Copywriting of a photographic longboard

When each of us was born, we were ignorant children and didn't know what inferiority complex was. On the way of growing up, after experiencing the influence of environment and events, changes began to appear, and many people began to feel inferior.

Inferiority has troubled me for a long time. Even now, I haven't completely shaken off my inferiority complex. Just beginning to face up to this problem, no longer escape, began to find ways to change slowly.

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In high school, I became an inferiority complex girl.

When I was a child, I was also a happy and confident girl, growing up smoothly and carefree.

When I entered high school, my world was in chaos in an instant.

The first time I left home to study in the city, I took a half-day break every week and two days off every month before I could go home. I stayed for one night and set off again. At that time, I couldn't adapt to the rhythm of going out alone.

On the other hand, although I have been partial to science since I was a child, I can still cope with it in the primary and secondary schools in our town, and my grades are still in the forefront. High school is different, this key high school is full of experts, and the gap in science makes me fall to the low end of the pyramid. The more you study, the less anxious you will be to get angry and homesick. You will be very sad and depressed all day, and you can cry quietly in class.

Physics in particular is my difference. I can't understand what the teacher is saying at all Even if I do, I don't know what the topic handed down by the teacher has to do with what I said in class. My physics score is the lowest in my class. I even got the first place in a physics exam, and it was that time that the teacher wrote out the students' rankings and posted them on the wall, and they were arranged in reverse order, that is, I ranked last! ! !

What a shame this is for a teenager, people who have never experienced it will never feel it. The teacher's original intention is to encourage poor students to make progress in this way, but this way completely kills all my confidence. Every day, I crustily skin of head into the classroom. When I look at the list, I feel that everyone's eyes are on me. I feel inferior when I look at the list on the wall. Countless times I thought about tearing it up, but I didn't have the courage to do that. ...

Every time I look at the physics teacher in class, my heart is full of resentment. I can't hear what he is saying at all. Physics is getting worse, and other subjects are getting worse. My sense of inferiority is getting heavier and heavier, and I am getting used to denying myself in all aspects.

The long senior one finally passed, and the senior two began to be divided into liberal arts and science. Of course, I chose liberal arts, and the scores of science will not be combined again. Although I still don't study well, it won't be bad to the low end, so I'm relieved at last. However, it has always been difficult for me to change my inferiority complex and deny my habits. Even after so many years, sometimes I can dream that the physics teacher draws cars on the blackboard and does all kinds of sports, and I am scared out in a cold sweat after the last physics exam.

I remember my former high school teacher said the same thing, "Now you hate me. When you grow up in the future, you will understand that I am doing it for your own good. You all have to turn around and thank me. "

Now that I have grown up and even become the parents of my children, I know he did it to motivate me to make progress, but I still won't feel any gratitude.

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When I was a freshman, I almost forgot what laughter was. Since the second year of high school, I have returned to a person who loves to laugh and joke, but it is different from before, and inferiority has taken root in my heart. Cheerful smile and careless behavior just cover up my inner inferiority.

Just like I always have a New Year's resolution, I hope I will be more confident in the new year. Many friends have left messages, and you are already very confident. That's because only I can see my inferiority.

What has inferiority complex brought me these years?

First, I dare not express myself in public.

In primary school, I often take part in story competitions and win prizes. In junior high school, I was the first in the whole school every time, and I also won an award in the city speech contest on behalf of the school. In high school, I didn't dare to speak again, and I didn't dare to go on stage. Now I continue to work. I won't call the roll at the meeting. Let me speak. I never keep silent. I get nervous when I call the roll. My brain will go blank, my heart will beat, my voice will start to tremble, and I am afraid to speak in public.

Every time a meeting or training leader asks who else has suggestions, I actually have good ideas in my heart, but my thoughts are so tangled that I have been afraid to stand up and speak. At the end of the struggle, when I finally got up the courage to raise my hand, either someone else took the lead or the host said that since it was gone, it was over.

Second, I always deny myself.

I always habitually deny myself. I am always afraid that my work is not good, that I am worse than others, and that I usually work hard. One day, the leaders will set up a new group. The group should choose competent colleagues and pay more attention to mental thinking and creativity. The leader will talk to each colleague to find out whether the individual is willing to enter. When looking for me, my first sentence was that I wouldn't go. The leader asked me why with surprised eyes, and I said that I felt that my ability and innovation were not enough, so I had better let my outstanding colleagues join me. The leader advised me a lot, but I refused.

Later, I learned that before they talked to whom, the leaders had a meeting in advance to study, and several people had reached a consensus, one of whom was me. I just know that in the eyes of others, I am not bad, but an excellent employee. It is my inferiority that makes me miss a chance to grow up and disappoint those who trust me.

Third, run when you encounter difficulties.

Habitually denying myself, I always feel that I don't have any special skills and I can't do any technical work. The jobs I am looking for are basically jobs that don't use my brain very much, and there is no development at all.

Among the advantages that I have no advantage, writing is to find a tall one among the short people. But a year ago, I was afraid to take the job of recruiting copywriters and had no confidence in my writing ability. Because my work place is five minutes away from home, which is really convenient. I stubbornly submitted my resume and luckily passed the interview. In the past year, I found that this job is not as difficult as I thought. Through hard work, I can be handy and get the approval of the leaders.

This job has improved my writing ability. Recently registered, two articles were recommended to the home page. Thank you for your encouragement, but I used to write it online? I didn't think of it when I remembered it. Think about it and immediately deny yourself with inferiority.

Many friends are amazed at the articles I posted in the space, saying that they are getting better and better. In fact, I know that people say that writing is good because now everyone is used to sending Weibo/WeChat, but not to writing long articles. When I saw that I had written a long article for three days, I was amazed and felt good about myself. I often look for some excellent works on the internet. I know I still have a big gap, but I won't deny myself again. I believe that as long as I work hard, read more books and write more, I will grow step by step.

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There is a famous wooden bucket theory that how much water a wooden bucket can hold depends on the shortest board. We are all used to trying our best to lengthen that short board. When the effect is poor, we will feel inferior, and we may deny ourselves like me and forget to find our own longboard to make it our advantage.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. We don't need to spend a lot of time and energy to supplement the shortcomings that we are not good at. Instead, we should tap our own long board and make it longer and longer, which will become our unique advantage. We can use this advantage to counter the disadvantages brought by shortcomings. As the longboard gets longer and longer, we will become more and more confident.

You might say, I don't think I have a longboard. In fact, as long as we carefully find out, everyone has his own advantages, and there must be relative advantages among many shortcomings. Then we will cultivate it slowly after finding it, and our self-confidence will be rebuilt bit by bit in every progress.

But in this process, regardless of the speed of progress, we will keep a normal mind, don't deny ourselves, don't be eager for quick success, we may not be able to compete with the outstanding people in this field in the end, but what we have to do is to strive to be better and more confident than yesterday!

If time can travel, I must travel back to the first year of high school and tell the poor self not to deny himself so much, to find his own advantages and try to make it his own label, so that I won't waste too much time staring blankly and try to make my long board longer. But there are no ifs in life. It is not too late to change from now on, and confident people will be truly happy.