A foolish and filial man slapped his pregnant wife angrily in order to make his mother happy. Should the woman get a divorce?

In fact, everyone’s growth is inseparable from the selfless dedication of their parents. We should repay our parents and be filial to our parents. But moderate repayment is "filial piety", while excessive repayment is "foolish filial piety".

You must know that the impact of foolish filial piety on marriage is fatal. In marriage, a foolish and filial man will make concessions for his parents, even without principle. No matter how vigorous the relationship is, once married, a foolish and filial husband will always favor his parents in everything. Even if the daughter-in-law is right, if the mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law is wrong, it is still wrong.

Wenjing is a young man in a small town. His parents are ordinary farm workers. However, Wenjing’s parents did not discipline him very much since he was a child. As a result, his academic performance has not been very good. He dropped out of high school before finishing high school. , after living in a small town for a few years, he went to work in a big city with his friends. This time, he left his hometown for more than ten years.

Wen Jing is very capable. All these years he has done hard work in big cities. Others are also relatively simple and frugal. He has not spent the money he has earned over the years. He has saved it all as his own. My wife, Ben, also bought a house in the suburbs of a second-tier city and married a daughter-in-law from the city, Yuqing.

Yuqing's family is not very rich. Although her family is also in the city, it is also a relatively remote suburb, but overall it is better than Wenjing's family. When Yuqing married Wenjing, she was attracted by the qualities of this man. She felt that Wenjing was simple, kind, filial, and good at making money. Such a man was worth trusting for life, so she was willing to accompany Wenjing for two years. After years of hard life, the two finally got married and got married.

Yuqing is a very down-to-earth girl. When she married Wenjing, she asked for almost no gift, and the wedding was very simple. Wenjing did not add her name to the house she bought with the down payment in a second-tier city. She didn't care, she just married the man of her choice without any hesitation.

But Yuqing never thought that all her sacrifices and efforts would lead to a tragic ending, and that the man she once thought was worthy of being entrusted to her for life would actually do such a thing, making her I feel heartbroken.

In fact, the life of the two of them is quite good after marriage, and the relationship between the husband and wife is very harmonious. After all, the new house they live in is far away from the mother-in-law's house, and they do not live with her mother-in-law. , and they didn’t live together, so there were fewer unnecessary troubles. The relationship between the young couple was even more affectionate, and there were no quarrels.

Just last month, Yuqing found out that she was pregnant. This incident was very happy at first, but it was not like this later.

As the only daughter in the family, Yuqing’s parents are naturally very happy and attach great importance to the fact that their daughter is pregnant. Although Wenjing did not return to his hometown, after he called his parents to report the incident, Yuqing's parents-in-law were also very happy that he was finally a grandparent. For a long time, both families were immersed in the joy of upgrading their status. When her parents-in-law learned that Yuqing was pregnant, they always wanted Yuqing to go back to her hometown and meet her pregnant daughter-in-law. Mainly because her mother-in-law wanted to explain to Yuqing face to face what she should pay attention to during pregnancy.

Not to mention the trouble of going back this time, Yuqing also suffered. You must know that Yuqing’s pregnancy and reincarnation are very unstable. Yuqing is always very uncomfortable, has excessive reactions during pregnancy, and always suffers from morning sickness. , and still feel sleepy and lethargic all day long. It would be really torture to go back to my hometown.

But Wenjing is a filial man. His mother repeatedly asked him to see his daughter-in-law, but he could not refuse, so he had to do some ideological work on Yuqing several times, and Yuqing responded slightly better. At that time, he took Yuqing back to his hometown.

In fact, Yuqing is extremely unwilling. Only she knows how uncomfortable her body is. Every time Wenjing uses a straight man's tone to persuade her: "You are just pregnant with a baby." She is just pregnant. No woman is as delicate as you when she is pregnant. When my mother was about to give birth to me, she was still working in the fields. How do you compare with my mother back then?" Every time Yu Qing heard what he said, she would be able to do it. He was so angry that he died. But considering that Wenjing valued family ties, she finally understood her husband's embarrassment, endured her own discomfort, and agreed to embark on a journey back home with Wenjing.

Only when she arrived at her husband's house did Yuqing understand the reason why she had to be called over. It was obvious that she was only two months pregnant, but her mother-in-law stared at her belly for a long time, trying to figure out whether her head was pointed or round, and mysteriously gave Yuqing a packet of Chinese medicine to tell her. It is said that it is good for the fetus and used to protect the fetus. But from her husband's obsession with boys, Yuqing knows that this is a traditional Chinese medicine to protect boys. But since she was here after all, Yuqing could only follow her mother-in-law and force a smile.

Although facial expressions can temporarily deceive people, physiology cannot. Yuqing has been feeling very uncomfortable since she came back from the long-distance bus and got up early in the morning to go to her husband's house. Although the morning sickness was not serious, she still felt very sleepy and quite lethargic.

After listening to her mother-in-law’s nagging for several hours, Yuqing couldn’t stand it anymore. She went back to the house to rest without even eating lunch. Yuqing woke up once and ate something casually. Then she went back to sleep, and it was dark again. She didn't get up until her mother-in-law had finished cooking.

This made my mother-in-law very unhappy. Yuqing had been in this situation for several days, and her mother-in-law finally broke out. She called her son over and told him about her daughter-in-law's "misdeeds."

“Look at your wife, she lay down right after eating, and she didn’t wake up for several hours. She woke up right after eating. I think she did it on purpose. As soon as she got pregnant, the mother is more valuable than the child. , I’ll do it again in the future!” Wenjing’s mother scolded her for a long time, and finally she shed tears of sadness. Wenjing felt heartbroken when he saw his mother in tears. He knew that his mother was exaggerating, but he just couldn't bear to see his mother in such a pitiful state, and he felt so painful in his heart. He thought that Yuqing had indeed become more squeamish these days, so he thought of giving her a small lesson in front of his mother to make her happy.

So, he called his mother, slapped Yuqing on the spot, and said, "Why do you sleep all day long? You have to respect my mother no matter what, right?" Wenjing's behavior, It was a shame for her mother-in-law. Although the slap was not too hard, Wenjing felt that Yuqing was pregnant with her child and it would not happen to her. He would just explain and coax her later. But this slap broke Yu Qing's heart.

On the same day, Yuqing’s eldest brother drove directly over to pick up Yuqing without saying a word or stopping him. At that time, the mother-in-law was a little panicked, but Wen Jing said: "It's okay. It's okay if you don't look for her. I'm just going back to my parents' house for two days. I'll just take her over and apologize."

But when Wenjing got the divorce agreement, she was completely stunned. It turned out that Yuqing went to the hospital to abort the child the next day. She was cruel this time. No matter how Wenjing tried to make amends and apologized, Yuqing would never forgive her.

After reading the whole case, I feel that Wenjing's foolish filial piety is really not advisable. When it comes to his family affection, he should have his own thoughts and attitudes instead of blindly obeying. Secondly, slapping his wife is wrong in itself. No matter how much he wants to relieve his mother's anger, he cannot do such a thing. Such behavior is really not worthy of his wife's forgiveness.

The boundary between foolish filial piety and filial piety is actually not difficult to draw. How to correctly handle family relationships is not a problem in the world. Many people just get confused and end up being ruined by their own foolish filial piety. Family ruins life!