Tintin's Early Experience

Cai Ming is a famous artist. Little known is that she is also a rare mother of wisdom. A few years ago, her son Ding Ding came back from studying in England and was "acclimatized". She brought her son into the family environment with maternal love and wisdom.

In June 2009, Cai Ming and her husband Ding Qiuxing arrived at the Capital International Airport early to meet them. When the tall and straight son in a white T-shirt came over, Cai Ming suddenly had a dream. In 200 1 year, Cai Ming sent his son abroad. Today, my son has grown from a little boy to a man.

Although they have been separated for many years, Cai Ming always remembers Tintin's childhood dietary preferences. After her son returned to China, she rolled up her cuffs and made coke chicken wings, sweet and sour fish and shredded apples for her son in the kitchen. In fact, my son has lived overseas for eight years, and his eating habits have long changed. Tintin told Cai Ming bluntly, "Mom, I'm not used to Chinese food. Make me western food in the future. " In this way, Cai Ming will be busy in the kitchen for nearly two hours for a meal.

Cai Ming has a generous personality, many friends inside and outside the circle, and often goes home as a guest. Everyone drank red wine, talked about scripts and played bridge. The atmosphere was very harmonious. Once, after his mother's friends dispersed, Tintin said to Cai Ming, "Mom, I am a member of this family. When guests come home, you have to ask my advice in advance. " In the eyes of a mother, a son is a child no matter how old he is. Cai Ming didn't take it to heart at all.

Every day when it's time to get off work, he goes out with his bag. Colleagues all looked at Tintin with strange eyes. ...

Three months have passed, and the relationship between Ding Ding and his colleagues is not harmonious. Every day when he arrives at the company, he is very depressed. A few days later, Ding Ding "jumped ship" and entered a financial unit as a financial planner.

Learn from mistakes. In the new unit, in order to ease the relationship between colleagues, Tintin frequently attended colleagues' parties. Gradually, Tintin's family background was exposed in the unit. Several times, the manager gently reminded Ding Ding: "With a little effort, your performance will be among the best in the company." Tintin can't figure out the meaning of each other's words. Finally, the manager simply said bluntly, "You should know how to use your parents' resources to develop high-end customers in the entertainment circle. "

One day, Cai Ming was doing dumbbell exercises in the living room. Suddenly, CCTV's "Psychological Interview" column focused her attention: psychologists made an image metaphor-the emotional changes of returnees can be summarized by the letter "U". In this case, parents and society should create a relaxed and warm environment to help returnees rebuild their self-confidence and return them to their emotional peak. ...

165438+1In the early morning of October 3, Cai Ming came to his son's room with two gold trophies and said, "Ding Ding, this is the prize you won when you performed in the Youth Choir before going abroad. During your study abroad, you were also the best among a large group of classmates, and your photography won the first prize. Although you are in trouble now, my mother believes it is only temporary. With your wisdom and perseverance, you will definitely come out. " Words, said tintin surge of emotion surge.

Cai Ming has a high IQ and EQ. In the following days, she regularly invited her son's domestic classmates and the children of colleagues and friends into the house to hold a "family salon". Mr. and Mrs. Cai Ming took this as a great event, and they deliberately vacated the spacious and bright guest room as "salon space".

20 1 1 February, Tintin told Cai Ming seriously: "Mom, I have completely adapted to life in China, and I know how to get along with people around me. The state has introduced many preferential policies to encourage returnees to start businesses. I want to start my own cultural company. " Cai Ming repeatedly applauded. Subsequently, Cai Ming and his wife contributed 500,000 yuan to help their son set up a cultural communication company. Tintin remembers his mother's teachings, treats employees as relatives, organizes employees to have dinner and travel abroad on holidays ... The company is like a big family, and its performance is rising.