Angel took the photo of the parents and children as a wedding photo, and the intimate behavior was hotly debated. Netizen: Please treat your son as a son.

With the gradual improvement of people's living standards, what they pursue is more and more artistic and ritualized. Under this demand, many photography industries have emerged. For example, companies that take "art photos, parent-child photos, wedding photos" for a living. Of course, it is also very popular. People want to leave their most beautiful moments by taking pictures.

Recently, the famous artist Angel exposed a group of parent-child photos with the theme of "wedding photos" on his social platform. In the photo, 40-year-old Angel and his son stand out. The theme of this parent-child photo is very interesting. Angel is wearing a wedding dress and white gauze, while her son is wearing a small suit. Their clothes are like taking wedding photos.

If the son is not too young, some netizens may really think that this is a wedding photo. This theme is really creative, and it can be seen from the photos that the mother and son are very close. But there is a photo that netizens will not be calm when they see it. In this photo, Angel kisses her son mouth to mouth.

Although there is nothing wrong with a mother kissing a child, it will promote the relationship between mother and child. But this is only when children are young. At Angel's son's age, it's not good for a child to be so intimate.

In fact, in addition to this "wedding photo" incident, Angel also said in a variety show that she wanted her son to kiss her 100 times a day, and she often spoiled her son and called her a top-notch little princess. Euphemistically, Dingding got used to it first, and then there was his "little princess".

Netizen: "Please treat your son as a son!"

"My son will not be a' baby boy' in the future."

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Angel's intimacy with his son is very inappropriate. It is very wrong to treat your son as your "other half" and treat yourself as your son's "little princess" and spoil your son every day, which even makes people feel a little puzzling.

This may distort Dingding's perception of seniority and gender. Over time, children may feel that there is nothing wrong with doing so.

Although the relationship between children and parents is close, as the children grow older, parents should keep a good sense of proportion and give them enough private space. It is common sense that mothers need to keep a certain distance from their sons and fathers need to keep a certain distance from their daughters. After all, men and women are different.

What's more, the mother and son are so close, which may make the future daughter-in-law mind very much, and the son can easily become a "mother-son boy" and a "mother-only faction". Maybe it will also affect the son's failure to marry a daughter-in-law.

(1) Give children some space. When children grow up, they will have their own independent thoughts and need their own independent private space. At this time, parents should let go, leave some space for their children, and don't hold them too tightly. For example, knocking at the door before entering the child's room, the child also has his own privacy.

② Pay attention to clothes at home. Some parents may think that they can just dress casually at home anyway. Even some dads don't wear clothes, so it's bad if they have daughters at home. Although the daughter is her own child, she is not an outsider, but she is also the opposite sex. So even at home, parents and children should respect each other, dress appropriately and avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

Don't get too close to your children. Children may be spoiled when they are young, and they like to let their parents kiss and hold them high, but these behaviors are not suitable when children grow up.

In the world, only when there are gender differences can there be a parent-child relationship. Therefore, when parents treat their children, they should pay attention to proper limit and leave some independent space for their children.

I am little D's mother's parenting teacher. In the process of educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my suggestion can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your children and let our children grow up better!