Why are you called "female role models" when you are single and ridiculed by others?

The popularity of a series of female variety documentaries such as "3+Women" and "My Girl" has aroused heated discussion among netizens. Originally, this female star has a pair of beautiful skin on the surface, but it is difficult to express her inner sadness and confusion in the private pain with ordinary people.

before this kind of program is broadcast, I wonder: when "older unmarried" becomes the label of actresses, will they still have a choice? After watching this series of programs, I realized the attitude that new women should have in the 21st century through the lifestyle and thinking concept of stars. I also know why I am ridiculed for being single, and why older unmarried celebrities are called "role models for women".

Chen Qiaoen is 4 years old this year, which is a terrible number for a single unmarried woman. But she bought herself a house last year. This home not only has spacious and bright floor-to-ceiling windows, but also a simple and comfortable sofa. The whole house has a warm and elegant decoration style and looks beautiful.

In front of the camera, Chen Qiaoen said simply: It's not just boys who can give girls a sense of belonging. I totally agree. Although many women long for security, they can't help but judge what makes them feel satisfied and comfortable with men, such as a house, a job or a pet. There are many answers to this question, and the frequency of "man" is often the least.

Of course, self-love is not an innate ability. Chen Qiong was born in a small county in Taiwan Province. Due to a single-parent family and a grumpy mother, she felt inferior, introverted and withdrawn in the first half of her life. Therefore, although this relationship never had a good result, she devoted herself wholeheartedly to every relationship.

When Chen Qiong fell in love with Wallace Huo, she not only accompanied him to buy personal belongings, but also broke the company rules for him. However, they eventually broke up because of "excessive dependence". Later, Chen Qiaoen and his foreign boyfriend, Michael, fell in love for four years. Even though their personal insecurity was restrained, they still didn't achieve the desired results. Later, Chen Qiong and Roy Chiu had an affair, but they overheard the news that Roy Chiu and Tang Yan were dating ... < P > It's hard to say that Chen's difficult relationship has nothing to do with her background. Fortunately, she put more energy into her work and rebuilt her inner world through the process of self-achievement. Since then, life in chenchen has been smooth sailing, with few ups and downs. In Here We Come, Chen Qiaoen is so naughty that even the photographer can't keep up with her. In Brave World, Chen Qiaoen got rid of the idol burden completely, not only pulling Zhang Han to dance, but also learning lizard face with Yang Di.

In my opinion, all self-release behaviors are based on Chen Qiaoen's strong self-confidence and sense of security. She told us through personal experience that we must make up for the damage of our family of origin, and only we can give us a sense of security and belonging.

In the entertainment circle, there is an outstanding representative of elderly singles-Wu Xin. Unlike Chen Qiaoen, Wu Xin, who has just turned 3, has encountered bottlenecks in her career and feelings.

In my opinion, Wu Xin is a typical "success is also a small combination, and failure is also a small combination". For her, Hunan Satellite TV made her sensitive and timid, and at the same time made her radiant. No one can understand that Orfila went from a small and transparent place to today, and then was marginalized in the fast-growing Hunan Satellite TV ...

When Hunan Satellite TV hired the younger generation of employees such as Shen Mengchen and Liang Tian, Wu Ting became more fragile and suspicious, and she felt pressure. Career setbacks have seriously affected her life and made her lose confidence in love. So she gave up the opportunity to take the initiative again and again and chose to wait for others to pursue her.

however, how can a person without self-confidence attract high-quality members of the opposite sex? Therefore, Wu Xin talked about some "wonderful" boyfriends, even parents and friends can see that they are not suitable. Over the years, Wu Xin's work, feelings and life have always been at the bottom.

In p>217, Wu decided to break the back road and quit his contract with Hunan Satellite TV to become a freelance writer. After that, she began to participate in variety shows of different styles such as fashion, singing and dancing, adventure, and even participated in youth idol dramas. I have to say that Orfila has undergone great changes, and her performance in My Girl is even more numerous.

In fact, both stars and ordinary people are fine, and everyone will not always be smooth sailing. Some people who have avoided bad families are not immune to workplace storms. In short, injury is not a terrible thing. As long as you give yourself time and space to heal, you will grow and gain something.

There is a saying in the book Woman: There are many beautiful women in this world, and the most beautiful one is undoubtedly standing. Does that make sense? As long as you are a woman who is confident enough to enjoy life, marriage is no longer an option. If you are worried about your family background, look at Jon Chen. If you cry because of work, you might as well learn from Xin Wu.

Finally, I hope every female reader can have the happiness she wants.