The wedding is held at home or in a hotel, and there is a disagreement with my mother. What should I do?

At least in my opinion, getting married is a very big thing, and I believe I will pay enough attention to it when I get married in the future, so I hope all wedding scenes are romantic and decided by myself, so that I will feel happy in retrospect and make me feel that life is full of wine, meat and joy.

So when you get married, you'd better decide where to hold the wedding. If I have differences with my family, I think I can simply adopt their opinions or listen to them carefully in the end, but I have the final say.

If your mother is opposed to holding a wedding in a hotel, ask her why she doesn't want to do it in a hotel and see where your dispute lies. Is it because you don't need enough funds, you think it's too wasteful to hold it in a hotel, or you think it's more lively at home and can reunite your relatives and friends. If it's about money, you can try to save more money yourself. Then tell my mother that I have enough money, and then I think my mother can't say anything. If it's because my mother is conservative, let her be exposed to new things, keep her curious about things, and tell her how good it is to have a wedding in a hotel.

In their eyes, children's happiness is more important than anything else. So, carrot and stick, first a wave of sweet strategy, good words and good deeds have been done, if not, hard again, tell your mother that you paid the deposit.

In short, let your mother think that you are a filial person and can listen to their opinions. At the same time, we should also tell our mother that marriage is a lifelong matter, and we will listen to our mother and be filial to her. But in this matter of marriage, I hope I can listen to the children's opinions. Trust your mother, and you will understand yourself.