How to avoid embarrassment, parents of both sides meet.

Introduction of the first parent-teacher conference, related issues and precautions of the parent-teacher conference.

Parents encounter related problems.

1. When did parents meet for the first time?

Both of them have ideas and plans to get married. If both parents are married in the same chapter, they can arrange for both parents to meet. Parents usually meet to talk about marriage.

2. Who should propose the first meeting?

Usually formally put forward by the man.

Who will pay for this meal?

If it is the same city, it is generally solved by the man; If the man's parents go to the city where the woman's parents are located, the woman usually pays the bill; In order to avoid unnecessary embarrassment and contradictions, it is best to let the children settle accounts themselves and not let their parents settle accounts.

4. Who needs to attend the meeting and bring relatives?

When parents meet for the first time, it is not appropriate to arrange too many people to attend. Most parents and children can do it, but many people will be very stiff.

5. Where is the right place to meet?

(1) Restaurant/Hotel: Choose a restaurant recognized by everyone. It is best to choose a private room for chatting. The hotel is located in two places with suitable distance, and the taste of food is prepared according to the preferences of both parents.

(2) Home: Some families will choose to meet at home, and the atmosphere is more comfortable. It is best for the man to take the initiative to visit the woman's house for the first time to show respect.

If it is in a different place, the distance is far, usually from the city of the man's parents to the woman's parents, but it should also be decided according to the actual situation. How to go to the convenience can be discussed by both parties.

What do you need to prepare before meeting?

1. Prepare a gift heart

It is best for both sides to prepare some "meeting gifts" for each other's families in advance. It is best to prepare some "hands-on" gifts for the first time, and the gifts from the man's family are more atmospheric.

Gift List (Recommended)

(1) Liquor: Maotai, Wuliangye, National pits, red wine, etc.

(2) Cigarettes: Zhonghua, Furong Wang, etc. (according to local tobacco);

(3) Tea: Pu 'er, Tieguanyin, Longjing and Jinjunmei.

(4) Health food: donkey-hide gelatin cake, bird's nest, calcium tablets, protein powder and fish oil;

(5) Food gift boxes: nut gift boxes, milk powder, milk, etc.

(6) Clothing home textiles: silk scarves, cashmere scarves, etc. ;

(7) Jewelry: jade bracelets, pearl necklaces and pearl earrings.

(8) Skin care and beauty: skin care suits, perfumes, etc.

2. See the simple understanding in front of you.

Before you meet your child, you should first introduce the basic information of the other parent, such as personality, hobbies and so on. They can praise each other's parents more appropriately, increase their affection for each other's families, and communicate more smoothly when they meet.

Children visit and greet each other's parents more frequently.

Let the other parents know and recognize you, and you will feel closer to your parents when you meet.

Step 4 remind parents

Don't praise your children too much, praise other children more. Don't point out the shortcomings of other children. When you meet for the first time, you should leave a good impression on the other family. Don't try to surprise each other. You can't be tough, or the atmosphere will be awkward.

What are we going to talk about when we first meet?

1. Get to know each other.

2. Be familiar with the family situation.

3. Chatting at home.

PS: The topics we can talk about are

(1) You can talk about local scenery, characteristics, food and so on. Different places;

(2) Recent physical condition, health secrets and life tips;

(3) their respective occupations, working conditions and past work experience. ;

(4) hobbies, cooking, travel sharing, etc. ;

(5) praise each other's children for interesting stories about their children's childhood;

4. Matters needing attention

(1) Don't talk about the details of the first meeting. The more detailed it is, the more likely it is to lead to differences.

(2) Parents can communicate about the marriage customs of the two places, whether they need to get engaged or not, and generally regret the process of spring; The approximate date, budget and scale of the wedding; Where to buy a house, where to live in the future and so on.

Etiquette when meeting.

1. What's your name?

Generally, we call each other's parents' uncle/aunt, and parents call each other's xX father /XX mother. You can call each other by their first names when you get acquainted. If the relationship is in place, you can directly call your in-laws or in-laws.

2. Table manners

Parents and children should try to keep dignified and decent manners, be polite, sincere and generous, and be naturally modest. Children should help their parents and the other half properly, add tea to their parents in time, have a civilized meal, and don't get drunk when they meet for the first time.

Adjust the atmosphere

If parents disagree in the discussion, children should change the subject in time to avoid more heated arguments. If parents are embarrassed to let go when they meet, children should find topics in time and try to familiarize their parents.

In short, children should pay more attention to make this meeting between parents smooth and complete.