Settle down: Zhu Shanshan and the room are like brocade.

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When we watch a drama, we often can't help but judge others from the protagonist's first perspective.

For example, Zhu Shanshan, the lucky cat in the store, is very unhappy at first sight. As a real estate agent, I haven't opened a bill for two years, and my working hours are wonderful in the industry. Besides, she's quite a gossip. She eavesdropped at the door of the conference room more than once, and was particularly keen on spreading other people's private affairs. As a subordinate, I behaved a little too much in my work. When I was arranged to go out and distribute leaflets, I cried and said, I don't want to wear such ugly clothes.

So when Fang first took office, she proposed to fire such an employee who had neither performance nor vision, but she was strongly opposed by Manager Xu on the grounds that she was the mascot of the store. I don't understand Fang Jin Si. What are the advantages of retaining such employees? The growth trajectory is different, and it is really difficult for the store manager to understand Zhu Shanshan, who is completely opposite to her.

There are motives behind every character's behavior, and the formation of Zhu Shanshan's character is of course inseparable from the environment of the original family. Zhu Shanshan was born in an alley in Shanghai, and her family's economic conditions should be below average. But the big environment in Shanghai is that most families are actually quite rich in raising daughters. Of course, there is a difference between spiritual wealth and material wealth. It is conceivable that even if Zhu Shanshan's family conditions are not rich, her parents never let her worry about material things. The requirement of her life is to find a rich husband to marry.

There is a scene in the play where Zhu Shanshan comes home. Her mother says to her: Ask me every day, is there any good news today (high-quality rich husband)? Zhu Shanshan replied, no, how can there be news every day? My mother urged me to get married again, but I waited for many years, and it's almost the girl discount season ... You see, the outlook on life is naturally shaped like this: it's better to marry well than to do well. This indirectly caused Zhu Shanshan's lack of motivation in her work.

But who can say that Zhu Shanshan has no sense of purpose? Dressing up beautifully every day is not for the purpose of freedom through marriage. But is it really Zhu Shanshan's personal wish to get married and find a long-term meal ticket? I'm afraid not, or it won't be as ridiculous as my colleagues in the play: Zhu Shanshan is as slow as writing a bill to find a boyfriend.

At the age when I just graduated from work, most of us actually lived like Zhu Shanshan, and few people had a clear and firm motive to say what kind of life I must live in the future. This is unrealistic. How can a person fully understand life without experiencing society?

It is precisely because Zhu Shanshan was well protected by her parents that she was instilled with the life mission of self-help in marriage and had no ambition for her career. She made a mascot to serve tea and water under the Buddhist boss Xu, and lacked a guide who could inspire her to think independently on the road of personal growth, so her opening was so timid: she didn't perform, put on lipstick on the computer, and then was sent out by the house manager to hand out leaflets.

Compared with Zhu Shanshan, Fang Zuming's childhood fate is much more tragic. Born in a poor rural area, his family is extremely patriarchal, and he was almost buried alive by his cruel mother at birth. Fortunately, with the help of his reasonable grandfather, he was able to leave his hometown alive and be admitted to the university. You can imagine the hardships along the way.

If the trouble Zhu Shanshan, a child in the city, faces is how to live a happier life, then the primary survival goal of rural children is to live. It makes sense that children from poor families take charge early. Everyone has primitive survival instinct, and poverty will become the driving force for one's career progress. Even if the store manager has become a regional manager, it is no longer a problem to support himself, but it is difficult to change people's thinking habits after they are formed. If you don't work hard, you can't eat. In the eyes of the room, she looked down on people who fished and caught shrimps all day. At first, she couldn't understand such a lazy person.

They are two people from two different worlds.

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If you want to make a metaphor, Zhu Shanshan is a bit like a rose in a greenhouse, and the room is like a lush weed on the roadside. Roses need careful care to survive, and weeds on the roadside are neglected, so they can only grow wildly by instinct.

Zhu Shanshan's family atmosphere must be simple, happy and warm. She can quickly integrate into the team without any skills. Seemingly careless, in fact, she also has strong empathy. The details of the characters in the play can also reflect this very well. For example, she doesn't eat meat, but she often orders braised pork at work lunch and then gives it to her colleagues. Because she knows that Xiao Lou's family environment is not good, even with a basic salary, she just wants to help her colleagues share a little, but she doesn't poke others' pain.

Such people are defenseless around her, and there are no villains in her worldview. In one episode, in order to sign the bill, she went to the hotel to talk about the house with the client and was almost sexually assaulted. Her mind is simple, not because she is stupid, but because she has been well protected by the surrounding environment since she was a child, and there is no such bad calculation result in her logic.

Girls like Zhu Shanshan, apart from their poor working ability, are actually very comfortable to get along with as friends, which is also the reason for the mascot title in the store. Chatting with such a person is very direct, and you can figure out what she said is obscure without thinking. One detail is that Zhu Shanshan distributed leaflets in the square and met Mr. Lin, the feed king. He took the initiative to come and say hello. Mr. Lin actually wanted to buy a house, but Zhu Shanshan, who distributed leaflets for several days in a row, was completely unaware that the other party wanted to strike up a conversation. On the contrary, she naturally began to talk to each other about "a thin princess dress should go with high heels", which is also extremely cute.

Rooms like brocade are different. I have never experienced the warmth of home since I was a child. She is basically defensive to everyone and has a clear goal. In her world, competition is normal. She could see at a glance that Mr. Lin, who came to buy a house in a simple old man's shirt, was a billionaire, so she immediately put on other colleagues and took the initiative to strike up a conversation. She never felt anything wrong with robbery.

Once, the room looked like a piece of brocade, and Zhu Shanshan was asked to hand out leaflets. Zhu Shanshan changed all the contact numbers of 400 leaflets to her mobile phone number. The room manager's first reaction was: I must have been pried by Zhu Shanshan. The first thing I did when I came to the store the next day was to put Zhu Shanshan in charge with a straight face. This picture is very impactful. When other colleagues in the store understand what happened, Zhu Shanshan happily explained that you have to thank me. You're sick. In order not to disturb your rest, I asked all my clients to contact me and make an appointment to see the house centrally. Said, and then handed a call list to Fang Rujin. It's simple.

Therefore, these two people have completely different ways of thinking. If a salesman has the mind and courage to pry a bill, then she won't drink northwest wind all the year round. As a party, it is difficult to think rationally in the field situation, and most people's emergency response will first consider their own interests.

Fang has never enjoyed the warmth of home since he was a child. The more he lacks, the more he needs to get it back, so he keeps making money and subsidizes the bottomless pit at home. Although the family relationship is indifferent and the mother is an out-and-out pothole, subconsciously she still doesn't want to cut off contact with her family of origin, or she won't promise to pay the house payment to her brother every month. You know, she is just a little girl who has only worked for a few years. After selling so many houses, she should be moved to settle in the city.

There are too many things to carry on your body, and you are bound to be tired. This kind of pressure is something that Zhu Shanshan has never experienced. So you see the room is like brocade, and you live a hard life. Many times, your appearance is heavy and precious. Even though she sold one mansion after another and got a lot of commissions, she never showed the lightness of Zhu Shanshan, whose performance continued to drop to zero, and she would not take the initiative to talk about "beautiful princess skirts and high heels" with others when handing out leaflets.

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It's actually quite interesting to look at a diversified life from the perspective of others, which will broaden people's horizons.

Rooms are like brocade and pearls, to some extent, like the two extremes of a balance. At the same time, they also constantly experience in working together, taking him as a mirror and achieving better selves for each other.

Everyone's fate is predestined. You can't choose whether you were born with a beautiful room or a shining pearl.

No matter what kind of hand you are born with, most of your life before the age of 30 is controlled by external forces, and most of your future life is controlled by yourself.

Look forward to their wonderful growth.