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Be kind to others. This sentence is easier said than done. Many people talk, but few people do.

When we calm down and think about it carefully, we will find that we seldom praise others. When we compare with others, we will always find each other's shortcomings and always say that someone has done something wrong. So-and-so is so stupid When someone succeeds in something, we will say to ourselves, "What's the big deal, if I can definitely do it better than him." And when a person fails to do something, many of us will say to ourselves, "Look, how stupid he is. If you can't, you can't. " ..... These are actually the results of our unwillingness to see the advantages of others and our unkindness to others.

When Armstrong set foot on the moon, he was famous for one sentence: "I personally took a small step, but mankind took a big step." But there was also a man named Aldrin who went to the moon together. Although he is a stranger to us, he also makes us admire him. At the press conference to celebrate the success of landing on the moon, a reporter suddenly asked Aldrin a very sharp question: "As a colleague, Armstrong became the first person to land on the moon. Do you feel a little sorry? " The relaxed atmosphere at the scene suddenly solidified. Under the embarrassed eyes of everyone, Aldrin replied humorously: "Ladies and gentlemen, don't forget that I was the first to get out of the space capsule when I returned to Earth!" He looked around and said with a smile, "So I was the first person to come to earth from another planet." Everyone gave him the warmest applause in laughter ... from his words, we can deeply understand the meaning of being kind to others. Smart people know how to be kind to others and don't cling to their mistakes. He will tell a fruitless story in his own way. Perhaps decades later, people have long forgotten Aldrin, but they can't forget his sincere virtue of sharing happiness with friends.

Life is always different, and people's abilities are varied. In fact, this is the same reason that our ten fingers can't be as neat. When a person who is not as good as himself is doing something through hard work, our heartfelt praise may be nothing to us, but if we imagine ourselves as him, what kind of mood will we feel when we hear such praise? When a person who is better than himself finishes something easily, we will praise him and find out the reason for his success. We will pay attention to him and find out why he is better than us. We will ask ourselves to work hard towards his success. Isn't this better than being jealous of his unconvinced? When we meet a person who has done something wrong, especially a person who has done something wrong and hurt us, if we forgive him and give him a chance to mend his ways, we will certainly never get angry again. When a person is in trouble, we try our best to help him and be kind to him. Imagine what we get when the other person says thank you.

Giving others a clear sky is giving yourself a bright sky. When you sincerely discover the strengths, benefits and abilities of others, they will also discover your strengths, benefits and abilities.

I remember someone said, "Being kind to others means respecting yourself." This is the true meaning of being kind to others.

One day, a poor boy was selling goods door to door in order to save enough money for his tuition. After a hard day's work, he felt very hungry at this time, but he touched his whole body and had only a dime. What shall we do? He decided to beg for food from the next family. When a beautiful girl opened the door, the little boy was a little at a loss. Instead of asking for food, he begged for a drink of water. Seeing that he was hungry, the girl brought him a large glass of milk. The boy drank the milk slowly and asked, "How much should I pay?" The girl replied, "You don't have to pay a penny. Mother taught us to give love without asking for anything in return. " The boy said, "then, please accept my heartfelt thanks!" " With that, the boy left the house. At this time, he not only felt energetic, but also saw God nodding and smiling at him.

In fact, the boy was going to drop out of school, but he gave up the idea.

A few years later, the beautiful girl got a rare serious illness, and the local doctor could do nothing about it. Finally, she was transferred to a big city for treatment and expert consultation. The little boy in those days is now a famous doctor Howard Kelly, and he also participated in the formulation of the treatment plan. A strange idea flashed through his mind when he saw the patient's medical history written on the medical record. He immediately got up and went straight to the ward.

When he came to the ward, Dr. Kelly immediately recognized the patient lying in bed as a benefactor who had helped him. He returned to his office, determined to make every effort to cure his benefactor. From that day on, he took special care of the patients. After hard work, the operation was successful. Dr. Kelly asked for a medical bill to be sent to him and signed it next to it.

When the medical bill was sent to this special patient, she was afraid to read it because she was sure that the cost of treatment would cost all her property. Finally, she got up the courage and opened the notice of medical expenses. Next to the fine print caught her attention, and she couldn't help reading it softly:

"Medical expenses-a full glass of milk. Dr. Howard Kelly "

Learn to be kind to others

The world is colorful, and people's personalities are varied. Students have some contact with their parents, classmates, teachers, family members and even strangers every day. How do they get along with others? This is an important thing in our daily life. If you want to learn to get along with others, you should be kind to others.

Being kind to others contains many contents, including learning to understand, respect, tolerate, care for and help others. Today, I will focus on understanding and tolerating others. Other teachers have talked a lot, so I won't talk about it.

1. Understanding is love.

Everyone has his own emotional world, and wants to be understood by others, and also wants to understand others. If you sincerely understand others, you will be surprised to find that you get much more understanding than in the past. Those who only want others to understand themselves and don't want others to understand themselves will never get what they want. Because understanding is love, love is sincere and mutual.

However, in daily life, the phenomenon of incomprehension is everywhere, and understanding is very heavy. Children's understanding of their parents' sincere love can bring infinite warmth and endless family happiness to the family, and students can also understand each other and bring it to the collective.

To be full of vitality, to enhance the cohesion of the collective, and to understand each other between teachers and students, there will be no generation gap. . . . . . It can be seen that understanding is a bridge and stone soil to fill the gap between people. Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we should learn to understand and be kind to others. Here, I will tell you two true stories.

First: A mother is thinking about her son's birthday. As soon as she got off work, she bought a cake and hurried home. On the way, she knew that the car hit a stone, the cake was dumped, and people were injured. The son couldn't see the cake, crying and shouting, blaming his mother for embarrassing him in front of his classmates. Mom cried, too. Why? Think about it.

Second: a middle school student saw that her mother was old and in poor health, thinking that this was the price she paid for her growth. She wants to send a gift to her mother on the coming March 8th. Send what? Inadvertently, she opened the photo album and saw the beautiful and moving image of her mother when she was young. She cried. She quietly enlarged the photo and put it in a beautiful frame. On March 8, she put the photo frame in the most conspicuous place at home. My mother cried when she came back. My daughter threw herself into her arms and felt her tears sweet.

Both mothers cried, but the tears in their eyes were sour and sweet. It is clear to the students that the second story shows the true meaning of understanding.

2. Tolerance. Tolerance is a basic virtue in life. Interpersonal communication is inseparable from you, me and him, and even more inseparable from tolerance.

The French writer Hugo once said: "The ocean is the vastest in the world, the sky is the vastest than the ocean, and the human mind is the vastest than the sky. Interpersonal communication; When dealing with people, there is no friendship without tolerance, and there is no kindness without tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, a cultivation and a standard to measure a person's level.

As we all know, there was a great educator named Confucius in ancient China. He has a favorite student named Yan Hui.

On one occasion, Yan Hui saw a book seller quarreling with a cloth buyer. The man who bought the cloth said, "March 13th, why did you charge me twenty-four dollars"! Yan Jia stopped fighting and said, "This is 3824. You have miscalculated. Don't argue. " The cloth buyer pointed to Hui's nose and said, "Who are you? I only listen to Confucius's "Let's go and reason with him." Yan Hui asked, "What if you are wrong? The man who bought the cloth said, "I will give you my head." "Are you wrong?" Yan Hui said, "I lost my hat to you." Two men found Confucius. Confucius asked about the situation, smiled at Yan Hui and said, "March 8th is 23rd. Yan Hui, you lost. Give the hat to someone else. " Yan Hui thought; 3824, right? The teacher must be senile. He had to give his hat to the man who bought the cloth. The man picked up his hat and left happily. At this moment, Confucius said to Yan Hui, "If you say you lose, you lose a hat. If you say he loses, that's a life! Do you think hat is more important or life is more important? " Yan Hui knelt in front of Confucius and said, "The teacher is righteous but small in right and wrong, and the students are extremely ashamed!"

We say "take a step back and broaden the horizon", tolerance makes things simple, and harshness makes things complicated. There is a classmate named Zhou in our school. He is an open-minded person and many students like to associate with him. I remember that he was bullied by his classmates once in the first grade. But he didn't fight back, and the classmate continued to hit him. He had no choice but to say, "If you hit him again, I'll tell the teacher." Walking and chatting, I didn't go to the middle of the corridor and folded back, still smiling on my face. With his size. Strength, it's easy to fight back, but he didn't do it, but used "tell the teacher" to scare his classmates. This is a kind of tolerance, and it is also a tolerance that a boy should have. His tolerance avoided a fist fight.

In fact, in life, there will inevitably be collisions between people. Friction just depends on how you handle it. Young people are more aggressive. I often blush and have a thick neck for a little thing. If you do something wrong, don't focus on yourself, but try to find fault with others. What I lack is a kind of understanding and tolerance. Teenagers are eager to be understood, tolerant and open-minded. A little more self-criticism and self-sacrifice will make you "the best in the world" selfish and narrow-minded.

In short, people need respect, understanding, tolerance, care and help. In daily life, a "thank you", a greeting, an apology and a smile will bring warmth and hope to you and others, make life full of love and sunshine, learn to be kind to parents, brothers and sisters, elders, teachers and classmates, and interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious.