What is a really good man like?

Marriage is the crystallization of love and the source of a happy life. "Marry a Han, dress and eat" has always been a wise saying for women to pursue a happy marriage. As a woman, she can face two choices: one is to work hard on her own like a man, and the other is to take the route of "saving the country by curves" to change her life trajectory, which is why there is an old saying that "men are afraid of entering the wrong line and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person". From ancient times to the present, every unmarried woman, without exception, expects to marry a good man with a successful career, an economic foundation, understanding, and romance. In a sense, having a successful career, having an economic foundation, being considerate, and being romantic and single-minded have always been the "five essential elements" for women.

First, a fine man with economic foundation.

As the saying goes: the economic base determines the superstructure! This seems to be an eternal life rule, and it is also the cornerstone for women to pursue a happy marriage. However, if a woman pays too much attention to money when choosing the route of "curve saving the country", then when she walks into the sacred marriage hall, she should think that this marriage is just a "person-money" transaction, and she is not married to a person, but to money, and her body will be full of copper smell. And this kind of transaction is also the most unreliable. In the marriage law, "men become bad when they have money" seems to be a truth, and rich men can't stand the temptation. Needless to say, three wives and four concubines are too numerous to mention. Such a man can be called a "professional title" in courtship, and he is full of confidence when he goes home after playing crazy outside-I gave you the best life, why do you still care so much about me? Yes, marry a rich man, enjoy a comfortable life, and endure loneliness and cold, plus fear. Therefore, economic foundation is not the source of marital happiness.

Second: a fine man with a successful career.

A successful career is a sign of a good man. In the eyes of many women, finding a successful man is a very happy and honored thing. In order to cater to the vanity of girls, many boys have set themselves a grand goal-to start a career first and then get married. Enterprising people have ideals and ambitions, and their lives are guaranteed. It will be practical to marry such a man, which is the marriage declaration of most women. In fact, after marrying a successful man, I found that the fact is not what I thought. Every day, he does nothing but work and socialize. In his eyes, his home is just a teahouse and a hotel. Apart from sleeping, I seldom see him at home, and even "sexual intercourse" is just a routine, let alone talking to my wife, shopping and watching movies. Living with such a man is like walking dead, and life becomes like boiled water.

Three: considerate, generous and calm boutique man

This kind of person has three advantages: good temper, practical work and informality. There is no angry or angry word in his life dictionary. At home, I have never seen him dissatisfied with anything and scolded him at work. He works very hard and is a pure "old ox". Everyone looks for him when he needs to run errands. Nobody wants him to do hard work. Everyone says that he is a good gentleman, but his colleagues of the same age are more promising than him. Over the past few years, he has been neither bothered nor anxious, playing the role of lacking initiative in "daily life". Life is just two words: cowardice!

Four: a boutique man who understands romance.

This kind of man is generally "O" type blood, which combines humor and romance, knows how to enjoy life, has unique feminine charm and belongs to "Chu Liuxiang" type. If you want to tie the knot with him, you should make two plans: one is to be rich for ten days, the other is to be poor for ten days (because the smart wallet is empty in less than half a month), and the third is because in his love dictionary, there are only likes and dislikes.

Five: a boutique man with single-minded feelings

A single-minded man is also an important indicator of courtship in a woman's heart. This kind of man is politically reliable, does not spend too much time drinking, does not work and socialize all day, and does not consider his own feelings. He belongs to a "spoony species" that can be called lingering. If he is a man, he should be the first choice for women to choose a spouse. In fact, when you really walk into his life, you will find that "single-minded" is his only advantage. This kind of man has no house or car. He has to bargain with small vendors for a long time when he goes shopping. He is simply a living little woman, and his singleness is just a cover-up. Once he has money, he can't be a fuel-efficient lamp. Marry such a person in one word: tired!

In fact, marriage is like a dangerous building. You never know when it will collapse. When you realize that it may collapse, it has collapsed. As a woman, if she wants to take marriage as a lifeline for happiness, in fact, when she has this idea, it has already doomed this marriage to be a silent ending.

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