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Half a year after graduation, after leaving school, we began to get in touch with society at zero distance, which is another turning point in our lives. Because of work, because of love, because of dreams, we have experienced some ups and downs more or less.

Through the push of three small platforms, I collected the answers of 237 graduated monks. It is not difficult to find that many people have a deep understanding of life, ideals, love and reality.

The following are some answers selected from the answers of 237 graduated monks.

Reader's self-report:

There is reality, loneliness, frustration, melancholy, love, but no travel.

It seems that everyone is busy.

@zzzj is from Shanghai.

The society is very realistic, and the network of relationships weaves the whole social form of China. It doesn't matter, every step is difficult. The dream is full and the reality is skinny. Now I occasionally do things that I didn't dare to think about before, and do things that I hated before, but it has gradually become a habit.

Every step is not easy. I often wonder what I have done before, and whether everything is a punishment for my previous madness and laziness.

@ emmmmmm ... from Zunyi.

Intermittent complacency, continuous mixed eating and waiting for death. I went to many places, met the people I wanted to see, and walked several times before I found out that I really graduated.

Everyone around me is very busy, and no one is as idle as me. It is also because I didn't prepare for graduation before. Everything goes with the flow, without purpose or goal. Later, I followed my feelings and did what I wanted to do, but I couldn't help myself and couldn't bear the pressure of life.

So everything became terrible, and finally I lost interest in what I had longed for, and I was at a loss about what was happening and what was going to happen. Everything in the past is full of distance, and everything now is full of strangeness.

Just stand at this time node, look back step by step, regret the past and have no hope for the future.

Angel is from Xuchang.

Interview failure, interview success, renting a house, probation period, passing probation period, job stability, resignation, resignation, preparation for postgraduate entrance examination.

@ Chunchun is from Guangzhou.

I don't know whether to say lucky or unlucky, but I found a job that was easy and passable. Everything is fine at present ~ What are you thinking about to change the status quo?

@ Xiangyang is from Shanghai.

Work is not satisfactory, living in a strange city, lonely.

@ Niu came from Beijing quietly.

Changed two jobs. I found one myself, and someone else helped me find one. I don't like any of them, and I want to change to a third one. Is this good?

@khilla is from Changzhou.

Just today, I was smashed by an unreasonable customer, but I still solved the problem with a smile, and then turned around and cried all the way back to the rental house, just like a mental derangement.

@ The Great is from Kunming.

Fortunately, I found a good job before I left school, and then I went directly to work in the enterprise after graduation. However, after work, I found that I lacked not only work experience, but also social experience. After graduation, I am alone. Every day after work, I listen to Lei Zi's ideal, and I feel sad.

On the bus, I slept in the station.

Along the way, I looked at the neon-lit city.

My ideal kept me in this crowded crowd.

The window has been covered with snow.

It's the four seasons cycle again.

I am no longer the fearless young man.

Only ideals are supporting those numb flesh and blood

How old are you this year?

You always seduce young friends.

You always thank me, surprise me and let me fall into a disappointing life.

Ideal is always young.

You made me stubbornly resist my fate.

You make me pale.

Still naive to believe that the flowers will bloom again.

The sun is full of busy people.

@UCHO is from Shanghai.

I spend more time thinking about life than four years in college.

@ Fengse comes from Wenzhou

Still insisting on the original dream and starting a business! Currently working in the food industry, has its own factory and brand. Try hard to be bigger and stronger!

@e Stone comes from Tibet.

At the end of July, I bid farewell to my hometown and came to Lhasa alone. As a volunteer of college students' western plan, I have the honor to meet a group of like-minded friends. After a week of training, I was assigned to a public institution in Lhasa, and my daily work was trivial and indispensable.

After work, set up interest groups such as love service team, single team and basketball team. We went to the community to express our condolences to the elderly, to tutor students in primary schools, to ride bicycles and take photos together ... The past six months have been very fulfilling and meaningful.

@ K from Hangzhou

Looking for a job in Hangzhou with my classmates after graduation 1 1 day. Later, he returned to his hometown. After I joined in Hangzhou, I experienced a confused period of more than one month. Because no one took me, I had to explore by myself. Things are getting slower and slower. I want to study more. I met several fellow villagers in the company, and went to Hangzhou alone at the weekend, and went to Yiwu and Hengdian. It seems that there are more places to play than four years in college.

I went home once to deal with family chores. Half a year passed, and time passed quickly, but the more information I received, the more anxious I became, and I was not practical at all. The feeling now is that I may still have not found the way I want to go. The truth is that I have to practice again. Sometimes I feel dazzled for four years. I can vividly remember the scene when I graduated. I also met some people, made friends for life, and had experiences that I can miss. He is a good young man.

There is also a saying that' society is really a melting pot'. Everyone has it. I may have to change my childish ideas when I was a student. Vigilance is inevitable. Who can I tell?

@ Frederick is from Wenzhou.

Being an independent photographer in Wenzhou, shooting graduation books and weddings, and often going to school to shoot, I still think school is good.

@ 京京京京京京京京京 does not lie. Yunnan people.

I graduated from school on June 22nd this year and started to work in July 1. It's almost five months now, and I haven't become a worker in the full sense. After less than half a year's boring work with a poor salary, I found that I was not as passionate as I was at the beginning, and my work progressed in general. I am also thinking about whether it is suitable to do this, and then position myself. Everything else is fine, without love, the dream has been chasing.

@ Green leaves from Yunnan

I left my boyfriend who had been away from home for five years, a man who thought I could give up everything for him, and took a special post, teaching in the countryside, which made my life full of busyness and occasionally felt sad, but now I just want to start over.

@YYW is from Zhejiang.

Half a year after graduation, I dare not expect to travel and go far away every day. I'm too busy. And I am more awake than ever and know what I should do now.

I love fantasy very much. Now I have less useless fantasies and more actions. When I was in college, I didn't think too much about many ideas of the Open University. I moved my existing bricks carefully. However, there are still some ideas in the Open University. When you think of success, you will still be covered in chicken blood. I'm just not crazy about it.

I think I am lucky. My girlfriend who has been talking for eight years is with me to start a business, and my own projects that are far from starting a business are getting better and better.

@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫 is from Shenzhen.

It's almost half a year since I graduated, but my feelings haven't been handled well and my career hasn't improved. Life is still so bad. I live a ghost life, and I especially envy those who live a poetic life (downstairs).

The light of the sun comes from Xiamen.

The job hasn't been decided yet, but it's good to have a beloved one here. I've got my license, and now I'm planning a wedding, and I'm planning to get married in mid-February. I don't want to work as hard as others. Life needs a lifetime, not a few days or months, but a lot of time in the future.

@ Ran Ran is from Xiamen.

Betray, break up.

@AK47 is from Wuhan.

I took an examination of the teacher, the head teacher of senior one, and took five classes. I used to think the teacher was relaxed, but now I am busy with my health.

Youth is really drifting away.

Day18th of Five Commandments, 365 Challenge Camp