The unforgettable relationship between middle school classmates in my memory

As spring passes and autumn comes, flowers bloom and fall. In the blink of an eye, the high school classmates have been separated for thirty years. A few days ago, classmate Hao participated in the county cadre class of the Provincial Party Committee Party School, and several classmates who had been separated for many years got together by fate.

Everyone was very excited and happy to meet again after a long separation. Some classmates met for the first time after graduating from high school, and their excitement was beyond words. From the young man in his prime to a mature middle-aged man, from the shy girl to the mother of his child, the passionate young man back then is now in his prime, having experienced the ups and downs of life. Suffering, after years of vicissitudes and baptisms, everyone's heart is filled with infinite emotion. There is both helplessness and understanding of life; there is both struggle against fate and longing for life.

Time flies by like a flash, and thirty years have passed in the blink of an eye. Today, when we all gather together, we can't help but think of bits and pieces of the past, as if we are back to yesterday. Everything is so far away, but yet so kind, real, natural, wonderful and moving. In those innocent and hot student days, we were happy and carefree; we can't forget the smiling faces when we met; we can't forget the nostalgia when we parted. Two years, in the long river of history, is short, but in our lives, it is brilliant. We meet, get acquainted, and know each other, we care, help, and encourage, and the flower of friendship blooms in our hearts. No matter how the years pass, no matter how life changes, what remains unchanged is the affection in our hearts, and what remains unchanged is the dream in our hearts. Reunited after a long absence, there was no strangeness or any barriers, and the caring look was beyond words, as if we had never been apart.

In a person's life, he will experience all kinds of life and have all kinds of beautiful or painful experiences. However, there are always some things that accompany your experience and life, which are unforgettable and always unforgettable. There are some people that people cannot forget. I remember that the middle school I attended was a rural middle school. Those who were lucky enough to be admitted to university at that time or who still live a pretty good life today were almost all whose parents were transferred from the provincial capital or county to the local township government, factory, or arsenal hospital, especially those who At a gathering in a provincial capital, there are even fewer classmates, but an experience many years ago, such as a person or an event many years ago, will arouse people's nostalgia, and they will yearn for or yearn for the people or things in the past. I hold grudges deeply, so it becomes extremely precious during the student period that I must go through in my life...

Among my middle school classmates, the most appealing and generous one is my classmate and comrade-in-arms Hao He Another classmate, Gong and Hao, who has gone to Shanghai for development, joined the army after graduating from high school, and also participated in the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam. A few years ago, he was transferred from the post of minister of the Ministry of Human Arms to the Pingxiang City Government. He is a generous and humble person who knows how to give back. . His sincerity and enthusiasm for his classmates are beyond the reach of all classmates. I once visited his city with a group of my colleagues, and his hospitality left a deep memory in me. Gong was the most naughty student in our class at the time. After graduating from high school, he worked in sales at a local arsenal. After the arsenal moved to Nanchang, due to the downturn of the state-owned armament industry, he went to Shanghai to develop. Ju said he was doing well in Shanghai. He also became the boss, and his liveliness and playfulness were the most unforgettable.

My classmate Zhang, who is at the same table as me, is introverted, relatively low-key, and very particular about everything. After failing the college entrance examination, he joined a cram school and got into college until he got a doctorate. He is now doing foreign aid work abroad. Although his marriage has experienced setbacks and hardships, his meticulousness and diligence in study are the most outstanding among our classmates.

My classmate Zhong taught in the county school after graduating from the Normal College. Later, he gave up his studies and studied literature to get a graduate degree. After graduation, he and his wife were transferred to a university in the provincial capital and the attached middle school to teach. I have worked hard to realize my ideals, and I have also taught my children well. The year before last, my son was admitted to a university abroad, which is very enviable.

My classmate Liu had an unsatisfactory job placement after graduating from normal school. Later, his father returned to Nanchang to implement the policy, and he took his father's position and worked in administrative work in a design institute in the provincial capital.

My classmate Yang is my neighbor and classmate. He passed the university after re-study. After graduation, he settled for the status quo and worked in the county government. His two brothers both passed the key universities and studied abroad after tutoring. And his low-key, peaceful and aloof attitude is something that many of us cannot achieve.

Xiong, our classmate two years earlier, is the daughter of my primary school teacher. Her perseverance and tenacity as a student have always been talked about by her classmates. Her academic performance has always been very good. Unfortunately, She had stage fright in the college entrance examination, so she repeated her studies for five years before passing the exam at Sichuan University. Now she is working in a provincial government agency and is the highest-ranked among our classmates in political circles.

Classmate Zhang’s parents were transferred to the local area from the provincial capital. Her father was the director of the Military Hospital. She was pampered since she was a child and was the eldest child at home. She enlisted in the army because her brother died in a self-defense counterattack. Several years of training in the field army have cultivated her tenacity and open-minded character. She has been single for more than ten years after being divorced, and she has cultivated her daughter, who is gifted in languages, into a leader who is proficient in multiple languages.

She is especially praised for her enthusiasm and generosity. She works as a doctor in a well-known provincial hospital and always goes out of her way to help patients with local accents. Although she is not a local, her sixteen years of living there have made her She has an indelible sense of local accent and nostalgia. My classmate Liu failed the college entrance examination and got a job in the county government. We had basically no contact after graduation. A few years ago, she had experience as a counselor at the Normal University, and our contacts became closer. During this period, I helped She helped bring about her current marriage, and my middle school classmate in Nanchang now has an eloquent, enthusiastic and cheerful woman.

My classmate Chen was assigned to work at Xingang after graduating from technical school. She has experienced cancer, marital difficulties, and many ups and downs in her life, but her tenacity and optimism have made her successful. Her life also made her life full of excitement. Her father was labeled as a rightist during the Cultural Revolution and the family moved to a small mountain village more than ten miles away from the town on a mountain road that was inaccessible to traffic. When I was in middle school, I went to her hometown in the mountains to live and eat for a few days. She was so hospitable and friendly. My family has given me the privilege to experience true love and freshness, and it has also made the mark of warmth remain real and long-lasting. What she is proud of is that she used the limited knowledge she learned when she was in middle school to tutor her brother, who dropped out of school very early after graduating from elementary school and returned to his hometown to work in farming. As a result, her brother was admitted to a technical secondary school, and after graduating from technical secondary school, he became a farmer. He directly obtained a doctorate, which was a legend in the local area. Her son is smart and self-reliant. He is well-known among local students in Xinyu. He was admitted to a key university with ease the year before last.

My classmate Yang is my neighbor and classmate. After graduating from the health school, I was assigned to work in the county hospital. For many years, whenever I returned to my hometown, the first thing I thought of was to find her. Unfortunately, I would have to look for her in the future. Over the course of the years, I could never find her, and the friendship between classmates gradually faded away.

My classmate Yang is the daughter of the principal of our middle school. She worked as a teacher in the county after graduating from the Normal College. It is said that she had a bad fate. Not only did she have a troubled marriage, but she also became paralyzed after contracting rheumatoid arthritis. (now deceased). Her unfortunate experience made me deeply moved. I am inseparable from her today. I remember that in the year I graduated from elementary school, it was stipulated that all of us students who graduated from elementary school as workers’ children would enter the newly established worker’s children’s school that year. In middle school, on the way to school on the day of registration, I had a different idea and found her, who I had studied with for two years in elementary school. With the help of her mother, several classmates and I successfully entered the local teaching quality system. He studied in a relatively good rural middle school and was fortunate enough to be one of the first batch of high school seniors to take the college entrance examination and be admitted.

During high school, I transferred to the County No. 1 Middle School and studied for a month. I met very few classmates, but I deeply understood the differences between urban and rural areas. In the past thirty years, I can count Among my middle school classmates, these are the only ones who have gotten together relatively few times, but the classmates in County No. 1 Middle School live a different style. Many times, my spouse always calls me to the reunion, and there are also a few of them who have They are my classmates in County No. 1 Middle School. There are many successful people among them. They seem to live in another style and another level. Their lives are wonderful and rich.

Different living spaces and different display platforms. I often feel that there is a sense of lack in my student experience. Perhaps it is the small rural middle school that limits the development of people's thinking. Of course, the teachers are limited. , the vision is also limited, and there are naturally very few people who can really make it through reading. Originally, people are different. If you carefully analyze the different destiny gaps of each person, you will find that in addition to personal factors, because of "low origin" "The gap in destiny caused by this is something that we are unable to change under our current circumstances. We hope that in the near future, the gap in destiny between individuals due to differences between urban and rural areas will be reduced or even eliminated."

Life spans thirty years. The vicissitudes of time have obliterated the frivolity of youth. When youth is gone and elegance is gone, looking back on the past, I feel so melancholy and sad.

Repeated attempts and experiences, repeated sacrifices and gains, repeated setbacks and successes all seem so natural now, but they are the most beautiful journey that life has given us. No matter where you are in this journey Lost, gained, successful, failed, beautiful or painful, all the experiences and training are the most precious things in life...