If you don't accept being old, you really won't be old?

If you don't accept being old, you really won't be old?

Text/Li Mu Remote Map/Network

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Women's pursuit of beauty is a lifelong career. No woman doesn't want to be charming, elegant and slim. But some people just hope, and some people really spend their whole lives practicing.

Carmen Dell'Orefice, a world-famous model, was born in new york on June 3rd, 20 15. At 20 13 Paris Fashion Week, she made her last appearance, showing her domineering. At the age of 86, he is still active in the public eye and still the favorite of top brands all over the world.

Carmen has iconic silver hair and "sharp and elegant" eyes. 1.78m in height and 36.26.39 in girlhood. The whole body exudes a noble and elegant aura of Leng Yan, which makes it impossible to associate her with the 1980s. Her formidable blue eyes and angular facial contours can still create all the desired effects for photographers.

For decades, she has been the darling of masters and big brands. She made her debut on the catwalk for Hermes and frequently appeared in large fashion shows in Dior City. Top brands such as Rolex Watch, Ya Dun Cream and Target Department Store invited them to speak for them, and Carmen's image as an evergreen tree in fashion proved her lasting and reliable quality.

The world's top models with a first-class status and 60 years of experience may be difficult to serve just by imagination. However, the situation is just the opposite. A public relations manager who worked with her said in an interview: "You can't hear any complaints about foot pain or lack of sleep at her place. Her smile is always warm and bright, and her neat, humble and punctual professional attitude far exceeds that of young models. "

It is said that Carmen Dell once had this conversation with a friend.

A friend asked, "Dell, you spent so much money on maintenance and didn't see much on you!" " "

Dell replied to her friend: "I don't spend money on maintenance, but I want to make myself less. For example, you have age spots, but I don't;" You have wrinkles, I don't; Your body is bloated and your skin is drooping. I don't know. "

What I want to say is that apart from being good at maintenance, Carmen's persistence since she joined the business at the age of fifteen and her elegance that she never gave up.

A person, only if he deeply loves his career, will have enough energy to work hard for it willingly. When talking about the secret of professional life, Carmen once said, "Be careful of the company and have fun. If it is not interesting, it will be boring. "

Carmen always maintains a respectful attitude towards her career because she is interesting, so as to keep herself in a perfect state. For her, all the poverty and suffering she experienced finally turned into a happy experience, moved by love and enriched by persistence.

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The reason why we are deeply moved by Carmen Dell'Orefice is that there are so few people around us. We are always easily defeated, by time, by years, by everything we have experienced.

There is a distant relative in my hometown who has been in poor health. When I was very young, in my memory, she often nagged my mother. You'll know when you are my age. I've always wondered why I knew when I was her age. What would you know?

Later, after studying abroad, I went back to my hometown less often, but every time I saw her, I felt that she was getting old. Even a little senile.

Until, I also got married and had children. One day, my mother and I were looking after the baby and suddenly remembered this relative. Then I took out my childhood questions and asked my mother. Mom smiled and said, hehe, actually menstruation is only a few years older than me.

It's just that she's old and early, and when she was in her thirties, she shouted, "People spend thirty days at noon." My heart is dim, so even I am old. Mom smiled and said, "Even I am not old enough. You have no right to be old. "

Yes! If your heart had said to itself, I am old. Who can stop you from aging? My mother is always called young by her peers. Presumably it has a lot to do with my mother's attitude of not being old! My mother likes singing and dancing. After learning with me, she went to QQ and played WeChat. Interested in all new things.

Mother likes to stew some soft food because her mouth is not good. Living with us, I gradually found that my husband likes to eat fried dishes. In order to satisfy his appetite, his mother searched online and learned how to make various dishes. My sister came back from other places, clamoring for braised pork ribs and French fries. Seeing her mother's appearance, she followed suit and had to think that her mother was too fashionable.

In fact, my mother's eyes have blurred, and her hearing has been slightly affected by her early experience. But I have never heard my mother tell me about her difficulties, nor have I heard her repeatedly say, "I am old." I often hear her say "I can do it" and "I'll do it".

So, although, mom doesn't have the tension and charm of a world famous model. But in front of us, she will always be young and full of energy. Even she often struggles with me to lift heavy objects and hold children. In her eyes, I have always been the weak daughter and a strong mother.

In this way, being old and not being old is sometimes a string in your heart. If you stretch tight, you will never fall down. If you relax yourself in your mind. Then God will make you old first.

My five-year-old daughter took off her skirt and put on loose pajamas before taking a nap today. Suddenly she said with emotion, "If you want to look good, you have to be tired. It's not good to be comfortable. " Five-year-olds understand this truth so early.

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The goddess who is hung up is always a little far from our life. It is also human nature to be born, sick and dead. But it is better to grow old gracefully than to live decadent. It's just that some things go too far.

We all know that a movie star is still playing a girl of 65,438+08 at the age of 60, which is one of the fairy goddesses in China. But looking at the swollen face of hyaluronic acid, it has become turbid and no longer clear, so I thought, why bother yourself? Why can't you play some roles that suit your identity and age?

It is good for actors to dare to challenge themselves. It is also a good thing that people are not old. But we can't reset our rich and fulfilling life, and really take the knowledge of a 18-year-old girl to the future life.

All experiences need to be precipitated, and the good ones should be used as nutrition to moisten your bones and enrich your flesh and blood. Let the essence left after precipitation regain its posture and stimulate vitality.

Among the actors I admire very much, Angie Chiu is one and Brigitte Lin is one. They can all be regarded as the immortal goddess of China. They have a happy life, a happy family and a stable career. And their persistent maintenance and cultivation are also slowly released in posture and conversation. Such as Lan and Zhi.

Being old is not just about looking at a person's face, facial features or figure. This is more like an atmosphere. A kind of self-confidence, elegance and tolerance emanating from the inside out.

Confidence makes us smile at anyone. Elegance is the height that we constantly cultivate ourselves, and tolerance is the harmony released after the rough sand of life is polished.

Everyone is afraid of getting old. When I was a few years old, I watched Liaozhai, and the woman in it instantly changed from a beautiful young woman to an elderly woman, which made me feel chilling.

I am also keen on maintenance and fitness, but I also know that I can't stop white hair and wrinkles from crawling into my life after all, but now I can accept it calmly. Accept what we can't change, and then try to correct what we can control, not only appearance and posture, but also reading, and then accept everything to enrich our tolerance and aura.

If the soul is immortal, practice well! After all, we will become "goddess of youth" or "goddess of youth", and we will have several times more experiences than others at most.

Li muyao

Real name is Li Lingling, born in 1980s.

I have been a reporter, a host and a teacher.

Writing is a beautiful thing, just for the sake of mood.