Girl, why do you want to be excellent?

"Girl, be sure to study hard, whether it's a junior college or an undergraduate course. Choose a major with good employment or one you like and have a decent job in the future. Only in this way can you fall in love with a good boy in the future, and you can marry him with dignity, and his parents will respect you and treat you as a pearl. Who says that a girl's job is not important, and marrying a good husband is enough? You must be good enough to be worthy of a good man. " From high school to now, this is still my favorite passage, although it seems to revolve around feelings, boyfriends and marriage. But this passage, I just feel very true.

? Some people may say, do girls work hard to marry a good person? No, of course not. Girls try to make themselves better, but no matter how good you are, you are not invincible. Girls are always weak and tired, and you always need a shoulder at this time. Some people may say that if I need a shoulder, I can find my parents and friends. They will comfort me and give me a hug. I don't need a man. However, we should also know that our parents are getting older while growing up step by step. In the later life, when they can't give us support, we should be their support; Friends will also have their own families, parents and children. No matter how good the relationship is, how can he have a shoulder to lean on no matter how busy he is? After all, the person who will accompany us through life will be the one who says "marry me" with a ring. It was the man who said "I do" at the wedding.

? But you can't find a man who is more incompetent than yourself. What you need is a shoulder, not the last straw to crush you. At the very least, it should be evenly matched. Is a man who can fight together and fight for the future together. If you like sunny boys who love sports, then you go to the gym. If you like young artists who love photography, you can join various photography associations with your SLR on your back and collect ideas everywhere. If you like to learn bullying, then study hard for the postgraduate entrance examination and study for a doctorate; If you just want to have fun, go to a nightclub. Birds of a feather flock together. Get close to or become the person you like.

? So just like the sentence at the beginning of the article, girls must study hard, then have a decent job and become excellent people, so that they can meet excellent people. There will always be people who say that a diploma is not important. The boss doesn't care how you got here, but only what you can do. However, different knowledge systems have different influences on people. Being a man is different from treating others, and your chances will be different. Diploma is hardware, experience and experience is software, but with excellent hardware, the software will run better and smoother.

? Society is a very realistic society. Cinderella and the prince always exist only in fairy tales. Cinderella has the help of a pumpkin cart, crystal shoes and fairies. What about you? If you are not good enough, you have nothing but a blx, and then you are moved by Korean dramas and have nothing. I might as well say again that no matter how hard a girl works, she will marry and return to her family. Yes, it is true that eventually girls will go on blind dates because of love and family pressure, and eventually they will get married, make ends meet, make ends meet, and manage to wash their hands and make bride soup and their children for the other half. But again, what kind of person you are, you will meet. Even in the end, you are forced by parents and society to go on a blind date, so your blind date reflects what kind of person you are on the positive side, and you are knowledgeable, so the blind date introduced to you by others must be knowledgeable; You have elegant manners, and the blind date is at least a gentleman with graceful manners. If you think the blind date is illiterate, then nine times out of ten, your culture is definitely not high; The blind date is a rude person, so it is not surprising that you are not an elegant person. Because in the mind of the introducer, she will automatically match you with what kind of person you are.

? Some people may say that love should not be so powerful, but should be free, so girls should make themselves good enough. If you love someone, you must become a better self for the other person, because the final result of love is marriage, and two people will grow old together hand in hand, but no matter how much passion, it will fade away with the years. If you want to maintain a family, material things are indispensable. When you are young, you can be affectionate and follow suit. What should you do when your feelings become dull and become a habit? You can't quarrel and abuse for the children's tuition and milk powder. In this way, no matter how deep the feelings are, they can't avoid parting ways. If the other person can't do it, it's not worth making yourself a better person. The sooner you give up such feelings, the better.

Besides, in China, we always say that it is not only a matter of family conditions, but also a matter of personal cultivation, conduct, manners, speech, world outlook and values. We should be good enough to make each other's parents think that we are worthy of their son. A marriage without parents' blessing will not be happy. Because of the society in China and the traditional virtues in China, it is impossible for us to become an independent family without our parents. Only the marriage blessed by parents will keep him from being caught between you and your parents, and you will be happy for a long time. A girl must be good enough to be recognized by others.

Therefore, girls must be good enough. For their other half, it is not impossible without you, but it is better to have you. The other half is poor and lonely, so you won't be embarrassed; The other half is young and promising, don't you think it's tall? You are evenly matched. Whenever you meet him, you should always be happy and have no regrets.

? When you still have passion, don't choose comfort easily. The struggle now is for a better life in the future. So come on, girl.