"Wife, forgive me, I promise it won't happen again." Is there a price for betrayal?

Introduction: The word "betrayal" is a blow to any family. What's more disgusting is that some people are still lucky after being discovered, which is really hateful!

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"Betrayal" is a frequent word in modern marriage. For a betrayed marriage, the one betrayed by the spouse is the most painful.

My friend Axiu has been in a bad mood recently, precisely because she experienced a great blow in her marriage.

Axiu is 33 years old. She met her husband A Hai at the age of 22, and after three years of love, they got married at the age of 25.

After marriage, Axiu and her husband went to Shenzhen to do business. Both of them have a low education level and barely graduated from high school. What they do in Shenzhen is small business. Anything that sells milk tea, women's clothes and pancake fruit, as long as it can make money, has been done.

After nearly ten years of hard work in Shenzhen, they now run a small convenience store in a residential area, and Axiu usually looks after the store alone during the day. Later, my husband went to find a job without overtime. Although the salary is small, it is only a few thousand yuan a month. In the evening, her husband will help Axiu watch the shop together.

Although life is a bit bitter, it is quite satisfying for Mr. and Mrs. Axiu to have a foothold in this place.

Axiu is a traditional woman. She thinks that women should be kind to men. So let my husband eat delicious food at home and buy expensive brand-name clothes for Ahai as long as he has time to go to the mall, but there are no decent clothes in Axiu.

Axiu is in a convenience store during the day. He has to look after the store and the children. Sometimes he is too busy to eat. Every time Axiu doesn't order takeout, he eats a tea egg in the shop, which is both economical and nutritious.

Later, when Axiu's mother came to see her daughter, she was so distressed that she took her three-year-old child back to her hometown.

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How did Axiu discover that A Hai betrayed himself? It's not without traces

First of all, during this period, Ahai became fond of dressing up for the first time, and she had to clean up her image every day at work.

Secondly, the bank transfer at home is very abnormal. The transfer of 30,000 yuan to 20,000 yuan has already taken away more than 100,000 yuan in less than three months.

Although they can earn money in Axiu, they must save for a long time after accumulating. So far, Axiu has rented a house in Shenzhen, even in his hometown. One of the reasons for working in Shenzhen is that I want to earn some money while I am young and go back to my hometown to buy a house.

So when Axiu found out that Ahai had taken the money, he became careful and began to pay attention to Ahai's mobile phone. In the past, Axiu never looked at Areva's mobile phone, so Areva didn't deliberately hide his mobile phone.

One night, Axiu went to the toilet in the middle of the night and found that Ahai's cell phone was on. She opened it and saw that there was something really wrong. A woman makes an unsightly flirting statement in the middle of the night. Not only that, chat records show that Ahai is transferring money to this woman every three to five times.

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Axiu is like a bolt from the blue. Although she was a little psychologically prepared, she didn't expect all this to be true. Axiu thought she was married to a baiwenhang. They were penniless when they got married. Axiu looked thoughtfully at A Hai, it turned out that she really married for love. When they got married, there was no bride price, no wedding, and they were reluctant to buy a new dress because they needed to reserve funds to make a living in Shenzhen.

I accompanied him to scrimp and save, I accompanied him through joys and sorrows, and I accompanied him through the most difficult days of life. Unexpectedly, now that life is just a little better, I began to betray my marriage and spent so much money on women.

Not to mention that she usually buys things for herself, even Ahai, who has to worry about buying milk powder for her children, is willing to spend so much money on other women.

A Hai learned that Axiu had already known that he had betrayed himself, so he calmly filed for divorce and shared the property equally.

Axiu thought it was interesting. Do you want to split the assets equally if you are at fault?

However, A Hai plausibly said that he couldn't keep up with his own rhythm, which led to his empathy.

Axiu counted the inventory and liquidity of convenience stores, and there was not much money left, which was thrown away by Areva. So Axiu boldly invited a lawyer to consult about the divorce, and asked the lawyer to deal with it specially.

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After the lawyer took over, he began to collect evidence that Ahai betrayed his family. I didn't know that Ahai was actually a woman selling drinks in a bar until I had the evidence.

There is no prejudice against this industry, but the lawyer, with years of work experience and common sense, concludes that A Hai may have to go back on his word, and he can't go with that woman outside for long.

Sure enough, after the divorce, Axiu froze the deposit application. After Areva couldn't pay, it didn't take long for the woman to start clamoring for a breakup.

So the current situation is that Axiu agrees to divorce, but he must go through legal procedures. Prior to this, Areva took control of their property without authorization, and Areva's betrayal made him have to compensate Axiu. But Ahai is not divorced now. He begged, cried, promised, begged Axiu's forgiveness, and promised again and again that he would not do it again.

At first, Axiu also remembered her feelings for many years and her children at home, and said, "Since you want to break up with her cleanly, let's go back to our hometown and I'll give the store to others."

But Ahai didn't agree. He said he couldn't find his present job when he returned to his hometown.

Axiu was very disappointed. "Betraying your family will cost you, either going back to your hometown or getting divorced!"

When Axiu told me, he said, "Where is he afraid that he can't find a job when he goes back to his hometown? He is afraid that he has no contact with that woman at all, and he still has a chance to stay in Shenzhen. I see through this man, no matter how good I am to him, I just feel that I am not good to him. But when people only ask him for money, he is extremely happy and thinks that this is love. I don't want this man anymore anyway. It's disgusting. "

Now Axiu is still waiting for the lawyer's progress, and the divorce is certain.

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When I think of Luo Yonghao's words, it is generally said that men in China always don't do the right things at the right age.

For example, you don't fall in love when you are young. Married, forced to find a woman to marry, depressed after marriage. Then in their thirties and forties, they started looking for an affair and began to fall in love.

Such a man just doesn't do the right thing at the right age, and he is full of anger when he thinks about it.

Luo Yonghao didn't say a word. Many men in China have no sense of responsibility. They think that wives should accompany them to bear hardships and have children. They believe that people should seek passion after middle age and their wives should abdicate when they are old.

So now many women don't want to get married, don't want to get married at a low price, just because women can endure hardships for love, but they can't help being recognized.

Axiu is determined to divorce now, because Ahai doesn't feel that he has made a big mistake. He even thinks that "it is normal for a man to have an experience."

But for Axiu, this sentence is the last straw to crush this marriage, and it is also the main reason for his determination to divorce.

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For many married men and women, in fact, it is not difficult to find that if one party has the heart to turn around completely and the determination to turn over a new leaf after betrayal, many people will be forgiven after breaking up with Yingying Yanyan outside and realizing the seriousness of the matter and the importance of family, marriage and lover.

However, for the betrayed spouse, if the other spouse doesn't really want to correct his mistake, then there is really no need to maintain this marriage.

Advise married men and women that no matter how fragrant and beautiful the wild flowers outside are, they will never be as practical as their lovers at home. You know, before your lover became your spouse, she also stepped on high heels, which is the most beautiful rose in your eyes. Just with their families and children, they focus on their families, children and lovers.