What is the process of holding a wedding? I'm confused.

Wedding process 12 months ago, discuss with both parents in advance whether to hold an engagement ceremony, determine the date and place of the engagement ceremony, buy gifts and engagement rings for each other when engaged, invite relatives of both parties to attend the engagement ceremony, and hold the engagement ceremony 1 1 month ago-9 months ago, both parents met to discuss relevant details, calculate the date of birth of the couple and decide the wedding date. The number of people invited to the wedding budget and plan. Decide the form and place of the wedding. Start collecting information about the wedding venue. Visit all the places where you choose or plan to hold your wedding. Make a comparison table, book banquet venues and seats, study and discuss the renovation or residence of new houses, start to decorate new houses 8 months to 6 months ago, register the schedule or book the church, start to pay attention to the bride's wedding dress style and wedding photography related information, discuss honeymoon travel related matters, honeymoon travel information collection, wedding company information collection, make an appointment for pre-marital health examination and consultation, and confirm the wedding plan with the selected wedding company. 5 months ago -4 months ago, choose furniture, household appliances and other necessities in advance. Check the renovation progress of the new house. Discuss the time of moving and related matters. Take wedding photos. Start choosing the right wedding dress. If you want to customize the wedding dress, you must start to communicate with the designer and measure it for the first time. Like renting a wedding dress. It is necessary to select the dresses (not less than 3 sets) that have been scheduled, selected and customized for the wedding ceremony in advance, book the return gifts, discuss with the families of both parties to confirm the process of the wedding ceremony and the arrangement of the wedding banquet, and finally confirm the ceremony time with the contact person at the wedding venue, choose the honeymoon place and itinerary (if you want to go abroad, start to apply for a passport), and ask for wedding leave from the company three months ago and choose the master of ceremonies (generally provided by the wedding venue). Discuss the decoration scheme of the wedding ceremony with the contact person of the wedding venue, determine the list of invited guests, draw up the contents of the wedding invitation, purchase or customize the wedding invitation, determine the list of guests who will speak at the ceremony site and notify the parties in advance and the relatives and friends in other places. I didn't arrange transportation and accommodation for their arrival. I decided on the best man and bridesmaid, the brothers and sisters group and flower girl flower girl. I chose and determined the place where the bride and groom do their hair, makeup and beauty. I order or buy dresses for the best man, bridesmaids, flower girl flower girl and their parents. I bought a wedding ring and other jewelry. Two months ago, I held the first wedding preparatory committee meeting to fully communicate the wedding matters. I made an appointment with a makeup artist, a hairdresser and a photographer on the wedding day. Try on makeup, hair, prepare dowry and buy brand-new clothes (underwear, coat, leather shoes, etc. ), arrange banquet tasting, determine the dishes needed for the wedding banquet, reserve the wedding cake and drinks, decide on the gift car and photographers, cameramen and other related personnel (this step can be omitted if the wedding company is entrusted), and choose a suitable flower shop to order flowers, headdresses, lapels, venue flowers and wedding cars. The bride who moved into the new house began to take care of her skin 1 month ago sent invitations to the second wedding preparatory committee meeting, confirmed all the members and their responsible projects in detail, worked out the wedding workflow table, the contact list of the person in charge of the work, the wedding items and the list of the person in charge, tried on the dress for the second time, prepared appropriate underwear and shoes, wrote the wedding speech, communicated the details of the wedding ceremony with the master of ceremonies, and purchased wedding etiquette supplies. Such as guest list, gift seal, etc. Determine the number of guests according to the number of replies received from the invitation letter, draw up the guest list, estimate the number of attendees, arrange the number of tables or seats for the guests present, confirm the number of tables for the wedding banquet according to the number of people on the invitation letter, and confirm the number of drinks, drinks and cigarettes. Two weeks ago, the last meeting of the wedding planning Committee reconfirmed the work arrangement of the wedding. Determine the staff, drivers, recipients, waiters, etc. Determine the number of guests and arrange the table by phone. Buy candy or cake. The final flow of the confirmation ceremony. Confirm the style and quantity of wedding dress (purchase or production). Prepare the bride and groom's thank-you speech. Understand the etiquette that should be discussed in the wedding. 1 Buy sundries needed for the wedding banquet before the week, such as candy, melon seeds, tobacco and alcohol. Banquet dishes, budget and arrange the funds for each wedding banquet, prepare red envelopes and all stationery at the banquet venue, and post happy words at home. Buy firecrackers, the man buys gifts for employment, and the woman buys gifts in return, confirming the work flow and content of the day to relatives, friends and staff. If you go to church, you need to prepare a marriage certificate, start the honeymoon package, do the final full-body beauty and hairdressing care, and finally confirm the wedding leave time and their respective work units of the couple and arrange the handover work 1 day ago. Take the wedding dress and confirm the matching order of clothes and jewelry. Locate and collect the flowers you need, check all the wedding process forms, make sure the items are complete, claim the gift money and red envelopes to be used tomorrow, prepare food for the sisters, go to bed early, cheer up, drink less water and get married tomorrow! At the end of the day, check whether the items that the bride and groom should bring to the scene are all together. Prepare a sum of money to cover the cost overruns. After the wedding, settle the wedding venue fee. The service is ready. Count the total number of gifts received. And write down the name of the giver and the amount of the gift. Call relatives and friends who can't be present and tell them the good news of your marriage. Print out the wedding photos and mail them to relatives in other places. Don't prepare your own wedding with other people's intentions. A wedding will bring many people, your relatives and friends to your side, but more importantly, it will bring two people together and live together. When planning a wedding, you should focus on what you want to do, not what others want you to do. Indeed, it is important to consider the feelings of others. Using some symbolic behaviors will please others, but never make a choice that you don't like originally, but just to please others, and don't make arrangements beyond your ability to pay. Don't invite those irrelevant people. A simple truth is that every additional guest is equivalent to an increase in the wedding budget. If you have a maximum cost (which most people have), increasing the number of people means reducing other expenses. The increase in guests is equivalent to the decrease in the quality of the banquet. Invite people you care about and people who play an important role in your life. On the wedding day, you must want to be surrounded by warm and familiar smiles, not those faces you can't recognize. 3. Don't be late. This principle applies not only to the bride and groom, but also to all those who attend the wedding. Try to get your wedding started on time. If you can't start on time, everything will be postponed. There will be some problems in the wedding place, especially after you arrange another wedding here. If you can't start on time because the guests are not here, don't wait more than ten minutes. 4, don't be afraid of chaos, usually the hustle and bustle begins to appear from the morning of the wedding, and some small problems may not be discovered when they appear. If there is a big problem that you can't solve, don't panic, let others solve it for you. You just need to relax, keep smiling and enjoy your day. 5. Don't be too nervous. Some brides are so immersed in their desire for the wedding that they use sedatives, alcohol and other drugs to calm themselves down. 6. Don't do things that are not important to you. In a traditional wedding, you will find that some secular and traditional things are not important. If you think some ceremonies are embarrassing, leave them out. There is no law that you must follow certain procedures and try your best to do it in your own way. 7. Don't forget that hunger is a big problem that the bride and groom will face beyond imagination. Do you think skipping breakfast can make you look slim in a wedding dress? Wrong. Breakfast may be your last meal of the day, and you need energy. If you have a bad stomach, try to eat something salty. If you feel uneasy at the beginning of the wedding, I'm afraid you won't have time to eat again. Many newcomers are too busy receiving guests to eat by themselves. Not eating will make people listless, so serious that they may faint. Therefore, you must eat something before the wedding and try to eat at the banquet. 8. Don't spend too much time receiving individual travelers. It may be difficult, but you should try to receive every guest in as little time as possible. On your wedding day, there are many things you must do, such as toasting and cutting cakes. If you spend a lot of time receiving guests, your time doing these things will be delayed, and you can finally spend some time greeting your friends. Don't let the guests get drunk. You must remind the waiter to pay attention to the safety of the guests and ask your best man to pay attention to every guest. 10, don't forget what happened in this busy day, try to remember one or two important moments. Find the smiling face of your bride or groom in the crowd and regain this beautiful memory in the future. Wedding flow chart 1. Wedding planning

1. 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method.

1.2. Determine the wedding budget

1.3. Draw up the guest list

1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan.

1.5. Determine the best man and bridesmaid.

1.6. Determine the host and witnesses.

1.7. Establish a wedding preparation team.

1.7. 1. The kick-off meeting of the startup project was held.

1.7.2. Make a wedding project plan.

1.7.3. Define the division of labor of the preparatory group. Prepare before the wedding 2. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.

2. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.

2. 1.2. Send happy messages to relatives and friends.

2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places.

2. 1.4. Publish the marriage notice online.

2. 1.5. Reconfirm the client and witness.

2. 1.6. Feedback the invitation information of relatives and friends in time.

2. 1.7. reconfirm for important relatives and friends.

2.2. Buy wedding supplies

2.2. 1. New furniture

2.2. 1. 1. Household appliances and furniture

2.2. 1.2. Bedding

2.2. 1.3. Colored balloons

2.2. 1.4. Lantern (cold light)

2.2. 1.5 yarn

2.2. 1.6 candles

2.2. 1.7. magnetic tape

2.2. 1.8. patch panel

2.2. 1.9. Other articles

2.2.2. Wedding supplies ordering

2.2.2. 1. Wedding dresses of the bride and groom

2.2.2.2. Wedding ring.

2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetic

2.2.2.4. Wedding stickers, red envelopes and happy characters.

2.2.2.5. Ribbons, flowers and spray.

2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks.

2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea.

2.2.2.8. Videotapes, movies.

2.2.2.9. Order flowers.

2.2.2. 10. Book the cake

2.2.2. 1 1. Fruit

2.3. Preparation of bride and groom images

2.3. 1. The bride starts to take care of her skin.

2.3.2. The groom cuts his hair

2.4. Take wedding photos

2.4. 1. Choose a wedding studio

2.4.2. Make an appointment for the shooting date

2.4.3. Take photos

2.4.4. Movie Selection

2.4.5. Printing or painting

2.5. Decorate the new house

2.5. 1. Please ask the cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly.

2.5.2. Layout of new houses

2.6. Determine the wedding host

2.6. 1. Communicate with them the plans and ideas of the wedding day.

2.7. Wedding reservation

2.7. 1. Estimated number of tourists

2.7.2. Estimate the number of banquets

2.7.3. Choose the wedding venue.

2.7.4. Confirm the banquet menu and price.

2.7.5. Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding banquet.

2.7.6. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel.

2.7.7. Book a banquet

2.8. Wedding Makeup Appointment

2.8. 1. Choose a place for makeup.

2.8.2. Communicate with hair stylists and makeup artists.

2.8.3. Confirm the shape of the wedding day.

2.8.4. Make an appointment for the specific time of makeup.

2.9. Wedding car reservation

2.9. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars.

2.9.2. Choose the driver of the wedding car.

2.9.3. Make an appointment to tie the float.

2.9.4. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.

2.9.5. Booking a wedding car

2. 10. Wedding camera reservation

2. 10. 1. Determine the number of photos taken by the photo agency.

2. 10.2. Choose a photographer for the wedding day.

2. 10.3. Arrange the division of photography.

2. 10.4. Prepare photographic equipment and films and videos.

2. 10.5. Make an appointment for photography.

2. 1 1 others

2. 1 1. 1.

2. 1 1.2. Identify the children who roll the bed.

2. 1 1.3. Prepare guest rooms for distant relatives and friends. Prepare the day before the wedding 3. 1. Communicate with all the project stakeholders of the wedding.

3. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about the completion of wedding preparations.

3. 1.2. Make final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day.

3. 1.3. According to the preparation, communicate with the host about the ceremony flow on the wedding day.

3. 1.4. Communicate with the best man and bridesmaid again.

3. 1.5. Finally confirm the relatives and friends who helped.

3. 1.6. finally confirm the details, vehicles, photos and makeup of the wedding banquet.

3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day.

3.2. 1. Preparation of witnesses' speeches

3.2.2. Preparation of Parents' Representatives' Speech

3.2.3. Preparation of guest representatives' speeches

3.2.4. Bride's Question Preparation in Bride Kidnapping Case

3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber.

3.3. Finally confirm the preparation of all items on the wedding day.

3.3. 1. Finally try on all the clothes.

3.3.2. Put all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day in your pockets.

3.3.3. Prepare two bottles of fake wine

3.3.4. Prepare fast food for the bride and groom on the wedding day.

3.3.5. Finally, check all items and hand them over to a special person for safekeeping.

3.3.5. 1. Bride's new shoes

3.3.5.2. Marriage certificate.

3.3.5.3. The ring.

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3.3.5.5. Wear jewelry.

3.3.5.6. Bride cosmetic box

3.3.5.7. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks.

3.3.5.8. Fireworks props

The bride and groom are specially prepared.

3.4. 1. The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedures repeatedly.

3.4.2. Rehearse the action of holding the bride.

3.4.3. Wedding rehearsal catwalk

3.4.4. Rehearse the action of making a glass of wine.

3.4.5. Relax and encourage each other.

3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep and go to bed early.

3.5. Prepare alarm clock

3.5. 1 Confirm that the alarm clock works normally.

3.5.2 Set the alarm clock to 5: 30. 4. wedding day process (note: the time can be adjusted according to the actual situation, here is the luncheon. ) 4. 1. Composition/make-up/makeup/fabrication/reconciliation/configuration/make-up/bed (s)

4. 1. 1.5: 30 to get up.

4. 1.2.7: 00 After the groom finishes his hairstyle, he arrives at the new south gate and waits near the bride's house.

4. 1.3.7: 45 Notify the groom when the bride finishes putting on makeup.

4. 1.4. Red envelopes for makeup artists and hairdressers

4.2. Wedding car

4.2. 1.6: 30 began to float.

4.2.2.7: 00 Take the groom to the new south gate by bus.

Float completion

4.2.4.7: 45 Take the bride back to the new south gate by bus (arrive before 8: 30).

4.2.5.9: 00 All wedding cars arrive at the new south gate.

4.2.6. Driver's red envelope

4.3. Bride snatching

4.3. 1.8: 00 The best man prepares flowers and red envelopes.

4.3.2.8: 30 The bride returns to her family and hides her new shoes.

4.3.3.8: 40 The groom leads his brother to rob people.

4.3.4.8: 45 Knocking at the door, asking questions, stuffing red envelopes and squeezing the door.

4.3.5.8: 55 The groom looks for new shoes and promises the woman's house.

4.3.6.9: 00 Ribbon master in place, balloon in place.

4.3.7.9: 05 When the bride and groom go out, they wear ribbons and step on balloons.

4.3.8.9: 10 motorcade starts.

4.4. Welcome the bride

4.4. 1. 10: 00 The motorcade arrived at the man's house in Chenghua Community.

4.4.2 10: 05 The groom takes the bride into the door, ties the ribbon and steps on the balloon.

4.4.3 10: 10 children rolling bed.

4.4.4 10: 15 bridesmaids prepare tea.

4.4.5. 10: 20 The bride offers tea to the man's parents.

The bride and groom go to the hotel.

4.5. Hotel preparation

4.5. 1 10: 00 Bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks to the hotel.

4.5.2 10: 10 finally check the details such as banquet arrangement, sound system and sign-in desk.

4.5.3 10: 30 Prepare cigarettes, matches and sweets for the bride and groom.

4.5.4 10: 45 Ribbon master at the entrance of the hotel.

4.6. Welcome to the hotel

The bride and groom arrived at the hotel with ribbons.

4.6.2 1 1: 00 Check-in desk personnel are in place.

4.6.3 1 1: 00 Guide personnel to take positions at the door.

4.6.4 1 1: 00 The bride and groom greet guests at the bridesmaid's gate; The guests took a group photo with the couple.

4.7. Wedding Ceremony

Moderator preparation

4.7.2 12: 15 sound preparation

4.7.3 Preparation of Marriage Certificate and Ring

4.7.4 Balloons and ribbons are in place.

4.7.5 Play music 12: 20. Newcomers enter the stadium, wear ribbons and step on balloons.

Host introduction

Speech by the officiating person

The witness read the marriage certificate.

The couple's parents took the stage.

The bride and groom exchanged rings and bowed three times.

The couple offered tea to their parents.

Parents' representatives from both sides spoke.

Both parents resigned.

The couple opened champagne, cut cakes and drank a toast.

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4.7.6. 13: 00 The wedding reception officially started.

4.7.7. 13: 00: The bride and groom leave, eat fast food, and the bride changes her dress.

The bride and groom toasted table by table.

4.8. Rest in the afternoon

4.8. 1. 14: 00 guests leave or go to the chess room for entertainment.

The bride and groom eat and rest.

4.8.3. 14: 30 Count the remaining cigarettes, wine, sugar, etc.

4.8.4. 14: 30 to count the number of people eating.

4.9. Main meal

4.9. 1. 17: 00 inform the hotel of the number of people preparing dinner.

4.9.2. 18: 00 invite guests to dinner.

4.9.3.20: 00 Check everything and leave the hotel.

4. 10. Make trouble in the bridal chamber

4.10.1.21:00, the new house began to be disturbed.

The woman hides the marriage certificate

The groom looks for a marriage certificate

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Guests leave.

4. 1 1. Camera photography

4. 1 1. 1. Camera A starts shooting from the bride's makeup.

11.2. Camera B has been photographing the groom since he stole his parents from him.

4. 1 1.3. Camera C shoots the whole wedding.

4. 1 1.4. Shoot in time.

4. 1 1.5. Red envelopes for photographers

5. The wedding project is over

5. 1 23:00, the preparatory group found another place to summarize the project.