There was a "free gift card" at a wedding reception in Hangzhou. How to understand the custom of young people resisting gifts?

Nowadays, young people resist the custom of accompanying gifts because they feel that there is no need to maintain the relationship between the two sides through money, and everyone is unwilling to climb the relationship. Everyone is gradually changing this custom of accompanying gifts.

It can be said that attending a wedding is a very happy thing, but if you attend more than a dozen weddings during the holiday, many people will feel at a loss. After all, it is likely that all their wages will be paid in one month. Nowadays, young people are very disgusted with the custom of giving gifts at weddings. Most young people think that this custom is a bit excessive and increases everyone's economic burden.

There are free gift cards at the wedding.

A married couple in Hangzhou did not bring real money when their relatives and friends came to the wedding, but all took out the gift cards designed by the groom for everyone. On this card, they only have the blessings of both parties and the names of the givers. The newlyweds have issued more than 20 shopping cards, and they will all take them back on their wedding day.

Changes in the concept of etiquette and customs.

Nowadays, young people's concept of accompanying gifts has changed greatly. They no longer attend other people's weddings in order to climb relationships like traditional old people, but also want to show the interests of both sides with the highest gift money. Nowadays, young people think that it is perfectly natural to accompany the gift, and there is no need to take out a large sum of gift money for the sake of so-called face. After all, there is not much pressure on how much you pay, how much you pay and how much you take back when you get married.

Changes in social relations.

Nowadays, the social relations between young people are not like the traditional old people, and they need constant maintenance. They feel that the relationship maintained solely by money is very boring, and many fair-weather friends will not stand up if they really encounter difficulties. Instead of maintaining a relationship through money, it is better to spend this money on your family.