Five reasons why ability is more important than face value

People who think appearance is more important can't deny people who succeed by strength. For example, Ma Yun, whom we are most familiar with, was rejected as a hotel waiter and security guard because of his ugly appearance, but he made Alibaba by his strength and persistence.

People who think ability is important can't ignore good looks, which will really add points to their work. The most obvious is the entertainment circle. Many powerful actors have been tepid because of their inconspicuous appearance. On the contrary, many young people become popular because of their handsomeness and beauty.

After countless discussions and arguments, we are still not sure which is more important, because both of them inevitably affect our lives and become your obstacles or stepping stones at some point.

Tong Tong is my primary school. We went to school together and grew up together.

After graduating from junior high school, I was admitted to the county key high school with the fifth place in the whole school, and then I went to college and went to graduate school. After graduation, I found a stable job and my life was smooth.

Tong Tong is very beautiful, and there are many boys around her in junior high school. So she began to fall in love very early and didn't have the heart to study at all. After graduating from junior high school, she entered the society.

Because the life circle is different, the contact is gradually less. I suddenly received a short message from her not long ago, saying that she and her boyfriend came to the city where I was on a business trip and wanted to have dinner together. I readily agreed.

Although we haven't been in contact for a long time, it's not easy to erase the feelings from childhood to adulthood.

While eating, I looked at Tong Tong carefully. More beautiful than during school, fair skin, high nose and big eyes, wearing luxury goods, not less than tens of thousands of clothes, eating and living are high-end places. Although the object is not handsome, it is not very ugly. With an annual income of several million, I have been spoiled since childhood.

After chatting, I got a general idea of Tong Tong's experience.

After graduating from junior high school, she went to a pharmacy as a cashier with a monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan. Tong Tong loves beauty and often buys clothes and cosmetics. She is not only a moonlight family, but also owes a credit card.

Tong Tong has changed many jobs, but none of them are satisfactory. Life always makes ends meet.

Later, since the rise of the media, the live broadcast platform has become even more popular. Tong Tong also registered an account and started the live broadcast tour. Because of her outstanding appearance, she quickly circled a wave of fans. Every time there are many live broadcasts, you can support yourself by brushing the money realized by a month's gift.

As the live broadcast time gets longer and longer, more and more people watch it. She also gradually pays attention to the person who brushes gifts for herself, and now the object is her list one.

I didn't want to develop a lover relationship after seeing the list in private. Because her appearance doesn't attract her, she just wants to be friends.

After that, the two often eat together, and the first order often gives her a gift, which is valuable. Playing and visiting are internationally renowned brands. Slowly, the two decided to be together, and it has been more than three years now.

In the meantime, he wants Tong Tong to go to college, get a driver's license and so on to enrich himself. He can help contact resources. However, Tong Tong has long been used to a carefree life and has never been there.

Later, I asked the people I had talked to for so long that I must have met my parents. Besides, I think you are both old. When are you going to get married? You should invite me to a wedding reception.

But Tong Tong's answer made me think deeply.

She said that his parents knew that we were in love, but they had never met his parents and had never considered getting married.

I dare not speculate, but I have my own ideas.

With his outstanding appearance, Tong Tong met rich people and lived an enviable life. Since then, she has been well-fed and has entered the threshold of a wealthy family.

But in addition to beauty, Tong Tong can't find any ability to add points.

The goal is to graduate from a foreign university, and Tong Tong even wants to drop out of junior high school. The target has worked for millions of years, and Tong Tong is an unemployed person.

In fact, it doesn't matter what stage of education it is. If a person is very capable and has a job to make a living, it is admirable.

Women, in particular, have the ability to stand on their own feet, stand up straight in front of the object and speak with confidence.

I think people's parents have never seen Tong Tong because they don't recognize this daughter-in-law. Otherwise, her partner will not keep urging her to go to college and learn knowledge.

Good appearance may be a stepping stone, but ability is the further foundation.

Appearance is to enter a rich family, but ability determines whether you can marry into a rich family.

So we can't judge which is more important. One gives you a chance, the other lets you seize it.

If you have a good appearance, you should exercise your skills, because you have an advantage over others.

If you are plain, don't underestimate yourself, because your efforts are also your stepping stone, and then your personality charm can't be compared with your appearance.