What do you mean girls don't feel anything?

Xiaojing went on a blind date the other day. When she came back, we asked her how she was.

She kept shaking her head. She said, "I don't feel it."

As we all know, what she said fell through.

It's not just Xiao Jing. Many people, in the process of blind date, even in the process of being pursued, once they don't like each other and want to reject each other, if they say it, they will always be the words "no feeling".

But without feeling, what kind of feeling is there?

The lack of feeling in Xiao Jing's mouth comes from a man's appearance.

The other party is a master's man with a square head and convex eyes, an ugly man who only knows academics but not romance.

To put it bluntly, put aside the ugly words and look at this level, everything is easy to say.

If this man is handsome and cultured, Xiao Jing can take it slowly just because he doesn't understand romance.

To put it bluntly, I didn't even give the opportunity to meet and contact for the second time. It was purely a first feeling, and the visual effect was not up to standard, which was not to my taste.

Of course, this is the first kind of "no feeling", not visual.

(2) Different hobbies.

I remember when I was in college, my roommate Xiaoxi had a high-value suitor. Xiaoxi promised to try dating him for a week, and if she felt good, she would continue to develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

However, in the process of communication, Xiaoxi found that he and the man were out of step in many places.

For example, she likes light and the man likes spicy.

For example, she likes small and fresh literary films, and the man likes horror science fiction films.

They went to the movies for the first time.

The man asked her what movie to watch, and Xiaoxi replied with reserve: "Watch what you like."

As a result, the man chose a long and boring science fiction film, and Xiaoxi slept in the cinema for an hour.

In the car, the man has been talking about how wonderful science fiction movies are, while Xiaoxi only thinks that the female host is good-looking, and the male coach knows nothing else.

Anyway, that day, the man's performance made Xiaoxi not very satisfied.

Xiaoxi thinks they are together because they think each other's values are close, but their personality hobbies are not the same.

Speaking of movies that day, on second thought, if you let that man accompany you to the cinema to watch romantic movies, that man will definitely fall asleep like himself.

She doesn't want the man to make do for herself, and she doesn't want to compromise again for the man's benefit.

More importantly, some men only care about their hobbies and don't care about their women's feelings at all.

Moreover, Xiaoxi is the kind of girl who likes to watch small fresh literary films in her boyfriend's arms, and the man who pursues her is the kind of woman who likes her girlfriend lying in her arms and laughing at all kinds of horror clips.

In this way, the two knew their tastes were different, so in less than a week, they broke up peacefully.

Xiaoxi went to find a literary boy who can shoot, play guitar and tell stories in his heart, while the man went to find a female man who can bear all kinds of bloody scenes in heavy-taste movies in his heart.

The two of them, like, one is a girl who lives in the Red Chamber and only knows reading, making tea and talking about poetry. One is a real man who lives in the water margin with all kinds of iron ladies and heroines and eats meat and drinks a lot. So we can't agree on the feeling of love.

(3) I don't think it's because it's inappropriate.

My friend Qin Xiao met a suitor not long ago. The other party is tall and handsome, and the external conditions are really good.

As for the internal conditions, my friend Qin Xiao refused directly before I had time to understand them.

Her reason for rejecting each other is simple, "I have no feelings for you."

In fact, she didn't feel that it was just a criticism of his economic conditions, but it was hard to make it clear, for fear of being regarded as a material reality by the other party. Her lack of feelings is an inappropriate excuse.

The reason why she is very critical of the other party's economic conditions is because the man comes from a poor peasant family, his education is not high, his job belongs to the bottom, and his two younger brothers are still in primary school. This means that once the relationship between men and women is established, Xiaoxi will bear heavy family responsibilities if she develops into a husband-and-wife relationship in the future. Without making money, she can't take care of the man's parents and can't afford his brother's education. When she thinks about it, she is under great pressure.

So she saved the second meeting without saying anything. Because she fell in love and got married, such a family is really unacceptable to her.

Qin Xiao once said to us, "This is not a school day, so we can't be naive. Why should I cultivate feelings with a poor, poor and unfamiliar man? " Since it is to cultivate feelings with a strange man, why not find a man with good conditions to cultivate emotional development and communication. "

Actually, the stream is right.

We like a person when we are studying, but we don't think about a person's family, money and future. Now that we are grown up and sensible, we just want to find a man with better conditions to cultivate emotional development and communication.

Since everyone is a stranger, since feelings should be cultivated and developed from a new angle, according to a person's normal choice, why not choose a man with good economic conditions to cultivate and develop?

These are just the choices of survival of the fittest when choosing men. This is the law of human natural selection.

Anyway, many people have different "no feelings". After all, people are different.

I don't know what it's like for a man to pursue a woman and hear "no feeling" But I know that when a woman refuses you and says "I have no feelings", she must really don't want to be with you.

If she likes you, she won't feel nothing. Because the heart is hot, it will beat, be excited, miss you very much, and even give you everything, including body and mind.

If a woman says she doesn't feel anything, stop obsessively asking, "What kind of feeling do you want?"

Just walk away. Because sometimes maybe that's just an excuse that she doesn't like you. If a person rejects you with "no feeling", then the chance that you can catch up is very small, because the feeling is too ethereal and involves too much. Have looks, hobbies, family economic foundation, and a feeling of wanting to be close to you.

She has no feelings for you, probably because she doesn't want to get in touch with you, know you or have anything to do with you. No matter how close you are, all she does is escape and alienate again and again.

If a girl is interested in you, she won't say that she has no feelings. She will say that we can try to socialize everywhere and see if we can cultivate feelings. If a person refuses to give you a chance, it is completely hopeless.