The Bad Debt of the Third Generation Director Xie Jin: Why do you say that the mentally retarded son is their debt collector?

Xie Jin met Xu Dawen in middle school when he was in Chongqing, and then they got married in Shanghai 1946. After marriage, the husband and wife are very loving and live a quiet and happy life.

However, what followed broke their stable life, and unpredictable things became Xie Jin's painful heart disease all his life.

Their husband and wife had four children after marriage, and the third son and the youngest son were all mentally retarded. It is reported that Xie Jin's daughter also has a little mental problem, but it does not affect her life at all.

Of Xie Jin's four children, only Xie Yan, the eldest son, is the healthiest. The third son is mentally retarded because he was branded as a child.

But Xie Jin's wife, Xu Dawen, invited a wet nurse to nurse her third son because of her poor health. It was not until her son was diagnosed with the disease that she realized that it was all the fault of the wet nurse, because the wet nurse had asthma, which led to her son's mental retardation.

Poor old three, suffering from this disease at a young age, is a great blow to his parents.

Who knows, the old four born later can't escape the fetters of fate. With the birth of the youngest son, there were more family members, and Mr. and Mrs. Xie Jin were busy with their work, so they sent their youngest son to the nursery.

However, the conditions there are not very good, and the care for the children is not thoughtful enough, which leads to Xie Jin's youngest son suffering from several diseases one after another.

Once, I almost didn't recover from a severe high fever, but I finally saved my life, but I became a mentally retarded child with the same mental defects as my brother, and suffered from many diseases in all aspects of my body.

The biggest pain is that parents can't do anything about their children's illness, and their inner helplessness and guilt and self-blame for their children are injuries that parents can never erase. This kind of thing will make people uncomfortable, and even can't accept such a cruel reality.

However, this kind of thing really happened in his own home. Xie Jin devoted more love and care to his third son and younger son, and even thought about his children every minute.

Whenever Xie Jin goes out to work, the third son will watch his father leave at the door. When Xie Jin saw that the child only had his father in his eyes and no one else in his mind, the thorn in Xie Jin's heart ached faintly.

Until the third son died of illness at the age of 38, Xie Jin had been holding back and finally collapsed. The departure of his son made Xie Jin extremely painful and sad, and he was decadent for quite a while.

However, Xie Jin thinks he must take care of his youngest son. He can't be so decadent. He had to pull himself together. After that, Xie Jin put all his energy into his youngest son.

The youngest son suffers from many diseases, and every seizure will make Xie Jin and his wife's heart mentioned in their throats.

When my youngest son was a teenager, his son got lost because of the negligence of adults. At that time, the world of Xie Jin and his wife seemed to have collapsed. They are looking for children everywhere, posting for you everywhere, eager to find their children.

Later, a good-hearted person saw it and sent the child back according to the address on the search for relatives. This time, Xie Jin and his wife were never so lax. Children are his life, and he will never make such a low-level mistake again.

In his career, Xie Yan did not rely on his father's fame, but relied on his own strength to work hard for his career and achieved good results.

Xie Yan became his father's proudest son. Xie Jin gave birth to a healthy son, which was the only hope in his bitter life, but God was cruel and showed no mercy to his old father.

In 2007, Xie Yan was diagnosed with incurable cancer in the United States, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to his father Xie Jin. Xie Yan didn't want to worry his family and didn't mention anything about his cancer.

Xie Yan endured the illness alone and persisted in finishing the drama The Last Night of Jin Daban. Until August 23rd, 2008, Xie Yan finally died of liver cancer at the age of 59.

Until 2008, 10, 18, Xie Jin finally passed away on the 56th day after his son Xie Yan died.

A generation of famous teachers care too much about children in their lives. Regarding their children's illness, Xie Jin once said: "According to China's tradition, they are' debt collectors'. I owed them a debt in my last life, and I will pay it back in my life. However, I still don't know in this life. "