How should parents understand their children's situation when their children are attending college thousands of miles away?

At the beginning of the process, you can send your children to school, and then learn about the situation of the school and the situation of your children. And we must understand that when their children are in school, parents no longer need to pay too much attention to their children's learning, because their school life may be very different from that in middle school and high school. But the parents must not be worried about their children, and they can send their children to school alone when they first go to college.

In the first school year, no matter how busy you are, you should send your children off. This can make the children feel more at ease, and it can also make the parents feel more at ease. Parents can also get to know the hospital during the whole process of sending them off. Check the school situation and find out if your child’s class has hotel accommodation. However, parents should not be too involved in their children's school life. Children also need to have their own private space. If parents are too involved, their children will feel restricted.

Observe the dynamic nature of your child’s posts and try to set a fixed time period for chatting every week. In addition, you can pay attention to the WeChat Moments or QQ space posted by your children. This is the parent. This is an important way to control children, but you don’t have to act like you are a spy. Every time your child posts something, parents will criticize this and that, until the child really blocks you in the middle and later stages and really lets you in. If you are on the credit blacklist, you won’t even be able to cry in time.

You only need to use these to understand the child's thinking, you can observe it for a long time, and then communicate once, but you do not need to communicate with the child in a critical thinking tone, otherwise there will be a gap between you and the child. The distance can only go farther and farther. Of course, you can also chat with your children for a fixed period of time every week, such as on Friday or Sunday. You can talk about things at home and understand your children's situation. Your children will also be willing to listen. I also want to say it.

If possible, reasonable communication must be maintained with the school counselor. You can get as much information as you want from them, but it may not be comprehensive. After all, college counselors don't know everyone likes arms. Parents study and accompany their children. This method is not particularly easy to use. After all, not every parent sometimes has the time and energy to run to school on time, and many children resist. But now many parents, especially mothers, seem to be very happy about this matter.