Your temperament masks your experience.

Someone once said that if you think a person has nothing to praise her, praise her temperament. Because temperament is a hypocritical and ethereal word, it has various personalities. But everyone feels the same way about people with good temperament. Whether it is warm, intellectual or graceful, a good temperament always makes people want to be close. Although temperament has various personalities, it is easy for people of the same kind or with the same experience to have similar temperament.

When everyone is still a student, because there is no social experience, it is easy to be seen as a student when walking on the road. Not only because people are a little immature, but also because they were all students at that time. When they are exposed to books for a long time every day, they will have a strong taste of books. I once attended a party full of photographers with a colleague who studied photography. In my eyes, this colleague is the kind of artist with a little temperament. As soon as he picked up the SLR, the seriousness of taking pictures made people feel different from other colleagues until I was among a group of photographers. They dress in a similar way. Many of them have braids, some have moustaches, and SLR, all of whom can take pictures at a glance.

What impresses me most about Lin Chi-ling is that, besides being well maintained, she always gives people a warm feeling of being the big sister next door. Be polite to others and always think of others, and you will gradually have such a warm temperament. Bridget, Guan Juer's actor, joined the trip in a hurry and called Andy before leaving. Andy's advice to her is to talk to Lin Chi-ling, saying that no matter what you do, she will give you a lot of care. In the program, Lin Chi-ling has always taken care of everyone, and only then will he become the group leader that everyone likes.

Lin Chi-ling's consideration for others is also reflected in his usual activities. Lin Chi-ling and Guo Caijie took a group photo when attending the event, and took a semi-squat posture to take care of Guo Caijie and Lin Chi-ling. Whether taking photos or hugging people, Lin Chi-ling always takes a semi-squat posture carefully. This kind of behavior that brings warmth to others has been adhered to since she entered the entertainment circle, which will make so many people feel her warm temperament.

The temperament you want is not only your experience, but also your choice. When you are struggling to write morning reading, you choose to give up, and gradually you will feel that you will be a person who is not easy to persist; If you choose to keep writing, you will begin to feel that you are a person who knows how to keep writing. This subtle choice tendency will also change your choice when doing other things that need to be done. And the things you do are more and more persistent, which not only increases your self-confidence, but also makes others feel the firmness in your temperament.

People's temperament is not immutable. When your experience changes and your thoughts change, it can affect your temperament. Temperament is accumulated from your own experience. What kind of temperament you want to have is what kind of person you want to be. Only in this way can people exude the temperament they want.