Why can't Loft, which sells well in Beishangguang, be sold in third-and fourth-tier cities?

The blocked classmates chatted again. This time, the focus of the problem is the feeling of a young man who stayed in Beijing: "I really want to sell my house, find a small city to buy a villa, and still have some money left to enjoy life!" "

Xiao is the best of his classmates. He has been buying a house in the big capital for more than three years, and he even expressed such feelings. That's a good idea, but in Bian Xiao Chatroom, the first half is arrogance and the second half is coquetry. After all, in Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen, holding a set of high-priced housing, only qualified to do "villa dream." Now the housing prices in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are out of reach for the real first suite.

When you shout to sell the house in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen and buy a villa in the third-and fourth-tier cities, you can't live without the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Big cities open your eyes, and the pattern of small cities makes you unbearable. This psychological distance is difficult to cross.

First of all, at work. There are many employment opportunities in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. If you have the ability to start a business at any time, there are wages and benefits that match your ability. If you go to a third-and fourth-tier city, even if you have the ability to earn 50,000 yuan a month in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, there is no job worthy of your ability for you to do. You can only do relaxed and comfortable work for decades, which means that the salary will not be too high, and your villa may not be able to afford nanny and cleaning.

In addition, you may have to put up with dreamers whose work ability is not as good as yours, and rely on your relatives to tell you what to do. To some extent, Beishangguangshen represents civilization, and the promotion of your work depends largely on yourself. Putting up with a job you don't like, a disgusting and helpless human feeling, is equivalent to chronic suicide.

Secondly, in life, medical care, education, entertainment, transportation, convenience of life, politics, law, humanities, scientific research and so on. Can't compare with Beishangguangshen. When a relative is sick, imperfect medical measures are likely to make people regret it.

I stopped in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and came to the third-and fourth-tier cities for peace of mind. No problem, others can bear it, but children's education simply needs to start all over again. When the children grow up, they will go out to see the world and go to the north. He wants to live the way you tried, with the same starting point, and go back to his old road.

You think that you only sold a house in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and you gave up all kinds of resources linked to the city. The money sold can go to a small city to buy a villa, and there is a surplus, which looks economical, but if you count the invisible benefits brought by life in a big city, as well as irreplaceable long-term benefits such as intellectual capital and social capital, in fact, this behavior is very unwise.

People in the village want to go to the town, people in the town want to go to the county seat, people in the county seat want to go to the city, people in the city want to go to the provincial capital, the provincial capital wants to go to Beishangguang, and Beishangguang wants to go abroad ... This is a virtuous circle. Many people who really can't get along in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen may not want to go back in the end. It is said how comfortable it is to sell the house back, and how much cash can be used to realize financial freedom when a small house is transformed into a villa, but most people don't have the courage to get off track.

Even if you deviate from the track, you will find that the days of freedom and comfort are too long, and the days of busyness and anxiety are too long, and the result is the same as boredom.

A year ago, the girl who sold her house in Suzhou resolutely gave up her high-paying and high-pressure job and walked out of the traffic in big cities. go to dali pursued her literary dream. Open a small shop, look at the mottled sunshine in the morning and afternoon, as well as comfortable pedestrians and cats, read and write, listen to anecdotes in the street, leave passers-by with a long skirt with clear soup and a watery smile, and spend the rest of their lives leisurely. ...

However, four months later, she stood at Suzhou Railway Station, full of fatigue and emotion: she finally knew what is ideal fullness and what is realistic skinny.

Before you go to a small town, once it appears in your mind, it will be beautified. When it reaches infinite beauty, when you really get it, you will find it as boring as stagnant water. Power cuts are commonplace, people are not used to eating, and people can't communicate with each other. At that time, it was the state of life that she pursued all her life. Now she knows that it is only a short escape from the dissatisfied world, and this problem can be solved by taking a vacation. However, she mistakenly regarded the problem as a kind of life.

Conversely, when you travel to a bustling city, don't you envy the local residents?

If you really want to be plain and smart, live a small town life, but stay in a first-tier city to continue to increase value, prepare your children for school life and earn rent.

People in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen can't get away, and the third and fourth lines are empty. When you leave, people will come in one after another. People who have settled in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are really not squatting, but really like that city. How many young people would rather squeeze into a small group of rented houses than return to their hometown with vast land and big houses. You cast a sympathetic look, maybe they live a happy life in a day full of struggle and hope.

Finally, the third-and fourth-tier cities will always be waiting for you there. If you leave Guangzhou, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, it means that you will never come back. Because once you sell it, you may never be able to afford a house in this city.