Guangxi bride reception process

How to get married in Guangxi is a matter of great concern, especially for boys who marry girls in Guangxi. Let's take a look at the process of picking up brides in Guangxi!

Guangxi bride reception process 1 1. Guangxi girl marriage process

1, propose

After the relationship between the two sides is stable, the man's parents should personally propose marriage to the woman's house to show their respect for her. When proposing marriage, we will discuss the wedding time, wedding matters and so on.

Step 2 date

After the marriage proposal is successful, the engagement will be carried out. Generally, the man will prepare a betrothal gift, which is what we call a bride price, and some gifts for the man's parents.

3. Dowry

A girl's dowry is suggested to be packed in a red suitcase with scissors, combs, mirrors, clothes, bedding and so on. Married less than a month, the groom is not allowed to look in the mirror in the box.

4. A bed

When you put the mirror on the dresser on the bed, you need to cover it with red paper. The bride will open it herself the next day. When you put it on the bed, you need to light a pair of lights and keep refueling until the girl comes back from her parents' house and naturally goes out.

5. Wedding ceremony

The night before the wedding, get ready for the next day. On the wedding day, the groom and the groomsman come to pick up the wedding. The number of people who pick up the wedding and send it can add up to an even number.

6. Go back to your mother's house

Within three days after the wedding, the bride and groom need to meet at the bride's house together, commonly known as Huimen. You need to prepare some gifts when you go back and go to your parents' house before noon. After the return visit, the bride and groom need to leave their parents' home on the same day and cannot spend the night at their parents' home.

Second, what is the daughter going to marry the woman for?

1, bucket

If you have attended a traditional wedding, you must have seen the woman get married with two barrels. Although both barrels are wrapped in red cloth, there is not much difference in appearance, but they actually represent different meanings. One of them is a red bucket and the other is a descendant bucket. The contents of the two barrels are different, too. One is red dates, peanuts, longan, red duck eggs, chopsticks, toilet paper and cypress branches, and the other is rice, but some longan and red dates will also be put on the top of the bucket.

2, washbasin

Besides bringing buckets, when the bride gets married, she will also prepare a washbasin. Like buckets, the number of washbasins is also particular, usually two. Remember, even numbers are the most auspicious at weddings, and odd numbers are taboo. Of course, the washbasin, like the bucket, can't be empty, so you need to put something in it. Generally speaking, a washbasin needs to put red dates, longan and a small bundle of cypress branches, then cover them with red happy characters, wrap them up, or put gifts that the bride bought for her in-laws, such as shoes, socks and hats, in duplicate; In another washbasin, you need to put a weight, and then a pot of evergreen with seeds.

Step 3 bedclothes

Everyone knows that brides bring home bedding when they get married, right? It is natural to bring bedding, but the bedding brought by the bride is generally not for her own use, one is for her own use and the other is for her in-laws.

Third, the inventory of the custom of marrying women of Zhuang nationality in Guangxi.

1, hydrangea to tell the truth

In Zhuangxiang, Guangxi, young men and women in some places fall in love, and it is still popular to throw hydrangeas, which is called "flying off" in Zhuang language. This custom of throwing hydrangeas at each other to choose a spouse has been very common in the Tang Dynasty. On the singing field, the boys and girls of Zhuang nationality naturally divide into groups, and sing folk songs to each other for a while, keeping a proper distance. The girls threw their elaborate cotton hydrangeas at their beloved boys.

2. Men marry women.

There is also an ancient custom of "adoption" in Zhuang area of Guangxi. Especially in remote mountainous counties, such as Tianlin, Longlin, Xilin, Lingyun, leye county, Donglan, Fengshan and Bama, it is more popular. Young men who voluntarily "adopt" often have too many brothers at home, or are dissatisfied with the area where their families are located and have the desire to leave their hometown. So they went out of the house by all means and inquired about their husbands' relatives everywhere. When you are a lover and feel satisfied, you can boldly confide in her and propose to her. With the consent of both parties, it can be "adopted".

Step 3 knock on the wooden trough

Wooden slotting is usually held at the beginning of the Lunar New Year. At first, young women made slots with wooden sticks and made different sounds, which everyone enjoyed. Then several women hit the wooden trough and sang folk songs, and then many young men ran to the wooden trough with wooden sticks to knock together. Every time we knock on the door, everyone sings folk songs to express the love between men and women.

The process of picking up brides in Guangxi II. The process on the day of engagement

1, ancestor worship

Before the man leaves for the woman's home, he needs to hold an ancestor worship ceremony in his own home. Wish you a happy marriage through ancestor worship activities.

2. The man set out.

The number of motorcades for the man to go to the woman's house should be even, and in the betrothal team, the elders of the man's house must be present to preside over the overall situation.

3. That's talent

When the man is about to arrive at the woman's house, both men and women should set off firecrackers to show their celebration and welcome. When the man enters the room, he must wash his hands and give the bride's father and brother the bride price.

Step 4 serve sweet tea

Accompanied by the matchmaker, the bride sent sweet tea to the relatives and friends who came to the man's house to express her gratitude.

5. press tea.

When the man's relatives and friends have finished drinking sweet tea, they should put the red envelope and the finished teacup on the saucer and wait for the bride to take it away.

Step 6 step on the stool

With the support of a blessed woman, the bride stood on the stool to win more happiness for herself.

Step 7 wear a ring

The groom takes out the engagement ring and puts it on the middle finger of the bride's left hand, indicating that their marriage is a foregone conclusion.

8. Burn the gun

When the man puts the engagement ring on the woman's hand, the main process of engagement has been completed, and firecrackers should be set off to celebrate.

9. Engagement wedding banquet

An engaged person should prepare an engagement reception to entertain relatives and friends attending the party. After the engagement party, the man should go home as soon as possible, and can't stay long, and can't say goodbye to the woman when he leaves.

Second, matters needing attention in the differences of engagement customs

1, different engagement time

The custom in the north is to hold an engagement party at noon, while in the south it is held at night. Most people in the north choose to hold their second wedding banquet in the evening. If the wedding banquet is held at noon in the north, it is more convenient for some relatives and friends who are far away to go home after the engagement banquet, and they can have a rest after drinking too much at noon. If the wedding is held at night, it will be held twice a day, which will also increase the cost, and most of the wedding banquets in the north are second marriages.

2. The engagement ceremony is different.

The engagement ceremony in the south is quite lively. The master of ceremonies should not only assume the role of the host, but also sing or magically transform to add color to the engagement ceremony. Finally, he will interact with the guests and give them all kinds of small toys or red envelopes, so the engagement ceremony in the south is very festive and lively. In the engagement ceremony in the north, the master of ceremonies usually presides over the wedding process, just enlivens the atmosphere a little, and then goes directly to the banquet.

Guangxi Bride Receiving Process 3 1, Makeup

I won't introduce the preliminary work here. First of all, the bride should make up on time on her wedding day.

Remember to eat before putting on makeup, or you will be hungry. It takes more than 2 hours to make up.

2. Greet your friends and direct the work of bridesmaids.

(1) Sisterhood groups are also very popular in rural areas. Your sister group may not know each other, or everyone only knows the bride. At this time, the bride should arrange a sisterhood group. If you don't have time to arrange it, order a bridesmaid.

(2) Explain the next work to the bridesmaids. If you don't know, ask your relatives at home. Some customs are still to be observed. The main thing is to give a nice bag, usually red, to help bridesmaids receive red envelopes from friends. Usually the bride's friends come to give the bride red envelopes, but it is difficult for the bride to get them, and they usually give them to the bridesmaids.

(3) The bride should remember to give red envelopes to bridesmaids and sister groups. Preferably the mother of the bride. Every place is different, and bridesmaids' red envelopes are generally larger.

Step 3: Take photos.

(1) After putting on makeup, go back to your home and room. At this time, the bride is taking pictures with her friends. If you want to go to the toilet, you must ask others to help you. It's a little inconvenient to move in a wedding dress.

(2) Remember to take photos with your parents, brothers and sisters.

(4) when eating. At this time, I am waiting for the groom to come over and kiss.

Step 4 take care of relatives

(1) When the groom gets married, it is usually auspicious. In the countryside of Guangxi, he usually has lunch time or after lunch. Upon arrival, the groom can go up to pick up the bride after completing the corresponding customs and habits. At this time, the bride's sister group will use 18 martial arts to "whole" the groom's brother group.

(2) Anyway, the groom should find the bride's shoes and help her put them on. At this time, the groom may kiss the bride, but he is a little shy and won't. Then the groom took the bride out.

(3) This link is the most fun, for young people. The bride doesn't have to worry, just watch.

5, worship heaven and earth, worship parents

Burn incense at home and worship your parents before going out.

After the worship, the bridesmaid remembered to hold an umbrella for the bride, then got on the wedding car and went back to the groom's house by car.

Step 6 go to the groom's house

Go to the groom's house, set off firecrackers to welcome the excitement, and then sit in the wedding room. After a while, someone will bring tea to the bride, and the bride will give a red envelope after drinking it. There is also a chicken rice noodle after tea, and the bride wants to eat some.

7. Continue to take photos, put on He Xiu's clothes after shooting, and then continue to shoot.

(1) Then the photographer will come to the wedding room to take photos with relatives, friends and the groom.

(2) Next, after taking photos, change clothes, change He Xiu's clothes, make up quickly, and change headdress.

(3) After changing clothes, it's time to take pictures. You can take some outdoor photos at this time. If time permits, you can take pictures. If not, the trip is also urgent.

8. Two relatives met.

Then you will get to know your relatives. Relatives will sit together in one place, and then new people will introduce each other. The bride should be generous and enthusiastic in this session, and then greet the groom and others.

9. Tables for relatives and friends

(1) After getting to know relatives, dinner is basically served, and the bride and groom will also serve tea. When serving tea, they should say "eat slowly" or "please eat slowly because of poor hospitality" to relatives and friends.

(2) When serving tea, the couple will meet a lot of "difficult" friends at their friends' tables, will punish wine, will make you fat, and will cook dark dishes for you to drink. At this time, the couple must do what they can and call their brothers and sisters to the top. Don't be angry, too. We all do it for fun.

10, get ready for a rest.

After the tea was served, it was almost evening. At this time, people at home help to make the bed, make a mat and quilt, and then take a shower and sleep.