Are twins twins good?

The so-called twins refer to fraternal twins whose two babies belong to different genders, that is, twins or siblings.

Everyone knows the benefits of multiple births, including twins, especially twins, so I won’t go into details here.

The "bad" aspects of twins are not known to most people, so we will focus on them here.

Including two aspects:

The "badness" of multiple births;

The unique "badness" of "dragon and phoenix twins".

First of all, the benefits of multiple births, including twins, come at the expense of additional risks for mother and baby compared with single births.

Risks to the mother from multiple pregnancies include:

Increased risk of gestational hypertension and preeclampsia;

Increased risk of gestational diabetes ;The risk of developing diabetes during life after delivery is also increased. Gestational diabetes also increases the risk of neonatal respiratory disorders and hypoglycemia;

increases the chance of dystocia and caesarean section;

also increases the risk of postpartum depression.

The risks of multiple pregnancy to the fetus include:

Affecting fetal growth. Multiple fetuses are generally more likely to have growth and development problems than a single fetus. Including low birth weight, especially developmental inconsistency, that is, one fetus is significantly smaller than the other fetuses;

Affects the accuracy of genetic disease screening test results. It is known that many inherited developmental defects can be detected early through prenatal screening, thus preventing the birth of babies with severe developmental defects. In multiple pregnancies, the accuracy of test results will be affected due to interference in sample acquisition;

Twin-twin transfusion syndrome. For monochorionic-diamniotic twins, twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome may occur, in which the blood supply between the two fetuses is imbalanced, and one fetus "steals" the blood of the other fetus, causing developmental imbalance and harm;

Premature birth. Premature birth is the most common complication of multiple pregnancy. More than half of twins are born prematurely. Pregnancy with three or more babies is often unavoidable. We know that being born prematurely, especially before 37 weeks of pregnancy, may increase the risk of short- and long-term health problems, including problems with breathing, eating and keeping warm. and long-term risks such as learning and behavioral impairments and diseases in adulthood. Very early preterm babies (babies born before 32 weeks of pregnancy) have a significantly increased risk of death or serious health problems, even with the best medical care.

Increased risk of cerebral palsy. Cerebral palsy is a serious complication caused by fetal brain damage during the perinatal period. The chance of occurrence increases in multiple pregnancies, especially premature births.

In addition to the sexual "disadvantages" of multiple births, there is another special disadvantage of twins, which is that the "phoenix" faces additional fetal development and many defects and disadvantages throughout life after birth. .

Some adverse effects on girls have long been observed in twin twins.

The explanation for this phenomenon is that when twins develop simultaneously in the womb, the female fetus is exposed to male hormones, causing some adverse effects, which will not only affect the development in the womb, but The theory that defects can have effects after birth and even throughout life is known as the "twin-to-twin testosterone transfer hypothesis."

The reason why it is called a hypothesis means that more evidence is needed to confirm it.

A new study from Sweden, and the largest study on this to date, explores this further.

For the study, researchers recorded and analyzed data on 13,800 pairs of twins born in Norway between 1967 and 1978.

The results found that compared with other types of twin groups, women in twin twins showed several disadvantages during a follow-up period of more than 30 years.

For example, they are 15% less likely to complete high school and nearly 4% less likely to complete college.

They have a 6% lower lifetime fertility rate and are almost 12% less likely to be married.

The economic income is also significantly lower than the average level of women in society, and is 8.6% lower than that of female twins.

These differences persist even if the boy dies shortly after birth. This also means that this difference is not caused by differences in postnatal upbringing caused by parents' "preferring sons over daughters", but is more likely to be caused by congenital differences, that is, exposure to male hormones in the womb.

To sum up, it can be seen that although multiple pregnancies, including twins of twins and twins, often bring joy and auspiciousness to people, these "good things" also come at a price.

Of course, these "costs" are not enough to guide and influence people's reproductive choices, especially when twins or multiple births occur naturally, because naturally occurring multiple births are rare.

However, with the widespread application of assisted reproductive technology, including ovulation induction drugs and in vitro fertilization technology, people can indeed actively choose to have multiple pregnancies.

In fact, in the past 30 years, the number of multiple pregnancies worldwide has increased significantly several times.

When you want to choose multiple pregnancy through assisted reproductive technology, you still need to consider it carefully. You should not only see the "good" side, but also clearly realize that there are many "bad" aspects. one side.

My family is full of twins, one sister and one brother.

In general, twins of a dragon and a phoenix are a rare blessing.

There are many good aspects:

1. Kill two birds with one stone. Some depend on genetic inheritance and whether the family has a tradition of having twins; some rely on technology, such as ovulation induction or monitoring. By doing both at once, the mother does not have to suffer a second time, which is very good for the mother and the family.

2. Childhood sweethearts. For children, having their closest playmates since childhood is of great benefit to their development and growth. For single-child families who sometimes have to worry about going out to play with other children every day, twins are very convenient.

3. Sanyang Kaitai. Mainly talking about the love of a mother for her child, the love of a father for her child, and the love of a sister for her brother or the love of a brother for her sister. I have always felt that two big and two small, two boys and two girls, two "good" The family of words is the most perfect, which is the family's greatest wealth.

The bad aspects are actually nothing compared to the good aspects. They are all trivial matters.

1. Fiscal deficit. The cost of two children is definitely greater than that of one, starting from the mother's womb, whether it is milk powder, diapers, clothes, etc., it is twice as much. It might be better after six years old. At least you can take care of yourself without having to watch over you all the time.

2. Not enough manpower. One child can keep the whole family entertained, and even more so with two. What's more, the old man has too many grandchildren and they can't all schedule them, so he needs to spend money to hire a nanny. We started with the confinement nanny until the children went to kindergarten.

3. The struggle between dragon and phoenix. I think as long as there are boys, the family will not be clean, let alone dragons and phoenixes. The reality is that one loves to make trouble and the other loves to cry. The family is in chaos and the parents are helpless. There was never a clean day. The two guys just grabbed things endlessly.

In short, the twins of a dragon and a phoenix are the blessings obtained in the previous life. They should be cherished and loved.

Twins are always a great prize. Think about it, others only ask for one child, but you have two children at once. Isn’t it a double surprise? Not to mention the twins, a son and a daughter, I don’t know how happy I am!

But twins, especially twins, are something that can only be met but not sought. The two children were born together and grew up together. They have been playmates since childhood, and they can learn from each other and compete with each other. It is really the best thing. But twins are also different from a single child:

Many people think that having two children at a time saves trouble. As everyone knows, the risk of pregnancy and childbirth for twins is more than double that of a single person, but many people have not experienced it and do not know it. It happens that we have several twins among our relatives, so we know a little bit about them.

It is said that "one sheep is herded, and a group of sheep are herded", but raising children is not as simple as herding sheep. Everything must be done carefully when eating, drinking, sleeping, sleeping. Breast milk for twins is basically not enough, and mixed feeding makes the mother very tired. The saddest thing is that even if the little one gets sick, the adults will be too busy to do anything.

Therefore, if you have twins, you must be very happy. It is a special gift given to you by God. After three years of age, twins are very cute. If we use other means to obtain twins, it will be technically difficult and not good for the health of adults and children. It is best to let nature take its course.

The second twins were conceived naturally. Neither party has the twin gene and did not take any medicine. I didn’t believe it when the first B-ultrasound said there were two (twins). They will be one month old in one week. , although I brought them all by myself, I was very content and there was nothing wrong with me. I was very happy to be pregnant with twins, not to mention twins, twins, who were about to give birth when they were pregnant. I had always been afraid of the two sons, because the eldest baby was a boy, so they were considered twins. It’s my son again, and I accept it. No matter how much pressure I have, I can’t help it. I’m so lucky to have twins. No matter what, I want them no matter what. Now, they are even happier. It satisfies the father’s desire for a little lover and the grandparents’ desire for a grandson. Now one day One person uses 12/14 diapers, and two people use about 25 diapers a day. Auspicious blessings from heaven are what every family dreams of.

As for the children, since the two children are the same age, there will not be any generation gap or estrangement. Boys tend to be outgoing and rational; girls tend to be reserved and emotional. The two children grew up together and learned from each other. It is a rare resource for children.

For parents, raising two children together and experiencing the differences and fun of being a parent of a boy and a girl at the same time can add more laughter to the family. After growing up together, parents no longer think about having a second child and have more time to themselves.

For families, children’s resources are fully shared, which also greatly reduces family expenditures. It also brings more laughter to the family.

Of course, everything has its advantages and disadvantages. The advantages of twins definitely outweigh the disadvantages.

Of course! You don’t just have to have twins if you want them. If there is no gene for having twins in your family, then the chance of having twins is very, very small. Twins represent blessing. In rural areas, if a family gives birth to twins, people in the surrounding villages will Everyone will go to congratulate and say how lucky they are.

The twins are the result of simultaneous fertilization of multiple eggs. People with this physique will ovulate multiple times every month, while normal people only have one ovulation, which is about 1 mm square visible to the naked eye. White. Drugs can interfere with ovulation, and some drugs can cause excessive ovulation. If a fertilized egg is fertilized and formed, it divides. Then they grow up independently, becoming identical twins. They are essentially one person and look exactly the same. If two eggs are fertilized at the same time, they will grow separately. It means polyovary, twins or multiple births. They are completely different individuals, and they don't look much alike when they grow up. It may be the same sex, or it may be the opposite sex. Therefore, the probability of twins being twins is very low.

Everything has two sides. The good side is that it is OK to be pregnant for ten months at a time. If you plan to have a second child, you don’t have to experience pregnancy reactions twice. Generally, twins will have to undergo abdominal dissection at 36 weeks. Of course it’s great to have children! The bad side is that babies born at 36 weeks are definitely not as good as babies born at 40 weeks, and the most difficult thing is that the mother may not have enough breast milk after the baby is born. It is difficult for a mother to take care of two babies at the same time. There are a few examples: a mother sleeps with one baby, and the other baby either sleeps with grandma or a nanny since childhood, or sends a baby back to her hometown. This will inevitably lead to a lack of closeness to her, and this will gradually show up as the child grows up. Parental closeness varies.

At present, the twins are a good thing no matter how you look at it. If you deal with the two children at once, the adults will suffer less. The elderly and the two children will be treated together, which will also save trouble. However, twins are rare. It is a blessing to have twins, and you can secretly enjoy it. Of course, there is no need to be upset if you don’t have twins, because the probability of twins is very low. It’s also good to have two children staggered by a certain period of time. Just let it go.

Many couples want to have twins after they get married, but the probability of having twins is not very high. Having twins is a blessing in life. Every move, every move and every smile of the cute twins is beautiful. It’s so endearing. With the twins, the plan to have a second child was immediately completed. Raising one child and raising two children at the same time can save the time gap. The two children have been together since childhood, and they are not lonely. When we grow up in the future, we will work and get married together. Parents of one child will not be able to enjoy the fun of being parents of twins. How happy it is to have a son and a daughter!