A woman’s lifelong confidant

A woman’s lifelong confidant

A woman’s lifelong confidant. In real life, we often say that a confidant is hard to find. This shows that having a confidant is also a blessing for us. Every day we have a confidant. Individuals have different views on confidants. Let me share with you the confidants of a woman’s life. A woman's best friend in life 1

A close friend with a blue face

The greatest luck in a woman's life is to meet a close friend with a clear heart. He understands you and cherishes you heart to heart. It has nothing to do with love or time. They are the best companions and friends in life.

Just like Zhou Xun and Chen Kun.

In Chen Kun's eyes, he has always believed that Zhou Xun is a very outstanding woman in his heart, and her acting skills are also very superb. From the initial collaboration to the present twenty-year journey, the two have always accompanied each other, which is the most famous story in the industry.

Whether it is on or off the screen, Zhou Xun and Chen Kun have a tacit understanding. Although many people thought they would have some development and stories, they didn't. They have always been the best and most innocent good friends.

It is a blessing in life for a woman to have a close friend. He is not a husband or a lover, but the person who lives in your spiritual realm and is most compatible with your soul.

In front of him, you can be unrestrained, cry or make trouble. He knows how to think about you, will pity you, and will give you the best comfort and enlightenment. When you are happy, he laughs with you, and when you are sad, he gives you the warmest hug.

He can laugh with you and listen patiently to your endless troubles. He will care about you and love you. He is the person who understands you best besides your significant other. Sometimes you won’t tell your partner about a lot of things on your mind, but you will definitely be willing to tell them to your confidant.

He is your other self, your warm companion on the road of life, and the most reliable family member in your soul. You have never done anything for him, but he will always hope that you live well, and both of you regard the other's happiness as your own happiness.

Lan Yan’s confidant is a beautiful scenery in a woman’s life, it has nothing to do with romance, it is pure and simple, warm and happy.

Best friend

Best friend is the person who has experienced a lot of things with you and is willing to be with you even though you are not good.

If someone bullies you, she will immediately stand up and fight for you. She is willing to accompany you whether she is happy or not.

Between best friends, there are not so many twists and turns, it is simple and frank. It's the kind of friendship that we talk deeply about in a shallow way, and we walk slowly along the long road. It's the most precious friendship we met in the most beautiful years.

In Yi Shu's "Golden Years", Jiang Nansun and Zhu Suosuo are the best examples of best friends.

The two of them have never left each other since they were in junior high school, and then later when they started their own families and started their own businesses. They support each other, care for each other, and become each other's eternal relatives and support from the beginning to the end.

The two people have different experiences and encounters, but this has never affected their friendship. They have never had any conflicts or quarrels since they were young, and they have never had any scheming or poaching like other girlfriends. They have always maintained a deep friendship. It is really commendable that it has been like this for a long time.

In reality, there are countless good friends like this. After going through ups and downs, they still become each other's most warm and loving friends.

Just like Sanmao once wrote in "Speaking of Friends":

"I always believe that the most valuable thing about friendship is knowing."

For best friends, the relationship between each other is truly intimate, without interests or emotional entanglements, and will always be the purest friendship that exists in the heart.

No matter what the current situation is, best friends will use their own shining points to illuminate each other forever. They will stay together for a lifetime and never tire of it.

For a woman to have a good best friend to accompany her throughout her life, it is really both amazing and gentle.

Lover

Rabindranath Tagore once said: "The difference between friendship and love is that friendship means two people and the world, but love means two people are the world. In friendship one Plus one equals two; in love, one plus one is still one.”

It is not easy for a woman to meet her soulmate, and it is even more difficult to meet a lover who can accompany you for the rest of her life.

A true lover must be someone who can regard you as more important than life. He will care for you, cherish you, and will not let you be wronged. He will support a family with you. Try to give you the best happiness.

The best betrothal gift for a man is not wealth, but a lifetime of accommodation and love.

The most commendable love is that of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang.

There is a kind of love, you are lucky when you meet it, and you are lucky if you choose it. Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu met at Tsinghua University and fell in love at first sight. Their love is really the kind of love that lasts peacefully, flows slowly, and becomes purer with time.

From acquaintance, acquaintance, falling in love to staying together, it was as quiet and beautiful as poetry. No matter how many turbulent years they experienced, they could always respect each other as guests and stay together sweetly.

The most ideal love is for each other to become each other's true soul mate. No matter whether life is ups and downs or flat, when two people are attached to each other, it is the most beautiful thing in the world.

Qian Zhongshu once wrote a text to Yang Jiang: "Before I met you, I never thought about getting married. When I met you, I never thought about getting married with anyone else."

< p> Yang Jiang also wrote after Qian Zhongshu's death: "The three of us were separated, leaving me to clean the scene alone. I missed the three of us alone."

Facing the suitor Fei Xiaotong , even after Qian Zhongshu's death, Fei went to visit him, but Yang Jiang declined because of the height of the building.

This kind of love is the eternal song.

Therefore, if a woman meets a true lover in her life, she will have no regrets in her life.

Every woman needs to be cared for. Having a lover who loves her is the greatest blessing in life.

He will definitely love you and stay with you for the rest of his life, and keep you safe throughout your life. A woman's lifelong confidant 2

A woman is perfect if she has these three friends in her life

Friends with similar interests.

A friend with similar interests is a confidant, like a mirror that can reflect the best and worst parts of oneself.

No matter what you say, you can always talk about it and think about it together. The harmony of the three views can always find the most powerful support and reliance when you are hesitant and confused.

Friends with similar interests may be classmates on the road to school. They study the same major in school and engage in the same career after graduation. No matter how many years have passed, each other has worked hard in this field. , there are gains and setbacks, we sincerely praise and encourage each other’s growth and progress, and we also have trouble sleeping and eating because of the difficulties that the other party encounters.

Friends with similar interests may be customers or competitors you meet at work. They become friends because of a cooperation or even an unpleasant experience. From then on, if you are not understood by others, you will have someone to speak to.

As the Qing Dynasty writer Pu Songling said: "There is no better thing in the world than friends, and no better thing to make friends than talk." In the casual conversation, we will eventually find our original intention and will continue to move forward firmly. determination.

A friend with excellent character.

People often say that judging whether a person is popular is not how many people he can get to know when he is most proud of his life, but how many people will lend a helping hand when he is most depressed.

As a woman, when making friends, you should not only look at family background, appearance and dress, but also your conversation and character. A person with good character will not speak big words, rarely tell jokes, and will not say vulgar words. What they say means every word, and every word counts.

It is said that the human heart cannot stand the test, especially in the face of money, and friends often turn against each other because of this. But for people with good character, lending money and paying back money can better reflect true friendship.

Take my own personal experience as an example. My friend Acheng lost his father when he was young. After graduating from college, he went out and made a lot of money, but he spent it all on his first love. In the end, his girlfriend got another After marrying someone else, he was heartbroken and moved to another city to start over.

In the most difficult time, I transferred all the 30,000 yuan I had saved for a long time to him as start-up capital. Relying on his solid photography skills, Acheng soon opened another studio. When he had income, he started to pay back the money, sometimes five hundred, sometimes one thousand, every month.

I told him not to worry, but he said that if he didn’t return it, he wouldn’t feel at ease. Later, as he earned more and more every month, the amount he paid back every month also increased, and he quickly paid it off. In order to express his gratitude, he also offered to pay interest. After I repeatedly refused, he bought me a mountain bike, firstly as a thank you, and secondly as a reminder to take time to exercise.

A friend with good character is actually a rare trump card in a woman’s life. They will sincerely support you and help you sincerely. They are also the person who will support you.

A knowledgeable friend.

People often say: "Listening to what you have to say is worth ten years of reading." For a woman to have a knowledgeable friend, it is really both amazing and gentle to the time.

In the journey of life, people all yearn for poetry and the distance. Some people are in a hurry. Under the heavy pressure of work and life, they gradually lose hope and are trapped in the present.

If you have a knowledgeable friend, he will always see your efforts and struggles, and be moved by such upward and kind words and deeds. He will use his knowledge to guide you and encourage you. Have the courage to persevere and cheer you on when you feel like giving up.

Such a friend may be your teacher, a "senior" at work, or a lover around you.

They have a unique characteristic. They have a career they love, and they insist on learning for it, constantly updating their knowledge, and they can always grasp the most popular trends at the moment and adjust their development direction. , constantly climbing to higher peaks.

As long as you talk to them, life is like having "source of living water". A seemingly inconspicuous life also contains infinite vitality. From this, motivate yourself, constantly challenge problems, become better, and before you know it, you will be closer to the goal you want.

Women are like flowers, and each age group has different beauty. This beauty is not just about self-admiration, nor is it just about one person's "fighting". We always have to open our hearts to meet people worth interacting with during interpersonal interactions.

When we have true love and friendship, no matter whether life is ups and downs or smooth along the way, it is the most beautiful thing in the world. A woman's lifelong confidant 3

The person who understands you and supports you

Cao Gong said in "A Dream of Red Mansions": "It is easy to get ten thousand taels of gold, but it is difficult to find a close friend."

A close friend is hard to find. It is a blessing to meet one in this life.

Just like Wang Feifei and Meng Jia, they have known each other and supported each other for thirteen years. They are not better than relatives.

Initially, they debuted together as a girl group in South Korea. They practiced dancing together, sang together, and shined on the stage together. They tasted the taste of frustration and loneliness together, and also enjoyed the popularity side by side. A moment of brilliance.

Happiness and sadness, sweat and tears are their most common memories, etched into their lives.

They have witnessed each other's efforts and growth, and they understand each other's desire for dreams better.

So, thirteen years later, when they reunited in "Sisters Riding the Wind and Waves" to fight for the dream of a girl group, the two of them fought side by side again. Encourage each other, discuss together, and radiate light all over.

On the stage of "Sister", they have been teammates and rivals. They will choreograph almost the same dance moves in tacit understanding without any discussion, and their understanding is amazing.

When Meng Jia was unfortunately eliminated, Wang Feifei burst into tears and could not speak completely when faced with the departure of her friend.

On the night of the group formation, the resurrected Meng Jia successfully formed the group, but Wang Feifei was eliminated. Meng Jia burst into tears, but Wang Feifei encouraged her with a smile: "Go and walk the flower path. "

In this life, we will meet many people and make many friends, but not everyone can understand you and support you to the end.

If there is such a person:

When you cry, he will not say "Don't cry", but will silently hand you a tissue;

When you need someone to accompany you, just make a phone call and they will run to you no matter how far away you are;

When you feel wronged, just one look can read your thoughts...

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That is really a great blessing in the world.

Just as Sanmao wrote in "Speaking of Friends": "I always believe that the most valuable thing about friendship is knowing each other."

Friends who can chat may not know each other well. ; A confidant who understands you is enough.

People who are willing to tell you the truth

The further you go in life, the more you will find that there are more and more people around you who dare to tell you the truth. few.

After all, the truth is hard to hear, but good words are easy to say. Everyone is busy with their own lives. When it comes to other people's affairs, many times they express opinions in a way that saves trouble.

It is easier to offend people by telling the truth than by saying a few perfunctory words.

However, there is always someone who is willing to tell you the truth from the bottom of his heart, give you advice from time to time, and make you enlightened.

Cao Yu, a well-known dramatist, was trapped in fame, fortune and praise for a while, and gradually lost his original intention of creation, and his works became worse than before.

However, people around him still praised him full of praise, and he himself was also very satisfied.

At this time, Huang Yongyu, a well-known painter who had always admired him, wrote him a letter, sternly pointing out his problem.

Huang Yongyu wrote in the letter:

"You are a senior I respect very much, so I have to be strict with you! I don't like any of the scripts you wrote after liberation, not even one." I like it. Because your heart is not in the play, you have lost your great spiritual treasure, and you have been misled by your position!"

In Huang Yongyu's heart, Cao Yu was the pinnacle of drama of that era, and he couldn't bear to watch it! A generation of famous people fell into ruin before making this somewhat hurtful decision.

Fortunately, Cao Yu was not angry after receiving the letter. Instead, he seriously reflected on himself and wrote back to Huang Yongyu to express his gratitude.

Cao Yu also framed the letter Huang Yongyu wrote to himself and hung it in the most conspicuous place at home to alert himself at all times.

Lies are easy to hear, and anyone can say words of praise and praise; the truth is rare, and those who are willing to tell the truth to you are true friends.

As Zheng Yuanjie said:

"Friends who dare to tell you the truth and point out your shortcomings are unwilling to see you repeating mistakes without realizing it. I want to see you wasting your time, and I don’t want to see you regret it so much that you find it’s too late to change.”

If you don’t really care about the other person, who would be willing to be the one who tells the truth. the wicked.

Therefore, cherish the person who dares to tell you the truth, be grateful to the person who always reminds you, and use him as a mirror around you to illuminate gains and losses and see people's hearts clearly.

Someone who is willing to fight with you through thick and thin

The TV series "Restart of the Extreme Sea Listening to Thunder", as the sequel to "Tomb Raiders", has aroused a lot of "rice" feelings.

Ten years ago, many people were moved by the brotherhood of the "Iron Triangle";

Ten years later, the "Iron Triangle" reunited, with the same passion and loyalty.

Among them, the one who moved me the most was Fatty Wang, who seemed to be the most unreliable.

He is particularly good at teasing the poor, a little greedy for money, and has a bad temper, which always gives people a very unreliable feeling.

However, since he met Wu Xie, he has been Wu Xie's staunchest supporter, accompanying him to various dangerous places and going through fire and water without ever saying a word.

Ten years later, Wu Xie was seriously ill and was about to die. He wanted to find his third uncle who had been missing for many years before he died and leave without regrets. Fatty Wang continued with him without saying a word. Explore and continue the adventure.

Even when a person reaches middle age, his body is no longer what it used to be. Carrying someone on his back will cause lumbar disc herniation;

Even when a person reaches middle age, he wants to settle down and live his life. Days passed, but Fatty Wang still had to accompany Wu Xie on the last journey no matter what.

Even if you know clearly that you may face endless dangers.

Romain Rolland said: "Friends see friends as transparent, and they exchange lives with each other."

As brothers, they will treat each other with sincerity for a lifetime. This is perhaps the most touching thing.

In the world of martial arts, the loyalty of life and death is fascinating; in real society, there are also friends who are willing to fight with you through thick and thin.

Back then, my dad’s business was losing money, and almost all the old employees in the factory left. Only Uncle Li didn’t leave, saying he couldn’t bear to see my dad end like this.

For a long time, he had no salary, and even put in a lot of money himself. Together with my father, he gritted his teeth and reopened the factory.

My dad often tells me: "There are really not many people who are as loyal as Uncle Li nowadays."

It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is easy to help people when they need it.

When you encounter disaster and are defeated, the hands that stretch out to you;

When you are frustrated and lonely, and no one cares about you, the hands that light up for you That lamp is the most touching.

To see whether a person is worthy of friendship, don’t look at what he said, but what he did.

Please cherish your confidant who is willing to be with you through thick and thin.

"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" writes: "When you drink with few close friends, you will recite poems to them. If you know each other all over the world, how many close friends can you have?"

When a person reaches middle age, Learn to make subtractions for yourself.

Put aside those unrealistic wishes, put aside those irreversible pasts, put aside those people you don’t need to care about, and leave only a few true confidants, that’s enough.

As Wang Guozhen wrote in the poem "It's Nice to Know You":

"One day, we really met, and we were so happy that we couldn't say anything. I just said with a smile, it's great to know you."

Life is a long road, don't be afraid to walk alone. One day, you will meet a few people who will exchange their most sincere souls with you and accompany each other forward.