on doing yoga and exercise every day in order to maintain the symmetry of her figure; Gu Jia used to be an ambitious person before she became a full-time housewife. She worked in a foreign company and even helped Xu Huanshan set up his own company. When her son is bullied, she can take off high heels. Finally, after tearing up the mistress, he smiled and said "divorce" to Xu Huanshan.

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Behind all this seemingly free and easy, has Gu Jia ever been tired? After all, there must be a woman, but Gu Jia's emotional intelligence and sense of family responsibility are the main reasons.

Many netizens have commented that Xu Huanshan doesn't know how to cherish. What do you want with such a wife? If you leave the kitchen under the hall, what reason can you not resist the temptation of a teenager "the forest is with you"?

Xu Huanshan was not allowed to eat, but Lin had an appetite to cook well. Xu Huanshan is not allowed to play football. Lin asked Xu Huanshan to find his passion late at night. Gu Jia banned Xu Huanshan from producing blue fireworks. Xu Huanshan, encouraged by Lin Youyou, satisfied her romantic fantasy and insisted on production.

In Lin Youyou, Xu Huanshan felt out of control, without a sense of bondage, and felt worshipped. Gu Jia is so perfect that even the list of old customers depends on Gu Jia's face. After so many years, Xu Huanshan may have felt depressed.

It's just that although Xu Huanshan is a husband and a father, he cares too much about indulging his "childlike innocence". He forgot that he had fatty liver, and that playing football would hurt his face, which was not conducive to seeing customers often. He forgot that blue fireworks are difficult to preserve and prone to accidents, and Gu Jia's painstaking efforts.

Or Xu Huanshan didn't forget, but he didn't want to take responsibility for his family, his lover and his children like Gu Jia, because he didn't take responsibility.

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Just like Gu Jia finally found out everything, when the three confronted each other, Gu Jia calmly and reverently asked Lin You to return all the money Xu Haishan spent on it, and Xu Huanshan was silent.

When Xu Huanshan rented a hotel for Lin Youyou and took Lin Youyou with him, it seemed that a man was full of responsibilities, but his wife came to the door, but both sides were afraid to speak. This is not cowardice. What is this?

Seeing the ending of Gu Jia's divorce, netizens applauded. After all, such a "love rat" is not worthy of a perfect Gu Jia. Some netizens even joked that if Lin You met Chen Yu, I'm afraid the ending would be different.

Although Chen Yu has cold violence, which is of course taboo in marriage, he knows how to refuse because he is not good at words. Because of his handsome appearance and successful career, Xu Huanshan is the perfect object in the eyes of many girls, but he is misunderstood everywhere.

However, Xu Huanshan finally lost his originally happy family because he didn't know how to refuse, because in his heart, there was still a little luck to indulge himself.

Has Gu Jia ever been tempted? Of course there is. It's just that Gu Jia is full of her husband, runs such a happy family and has a son she likes, so she refuses any temptation, because in her heart, the sense of responsibility for the family is the most important thing.

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Gu Jia once asked his father why he was so infatuated with his mother all his life. Gu Dad replied: "Whether the emotional value is trustworthy or not, the key is people."

I believe that every pair of lovers are attracted to each other at first because of a moment of secret love, perhaps because of his talent, perhaps because of her gentleness.

But can the heartbeat last? Throwing cold water on it, the temporary passion is only the secretion of dopamine in the body, not the reason why we can grow old together.

The key is how you fell in love with this person. He may not be romantic, but he should care and understand you. He doesn't have much money, but he is willing to use every penny to make your life better; He may not be handsome, but he knows how to be loyal to you all his life.

Meeting a lover in marriage can make this marriage last for a long time, and finally realize the fairy tale of joining hands and growing old together.

What is a lover? A person's heart will always be broken several times in his life, but the object is not necessarily the same. So when he is in marriage and his heart is broken, what can he do to restrain himself from making mistakes? That is the responsibility and responsibility for the family.

People who cheat in marriage may just want to indulge themselves once, but this time, they ignore the difference between injury and non-injury, which does not exist several times.

Moreover, if you indulge your heart, emotions and even your body, then it will be followed by your indulgence of humanity and morality. One day, all the happiness you originally had will be destroyed by yourself.

If you ask Xu Huanshan if he really loves Lin Youyou, I'm afraid he doesn't really love Gu Jia. After all, he is a married wife. After all, he has been with him for so many years. What Lin Youyou gave him may be just a temporary novelty. Passion has come, and he can't bear morality and responsibility.

However, the world of adults is so cruel. You don't know how to refuse and indulge yourself for a while, but in the end you may have to pay a price that you didn't even think of.

A happy marriage requires two people to work together, not one to work hard and one to love. Unequal marriage will never have a good result.

I don't know if Xu Huanshan in the play will be forgiven by Gu Jia, and eventually they will remarry, but I think even if they remarry, Gu Jia's feelings towards Xu Huanshan will no longer be the same as before, and the lost trust cannot be made up.

Therefore, treat marriage with caution and cherish it.