Seven embarrassing scenes recorded a woman's real state during childbirth.

Guide: What's it like to have a baby? Many people will tell you that it hurts, others will tell you that you will be sidelined, and they will teach you all the delivery skills to relieve the pain, but no one will tell you the real state at that time. You may vomit, your body will tremble, your teeth will ring, you will be incontinent, and you look like a madman. ....

Maybe you have learned some knowledge about childbirth in prenatal training classes or related books, but I don't think you have heard that vomiting, teeth chattering or even excretion may occur during childbirth ... Don't worry, I'm telling you this not to make you nervous and embarrassed, but to make expectant mothers mentally prepared in advance. When these things happen, you know everything is normal.

You are pregnant. You attend every prenatal training class carefully and read any information you can find about pregnancy and childbirth. However, neither courses nor books can make you fully understand the process of childbirth. This is not surprising, because all the information about childbirth will only tell you some general knowledge, and only those who have experienced it personally know the details. The following are interviews with experts and new mothers. They accidentally left out the content, which may help you to know more about the delivery in another way.

Awkward scene 1 vomiting

If someone had told me before that vomiting during childbirth was normal, I would have doubted it. But it was not until my daughter was born three years ago that I deeply realized how common vomiting is during childbirth. Almost 90% of mothers have experienced nausea and vomiting during childbirth. Of course, there is a reason for this. For example, the use of epidural anesthesia in painless delivery can lead to hypotension, that is, the blood pressure suddenly drops, and the first sign is nausea and vomiting. Even without epidural anesthesia, pain during childbirth can lead to vomiting. In addition, during childbirth, the food in the stomach will stop digesting, which may also lead to vomiting. If it is a natural delivery, in order to avoid vomiting to the greatest extent, you should only eat some digestible liquid food from the early stage of delivery, or stop eating completely and only drink water or drinks.

Awkward scene 2 teeth will click.

Almost 50% of women complain that they are shivering and their teeth are rattling during childbirth. This phenomenon does not appear because of feeling cold (in fact, at this time, the expectant mother's body temperature will rise 1 to 2 degrees, and she will feel hot). The previous explanation is that trembling is a direct response to the temporary state of the body during childbirth. But the latest research shows that trembling is the direct result of some incompatible components in the mother's blood. In the process of delivery, there will be a very small amount of fetal blood into the mother's blood. If there are incompatible components in the blood of the mother and the baby (for example, the mother's blood type is A and the baby's blood type is B), the mother will tremble, tremble and have a cold war.

Awkward scene 3 makes some awkward noises.

When the baby slowly descends through the delivery head and is ready to be born, it will squeeze into the rectum, forcing some gas to be discharged from * * * *. Especially after epidural anesthesia, the sphincter near * * * becomes paralyzed and unconscious, which will happen more often. Another unpleasant thing about childbirth is that you also have intestinal peristalsis, that is, defecation. But the doctor's attitude towards this matter is very objective. They think this is just the normal movement of human organs. When the baby's head passes through the birth canal, the rectum will become smooth and the contents will be pushed out. If this really happens, you don't have to feel embarrassed and embarrassed. This is a completely normal reaction. Of course, we have rarely heard of these things before, let alone seen them.

Embarrassment Scene 4 You may act like a madman.

During childbirth, you may scream, cry, curse your husband or doctor, and even tear your clothes, especially without taking any pain-relieving drugs. "There was once a woman who felt very uncomfortable and took off all her pajamas. Finally, she went through the whole process of childbirth naked. " An experienced midwife told me. Although these behaviors are a bit extreme, they are all normal. They are just the most direct manifestations of pain and fatigue.

You can also blame these crazy behaviors on hormonal changes in the body: during childbirth, the levels of estrogen and progesterone will change, which are roughly the same as those of premenstrual hormones, so your reaction is very similar to premenstrual syndrome. If you act like a madman, don't blame yourself. Doctors and nurses are used to these screaming mothers. If you don't want this to happen, you can do some preparatory work in advance. For example, attend prenatal training classes, practice breathing and correct exertion, and try to stay calm.

Embarrassment Scene 5 Your brain will go blank.

At the critical moment of delivery, it's easy to forget the contents of prenatal training courses. "I tried to relieve some of the pain by the way my teacher taught me, but I can't remember the posture and breathing methods I learned. I can only lie flat there, clutching the handrail of the pulp with both hands. " A mother told me this after giving birth. If your husband can accompany you in childbirth, you can ask him to learn some relaxation methods from you in advance to remind you how to breathe and exert yourself at critical moments.

Awkward scene 6 The baby doesn't look cute at first sight.

Don't feel sad when you hold your baby in your arms for the first time without feeling the long-awaited heartfelt joy. You have just experienced childbirth, and your tired body and nerves need time to rest and recover. If you can, try to feed the children! Then let the nurse take the child away and let you have a good rest. This is what I did after 17 hours of labor. 1 hour later, when I held my daughter's back again and looked at her carefully, I was fascinated by her.

Embarrassment Scene 7 The delivery process is not easy for your husband either.

The fetal monitor clicks, and your mood fluctuates like a roller coaster. All this is undoubtedly a severe test that your husband has never experienced. "We don't let our husbands accompany us, or ask them to leave the delivery room at the critical moment of delivery, because seeing their wives' heartbreaking pain often makes them upset, and their emotions will make the mothers more nervous. "Therefore, if your husband is asked to leave the delivery room, you should understand the doctor and let him know that maybe this is not a bad thing. I once heard of a husband who accompanied her in labor and fainted in the delivery room when his wife gave birth. As a result, the doctor had to take care of her husband.

If you are not sure whether your husband can withstand such a severe test, then choose another person to accompany you in childbirth! It is best to have a female friend or other family members who have had childbearing experience. Of course, now you can also choose a guide to help you give birth.