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How to make a true confession

Before confessing: Create an atmosphere and choose a venue for confession. Confession is a big deal after all, so it is recommended that you learn to create a romantic atmosphere before confessing. Some time before confessing your love, you should get closer to the person you are confessing to, deliberately pat the other person on the shoulder, and show the other person some novel gadgets. Or send more ambiguous messages to the other party before confessing your love, such as gossip, and then suddenly say to the other party, look, they XX are actually together, will you agree if I pursue you? Of course, you can't say it too seriously, you still have to be a little bit joking. This will undoubtedly make the other person's heart beat like a deer, which will facilitate subsequent confessions. At this stage, you must also determine the venue where you want to express your love. It is recommended not to choose a place with too many people, as it can easily make the other party feel shy. Generally speaking, couple restaurants, cinema private rooms, KTV private rooms, etc. with only two people alone are more suitable places. Confession: Pay more attention to the girl's emotions, and the words of confession must be matched with an affectionate tone. On the day you confess your love, you can ask the girl out. In the process of communicating with the other party, be sure to look at the other party with affectionate eyes. As long as the other party is not stupid, he will basically know what the next step is. When you feel the atmosphere is most appropriate, you can have a good chat with the other person. This is also one of the things to pay attention to when confessing. Don’t say very directly, “XX, I like you, please promise me?” This will only make the girl feel too sudden. A more appropriate way is to start with the other party over some small things. When chatting, or talking about your own childhood, it is best to talk about something more tragic to stimulate the maternal nature of the other person. Then he naturally guided the topic to the other person, "XX, I really think you are the best girl I have ever seen. To be honest, I felt like I was in love with you from the first time I met you. You really You are very kind and beautiful. But you are always alone, which makes me feel distressed. I want to be someone who can take care of you and help you bear some responsibility." When the words come to this point, I suggest that the man should not continue. Yes, just look at the woman with affectionate eyes. If a girl also likes you, the possibility of agreeing to you is very high. After the confession: Have a brief chat with the other party to let the other party feel your determination. If the confession is successful, then you can talk to the other party about your excitement and happiness. Don't be stingy with your words. Say more, "I'm really happy. This is the happiest day of my life!" Most girls still fall for this. If the confession fails, remember to contact the other party. Don't pursue and fight, but just say, be careful along the way. Such words are enough. This kind of aloofness can make the woman keep you in her heart all the time, and it will also be conducive to the development of the next confession. How to make a real confession 2 What issues should be paid attention to when confessing 1. Relationship foundation How to fall in love without a relationship foundation? Only two people with a certain relationship foundation are qualified to confess. So, is it okay to confess your love when you have a relationship foundation? My answer is to have a degree. A girl once asked me. She said that she had a very good buddy who was her classmate in high school. They had a very good relationship. Later, when they went to college, the boy chose the same school as her, but recently, too I don’t know what kind of madness that boy got, since he confessed his love to her and agreed to it. However, during a recent chat, he felt disgusted when the boy called her "honey". Do you think the boy’s confession was successful? Some people say that the boy succeeded, others say that he did not succeed. I also think he didn’t succeed. If he had succeeded, there wouldn’t be such a phenomenon as nausea. What we call the basis of relationship refers to the basis for the relationship between two people who, under their own rational judgment, are not good brothers, good buddies, or good friends, can develop into a couple. 2. Good experience: Confession is a strange ritual. The more you strive for success, the less successful it will be. Many people disagree with this sentence. We all know that confession requires carefulness and is a very interesting ceremony. Some people are very confident and think they can succeed. They don't pay attention to the ritual of confession and use the wrong method, which ultimately makes both of them embarrassed. Confession does not require any earth-shattering activities, otherwise the surprise will turn into a fright, and you must be prepared to fail.

Once, a graduating student from a certain school confessed her love on the playground, and she and a few buddies agreed to trick the girl to go to the playground first, but the result was surprising. The girl refused to go to the playground. In the process, due to some improper methods, the girl Angry, when the boy saw this, he became angry and excited, and started to fight against the girl. Finally, the police intervened. In fact, it was just a confession that was supposed to bring a surprise, but in the end it lacked the shock. At the same time, don’t be too confident, be prepared to fail, don’t pay too much attention to face in this matter, and pay attention to a good experience in this magical ceremony of confession. 3. Failure to express one's position Often during the confession process, due to the limitations of many factors, the person being confessed to sometimes does not express his position. There are two results for this question, which will be determined based on the other party's state (including expressions, movements, language, etc.) judge. First, there is still a chance or a tacit agreement to continue working hard. If the other party agrees by default, then treat it well; if there is still a chance, then continue to work hard. Second, if you don’t agree, don’t be angry at this time. Confession will definitely have successes and failures. Don’t be discouraged. It’s okay to be friends. Maybe we can’t be friends anymore because of the embarrassment. 4. Future vision: You think it is imaginary, but it is actually very real. You must be prepared to fail when you express your love, and you must be prepared to succeed when you are a human being. Is it over if the confession succeeds (fails)? After the confession is successful (failed), you must think carefully about what you will do with the person you confess to and how the relationship between you will develop. You must not be hasty. After all, confession is very important. I have a friend who, after successfully confessing his love, did not pay attention to maintaining the relationship between the two, and it has deteriorated compared to before. Before, the two of us played games, went shopping, and went to the mall together. Later, we went very rarely, and they were always in trouble. Losing your temper, yes, it was not easy for both of them. Therefore, after a successful confession, when two people are together, they must pay attention to their future vision and how to go in the future.