Tricks to strike up a conversation while traveling: How to strike up a conversation with a strange girl when traveling?

When traveling, sometimes you will meet a particularly beautiful girl or a particularly handsome boy. So how can you strike up a conversation at this time? Today I will talk to you about book puppets. What should I do if I meet a young lady like this while traveling? Skills

1. Have a map and be able to read it

Most girls are road crazy and cannot read maps.

When you travel, do you often encounter girls asking you for directions? Have you grasped the opportunity?

If the girl is not familiar with this tourist attraction, you can Tell her: I have been here several times and am quite familiar with it. I came alone. If you are alone, you can go together and have a companion so that you can take care of each other. There is actually a lot of fun here. If, at this time, the girl politely refuses. Don't lose heart.

Tell her, where will you go in the afternoon? (Tell her the most famous place.) I hope to meet you there.

If she is alone and has this itinerary, I believe she will agree to accompany you.

If she still refuses, I will make a bet in the afternoon whether I can meet her there. When you meet someone, don’t let them go. At least leave your contact information, you know.

2. There is a "camera", a magical tool for picking up girls.

When you are visiting a tourist attraction, you see a girl you fall in love with. You can walk up to her and use your camera to capture some of the nearby scenery.

Then, turn around and say to her: Hello, can you take a picture for me?

When you hand the camera to her, you can have some unintentional feelings. touch. (Remember, don’t be too obvious and offend others.) If it’s a SLR, you can also take the opportunity to teach her how to use it “step by step”. After taking the photo, don't let her go immediately. Look at the photo she took. First praise her for her good framing and so on, and then ask her to take another photo with a certain background for you. Finally, look at the photos and chat a few words while looking at them. Be decisive afterwards and take the opportunity to leave a WeChat or phone number. After asking for the contact information, if you feel that you are in a good situation and can chat with her very well, try to invite her immediately.

1. Make yourself look good

Not many girls will like sloppy people. The appearance of ordinary people is not easy to leave an impression on others. If you can dress yourself carefully when traveling to make yourself look handsome, or have a particularly iconic item on your body, it will leave a " The impression of that "boy" makes it easier for people to remember you.

2. The "camera", the magical tool for seducing girls

After meeting the master of photography, I felt that being able to take pictures is really a magical skill for seducing girls. If you want to strike up a conversation with a girl, improving your photography skills is also a good way. After taking photos that the girl is satisfied with, you can ask her for her opinion. Can she leave her contact information and send you the photos, or make an appointment to take photos together in the future. It was so smooth that I didn’t need it. If your skills are not good enough, don’t try this trick easily.

3. Be enthusiastic to help

If a girl is traveling alone, there will inevitably be some places where she needs physical help. Like carrying a box or something. This is if you lend a helping hand, it will also add points to the girl's impression. Of course, when you really need help, you don't need to be a small bag to help. Being too deliberate will make people feel defensive and stay away from you. Of course, you can also ask for help and indicate what problems you have encountered. The same goes for asking a girl for help.

4. Sincerity

Attitude when striking up a conversation is very important. Some people ask me if they can be friends on WeChat. Apart from their faces, the most important thing that impresses me is their sincere attitude. It's no use just saying you are beautiful.

5. Timing is very important

If you are traveling alone, you will inevitably need someone to share the car and itinerary. Then when you live in the same place, you can choose this reason to get together, which will be much smoother. Of course, this also involves luck.

3. Make yourself look good

Not many girls will like a sloppy person. The appearance of ordinary people is not easy to leave an impression on others. If you can dress yourself carefully when traveling to make yourself look handsome, or have a particularly iconic item on your body, it will leave a " The impression of that "boy" makes it easier for people to remember you.

4. Be enthusiastic to help

If a girl is traveling alone, there will inevitably be some places where she needs physical help. Like carrying a box or something. This is if you lend a helping hand, it will also add points to the girl's impression. Of course, when you really need help, you don't need to be a small bag to help. Being too deliberate will make people feel defensive and stay away from you. Of course, you can also ask for help and indicate what problems you have encountered. The same goes for asking a girl for help.

5. Sincerity

Attitude when striking up a conversation is very important. Some people ask me if they can be friends on WeChat. Apart from their faces, the most important thing that impresses me is their sincere attitude. It's no use just saying you are beautiful.

6. Timing is very important

If you are traveling alone, there will be times when you need someone to share the car and itinerary.

Then when you live in the same place, you can choose this reason to get together, which will be much smoother. Of course, this also involves luck. Essential

1. Sincerity: This is the most important thing. Girls will judge whether you are a "dangerous person" based on your speech and behavior. If your attitude is sincere and polite, then half the battle is won.

2. Handsome: This does not mean being handsome, but dressing up. It must be clean, tidy and decent to give people a good first impression. Of course, if you are handsome, you will get more points.

3. Do what you can: help girls carry their luggage when needed, of course not all the time. Some girls don’t like to trouble others, especially girls who can travel alone. "Miss", but because girls are weak, sometimes they really can't move. If you show up at this time, you will give her a good impression, and maybe this is the beginning of a conversation.

4. Purpose is pure: maintain a pure heart and do not make undue demands. Resistance

1. Most girls know that they can be hit on, mainly because of their appearance, so they will be a little resistant to boys who come to talk to them. It's not as easy to get along as someone who met because of work, study or other reasons.

2. Generally, boys who can chat up girls on the street will give people a feeling of frivolity, so many girls do not like such boys.

3. You said you want to find girls who also travel together, but the girls who can be talked to are usually solo travelers. Such girls have strong ability in travel planning. If you are also a solo traveler, the two of you will be together. Both of them are capable, and it is easy for them to have differences of opinion when they meet. Even if they become the other half and travel together, it is very easy for them to break up on bad terms.

4. Generally, the people you meet during the journey are not in the same city, and they are in a long-distance relationship. Long-distance relationships are more challenging for each other.

5. Emotional crises are easy to occur when we get together because of striking up a conversation, because the other party will always think that since I can strike up a conversation and get together with you, others can too, and the other party will think that you can be together. If you strike up a conversation with me on the street, you can also strike up a conversation with others, which will plant bad elements for the relationship. Others

Mindset:

Nothing is certain. The first thing to do is to adjust your mentality, lower your expectations, and look for a chat partner, friend, or someone to relieve your boredom. Starting from your attitude, the question is not whether you are willing to risk it. It is just a question of courage. I want to consider more about how to succeed. The question is what you use to attract others. Most people with sound outlook on life can judge the intention and purpose. If the intention is too bottom-line, it is extremely easy to be blocked. The emotional process is always gradual, adjust first. Through a simple chat, you can determine whether the other person's frequency is in sync with your own. The chat topic itself reveals your opinions and angles, which can let others feel your outlook and personality. People generally will not refuse to meet a new friend. , especially for the taste.

Appearance:

Handsome will not be considered unless it is a character flaw. What is considered here is the usual problem. Clean, refreshing, sunny, confident, gentle, I think these conditions can be acquired. This is the first intuition before communication. As long as it is 60 minutes later, I will not directly reject your approach. Destination, itinerary, and polite greetings can all be the beginning of a conversation. If it is a courageous start, I think it will be more natural.

Topic building:

What to chat about? How to please others, what topics can please others, horoscope? Makeup? Are you sure you know this well and can grasp it accurately? I If you don't have this confidence, just please yourself. Chatting is more about making yourself comfortable. If the topic continues and the other person doesn't want to finish it, I think it will have good results. The topic is the communication between you and me. You can expand the conversation, change the angle, etc. Talking about things you don’t understand and are not sure about may not necessarily extend the conversation. Of course, it’s also good to be a listener in a timely manner, but you must have your own opinions and opinions instead of blindly agreeing. Just be yourself.

At this point, I think the process of striking up a conversation has ended. The follow-up is the next stage. I wish the person taking the first step and don’t think about the issue of dignity. I don’t think it exists before success. dignity. Have the courage to try it.