Please help me masters to look at the crape myrtle arrangement, thank you very much. I want to see career, wealth, family, and overall fortune. Thanks.

Zi Wei Dou Shu prediction:

The fate palace is in (Xu)

Integrity and Zhen are in the same palace

Love and hate are clear, and you have a clear understanding of love and hate. Or if you like something, you will do it with all your strength. Disgust will also be shown unabashedly.

I have a strong sense of mission in my work. Once I am assigned a task, I will immerse myself in it and try my best to complete it. When on vacation, you can put aside your official duties and enjoy yourself.

When doing things, they have more concentration than ordinary people and the spirit of fighting against repeated defeats, so most of the planned goals are completed.

For others, they often hold themselves to the same strict standards, which makes new acquaintances feel difficult to get along with.

Confidence, strong subjective awareness, not caring about the opinions of others, doing what you want to do, and saying what you want to say. Therefore, there will be a situation where you offend others without realizing it.

Female zodiac signs are cool and beautiful, charming and have good temperament. Love and hate are clear.

Know how to make progress, be smart and promising, and work seriously and responsibly.

The style of being too confident, strong and unwilling to admit defeat is off-putting.

Like gambling and taking risks. Sometimes the gain outweighs the loss.

Tianfu Tonggong

Honest and kind-hearted, willing to solve problems for others, and able to win people over.

Smart, strong learning ability, and able to adapt to the environment. He keeps to himself and is unlikely to take the initiative to change the status quo.

By nature, he likes to help others and builds good relationships. Therefore, even if you encounter difficulties, there are noble people who will come forward to help and turn disaster into good luck.

Think rationally, analyze things from an objective perspective, be magnanimous, and manage interpersonal relationships well.

As a person, I don’t like to be opportunistic. Be able to work step by step and make progress in stability.

Conservative views and no risk-taking. You can pay very careful attention to the details of things.

Have leadership skills and planning and organizational skills.

Zuo Fu Jiahui

You can get help from powerful people, so that your work and career can progress smoothly and you can achieve outstanding performance.

Wenchang Contrast/Wenqu Tonggong

Has excellent literary talent.

It also helps to obtain academic qualifications or pass exams.

Emotional and romantic.

Dora Tonggong

Be aware of physical injuries or broken appearance.

You will encounter resistance at work.

Purple micro power plus meeting

Increase enthusiasm and desire to take power.

The personality will become more independent and strong.

Have good abilities, have leadership style, and can actually take charge.

Left Fu Chemistry Association

Increase talents and academic qualities.

Can get help from noble people. And then achieve the predetermined goals.

Wu Qu Hua Ji Jia Hui

If there are changes, beware of unexpected disasters.

Pay attention to where your money is going. Have a financial dispute with someone.

The personality will be unhappy and stubborn. It is easy to place your mind on religion, metaphysics, and numerology.

Be careful of injuries from metal utensils.

Hua Quan Jia Hui/Hua Ke Jia Hui

There are many lucky opportunities and you can earn a lot of wealth. Ability to enjoy power or fame.

The Body Palace is in the Life Palace:

The Body Palace represents the palace that an individual should focus on in the development of his acquired fortune. It is the palace that individuals should pay special attention to after the Life Palace.

The overlap between the body palace and the life palace indicates that the configuration and pattern of the stars in the life palace have a decisive influence on the development of fortune the day after tomorrow. If the configuration of the stars in the life palace is ideal, the individual will have a better foundation for development and his life-long development will be stable and smooth. If the configuration of the life palace is slightly poor, then you must work harder on the day after tomorrow. Although you will go through a lot of hard work and setbacks, if the time comes and you seize the right opportunity, success is not impossible.

Zifu Chaoyuan Ge:

Have the opportunity to become rich or noble.

Integrity, integrity, and martial arts:

Able to be civilized and martial, and fond of ritual and music. You can gain fame by pursuing a civil career, and you can gain fame or merit by engaging in a military career.

The Prime Minister's Chaoyuange:

It is conducive to holding public office, the official career will be prosperous, and there will be a certain amount of economic income. Pay attention to interpersonal relationships and have good relationships with family and friends.

Literary Star:

Outstanding performance in literature, art and academics. You can also achieve greater success by working in the fields of medicine and finance. Smart and versatile.

Having literary talent and being good at promoting yourself will help you develop in the political world.

The parents palace is in (Hai)

Taiyin is in the same palace

The parents have a gentle temperament. He has a deep relationship with his mother, and he is more influenced by his mother among his parents.

Tiankui Jiahui/Tianyue Comparison

Parents have a good status, which is helpful to their own development.

Qingyang Xiangjia/Dora Xiangjia

Communication is poor with parents and children, and sometimes they quarrel.

Mars Club

There are many family problems and there is a generation gap with parents. Not getting along well.

Contrast of Earth Tribulation/Contrast of Earth and Space

The relationship with parents is shallow, and there is less gathering and more separation.

Tianliang Hualuca Club

You can enjoy the meticulous care of your parents. They are always there to help when there are difficulties.

Lucun is in the same palace

Having a predestined relationship with your parents, you can get financial support from them.

Hua Lujiahui/Lucun Tonggong

If parents do business, they can make profits and their business can gradually expand.

The Palace of Fortune is in (child)

The Greedy Wolf is in the same palace

Not satisfied with the status quo and has many desires. Work more perfectly and be busier to achieve expected requirements.

When you have fun, you are less bound by the world and can let go.

Left Auxiliary Control/Right Bi Jiahui

The main thing is to increase blessings and fortune.

Wenchang Jiahui

Able to appreciate literature, art, and music. Enjoy yourself if you like it.

Qingyang is in the same palace

Working hard, the mood is less peaceful.

Purple Micro Transformation Quan Contrast

Pay attention to superficiality and enjoy happiness.

Compared with Zuo Fu Chemistry

He will devote himself to research on the things he likes and have his own unique insights.

It helps to calm the mind and maintain clear thinking. When it comes to doing business, he is a master of careful planning.

Know how to enjoy, but should live within your means.

You will have a good social life in your later years.

Tianma Jiahui

I like to work and cannot be idle. Also prefer dynamic leisure activities.

Chemical Power Comparison/Chemical Science Comparison

There is a chance of sudden promotion.

Tian Zhai Palace is in (ugly)

Heaven is in the same palace

It is suitable to buy property by one's own efforts. The ancestral property inherited is not much.

Jumen Tonggong

You should pay attention to the rights and wrongs caused by real estate.

You may also have disputes with neighbors over land or housing.

Tianyue Jiahui

Have an ancestral property, which may be a gorgeous building or garden. It can be inherited and is helpful to one's own development.

Mars contrast/Lingxing plus association

The inherited ancestral property cannot be retained and will be sold off.

Dijiejiahui/Dikyongjiahui

There is no legacy of the ancestral legacy.

It is not conducive for the land and house to be registered in your own name, and it will not stay for a long time.

The career palace is in (Yin)

Wu Qu is in the same palace

Wu Qu sits in the career palace and is in charge of wealth, so he belongs to finance, accounting, accounting and taxation personnel position. Suitable for physical occupations. Suitable for finance, commerce, venture capital, and business.

The military and police, steel industry, and technical circles also fall into this category.

Have strong execution ability.

The Tiantong Palace

The Tiantang Palace sits in the career palace, which is suitable for staff, secretaries, staff, personal assistants, and civil servants. These are the planning tasks behind the scenes.

In addition, you can also engage in service display industries such as food, clothing, housing, transportation, education, and entertainment related to public places. Such as service industry, high-end restaurants, clothing industry, gift department store, silver building, antique shop, jewelry store, photography, beauty and cosmetics industry, and art industry work.

Left Fu Jiahui/Right Bi Comparison

You can get help in your career. Plans can be implemented more smoothly and with less resistance.

Wenqujiajui

Have literary talents and unique professional abilities, especially those who can use academic and cultural things, such as academic research, publishing, communication, teachers, advertising, etc. , you can become an outstanding talent.

Daraka Society

You will encounter external resistance in your career. If you serve in the military and police circles, you can increase your personal prestige and have management capabilities.

Ziwei Huaquanhui

You can be promoted if you work in government agencies or public institutions. The official fortune is good and he can be promoted to a certain position.

If you work in a private organization, you can be promoted and become a manager with real power.

Zuofu Chemistry Association

Noble people will appear in your career, and you can get external help.

Wu Quhua Ji is in the same palace

Pay attention to career and money-related funds. The key points are clear and the accounts are consistent.

Pegasus Comparison

If you are extremely busy with your career, you may triple jump if you encounter a promotion opportunity. But don't harm your health by overworking.

Hua Quan Jia Hui/Hua Ke Jia Hui

You can be appreciated at work and have opportunities for promotion.

The Friendship Palace is in (Mao)

The Sun is in the same house

I am hospitable and generous to friends, so I make many friends.

If you are a supervisor, you have many subordinates under your jurisdiction. But I often worry about them. Sometimes I mediate disputes for them, but it's always thankless.

Tianliang Palace

If you are destined to be friends who are older than you, you can be taken care of and supported by them. Fewer friends. It may also be that you play the role of taking care of others.

If you are a supervisor, you will not have many subordinates, but you can take care of your subordinates well.

Tiankui in the same palace

Have many loyal and upright friends or subordinates who can help you in times of difficulty.

Mars will be added/Ring star will be compared

Subordinates and friends will be dependent on you. Helpless in times of trouble.

Be careful about making bad friends.

Tianliang Hualu Tonggong

I respect my older friends very much. You can usually take care of him.

Lucunjiahui

As a person, he can build a wide network of contacts, is willing to help others, and can also get help from others.

Hualu Tonggong/Lu Cunjiahui

You can meet friends who can work together in career.

The Migration Palace is in (Chen)

The Seven Killers are in the same palace

You don’t like to be at home and feel restricted. Once outside, you are full of energy.

Strong in outdoor activities, energetic and domineering.

Youbi joins the club

You can get help when you go out. Do things more easily.

Tiankui Xiangjia/Tianyue Xiangjia

It is conducive to overseas development. A noble person will appear at the right time and give opportunities.

Wenchang Tonggong/Wenqu Comparison

I have talents, am quite active in the group, and can make connections and get help.

Qingyang Jiahui/Dora Comparison

It is advisable to avoid unnecessary disputes and conflicts with others when outside.

Tianma Jiahui

I often go out and be busy, so be careful about traffic accidents.

The Palace of Illness and Disaster is in (Si)

Tianji is in the same palace

Pay attention to diseases of the liver and gallbladder, paralysis of the nervous system, easily injured limbs, deterioration of the functions of ears and eyes, and teeth. fall.

When you are young, pay attention to injuries and disfigurement.

Tian Yue is in the same palace

The disease can be easily cured, or you may be able to meet a good doctor and turn the disease into good luck.

Lingxing Jiahui

Pay attention to burns, acute inflammation, strong fire, stinging eyes, and hyperactivity.

Earth and sky are in the same palace/Earth and sky are in the same palace

Pay attention to weakness of Qi and blood, diarrhea and dizziness.

Lucun control

Childhood is prone to diseases such as gastrointestinal problems, poor liver function, cough, and bloating.

The Palace of Wealth and Silk is at (noon)

The same palace as Ziwei

Have the ability to manage money and know how to use money. Happy to get stable wealth.

Pay attention to appearance and style.

Zuo Fu in the same palace

Has the ability to make money and can save money to accumulate wealth.

Wenqu Jiahui

It helps in the flexible circulation of money.

It is good for engaging in cultural and educational undertakings and can be profitable.

Qingyang Comparison/Taraka Meeting

If the main money is damaged, even if you have the intention to keep it, it will be lost.

If you work hard, even if there is an opportunity to make a fortune, you will miss it without paying attention.

Purple micro power transforms into the same palace

It is good for starting a business and having good financial management skills.

The financial resources come from government agencies and can be developed in public units or bid for government agency projects.

The same palace as Zuo Fu Chemical Science

Can get help from noble people in loan financing, which will help expand your career.

Wu Qu Hua Ji Jia Hui

Will be worried about money. In serious cases, you will have disputes and conflicts with others because of money.

When lending money to others, it is not advisable to lend money in large amounts.

Hua Quan is in the same palace/Hua Ke is in the same palace

It is conducive to seeking fame and fortune. Extra wealth can be obtained due to one's reputation and status in society.

The Children’s Palace is in (Wei)

Your Children’s Palace has no ruling star and is a dependent house. In the middle of the three directions and four directions:

Parent Palace: in (Hai)--with the main star of Taiyin

Tianzhai Palace: in (Chou)--with the main stars of Tiantong and Jumen

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Dating Palace: In (Mao) - with the Sun and the ruler of Tianliang

The direction of your children's palace will be closely related to the events that develop in these palaces.

The left-hand side clamp/right-button clamp

can improve children's well-behaved obedience.

Tiankui Jiahui

Can make children smart and able to read. He also knows how to take care of everything about himself.

Mars in the same sign

Pay attention to the safety of your children when they are young to avoid accidental injuries.

The number of children is not many.

Tianliang Hualuca Association

I love my children very much.

Children are destined to their elders and are loved by their elders.

Lu Cunjiahui

The number of children is not many.

Hua Lujiahui/Lucunjiahui

Children will have good fortune.

The husband and wife palace is in (Shen)

Po Jun is in the same palace

The concept of marriage is unique and they do not like to be bound by traditional concepts. You can accept the trendy concepts of cohabitation before marriage or celibacy.

The process of love is ever-changing and dramatic. But there were also many twists and turns. It can be said that good things come in many ways.

The spouse has an egoistic personality and may have less sense of family responsibility and focus more on his or her own affairs.

When encountering poor communication between the two parties, avoid impulsively ending the marriage relationship.

You and Bi are in the same house

If the horoscope is auspicious, your spouse can help you and is a good assistant in your career.

If the horoscope is unlucky, your love life will be easily destroyed by a third party, or it will be difficult for you to be dedicated to your relationship. Or one party is more likely to change his mind after marriage.

Wenchang Jiahui

The couple has a good relationship, understands elegance, and lives a sentimental life.

Qingyang Jiahui

The relationship between husband and wife fluctuates, good and bad. Pay attention to the maintenance of the relationship, otherwise a second marriage will occur.

Mars and Bells are in contact

Pay attention to conflicts in marriage and avoid sudden changes.

There may be a move to get married in a flash. It is advisable to consider many factors and avoid making impulsive decisions.

Wu Qu Hua Ji contrast

It is not good for the development of marriage or love, and there will be twists and turns on the road of love. The road to marriage is less smooth.

Pegasus in the same palace

The spouse is helpful and can hold up half the sky in career or family.

The brother's palace is in (unitary)

Your brother's palace has no main star and is a dependent house. In the middle of the three directions and four directions:

Tianzhai Palace: in (Chou)--with Tiantong and Jumen's main star

Dating Palace: in (Mao)--with Sun and Tianliang Main Star

Disaster Palace: In (Si) - There is the main star of Tianji

The direction of your brother's house will be closely related to the events that develop in these houses.

Tiankui Comparison/Tianyue Club

Brothers and sisters can help each other. Some of them have a good status in society.

Ling Xing is in the same house

Brothers and sisters are prone to disputes, which affects each other's relationship.

Dijie Jiahui/Dikyong Jiahui

The interaction between brothers and sisters is indifferent. He was helpless, but he himself suffered losses trying to help his brothers.

Tianliang Hualu Comparison

I can get the care and attention of my older brothers and sisters.

The current deadline (10-year fortune) is: Fortune Palace/False Age 24~33 years old

The Greedy Wolf is in the same palace

You can enjoy pleasant leisure and food , socializing and entertaining easily.

There are many opportunities for contact with the opposite sex and opportunities for encounters.

Enjoy partial wealth and have unexpected opportunities.

Zuo Fu Control/Right Bi Jia Hui

It helps to do things smoothly and has a positive impact on examinations, career development and promotion.

Wenchang Jiahui

It is helpful to take the exam. Engaged in academic research or literary and artistic activities, you will also have good results in your works.

Qingyang is in the same palace

It affects the development of fortune, and there is resistance to the implementation of predetermined goals, making it difficult to achieve wishes.

Be aware of physical injuries.

Purple Micro Power Contrast

Increase enthusiasm and desire to take power.

The personality will become more independent and strong.

Have good abilities, have leadership style, and can actually take charge.

Comparison of Zuofu Chemistry Department

Increase talents and academic qualities.

Can get help from noble people. And then achieve the predetermined goals.

Tianma Jiahui

Maintains movement and change. There may be events such as moving, traveling, or changing jobs.

Working with auspicious stars can accelerate the performance of auspiciousness, and work and career will progress smoothly.

If it interacts with evil stars, you should also be prepared to encounter setbacks or traffic accidents in other places.

Hua Quan Comparison/Hua Ke Comparison

There are many lucky opportunities and you can earn a lot of wealth. Ability to enjoy power or fame.

Fluttering peach blossoms:

Unable to focus on feelings, and relationships are too complicated. Suffering from love, constant disputes. It will have a negative impact on marriage or love.

The fleeting year: Migration Palace/The virtual age is 31 years old, the fortune of the lunar calendar (Renchen) year

Seven Kills in the same palace

The Lord replaces the old with the new. You may face major changes in your surrounding environment, personnel or career.

You are motivated to do things, exceptionally smooth, and have surprising developments.

With career development, the salaried class can have promotion opportunities.

There are opportunities to travel.

Youbi Jiahui

It helps to do things smoothly and has a positive impact on examinations, career development and promotion.

Tiankui Xiangjia/Tianyue Xiangjia

It can obtain opportunities for development and resolve difficulties when encountering them.

Wenchang Palace/Wenqu Comparison

It is helpful to take the exam. Engaged in academic research or literary and artistic activities, you will also have good results in your works.

Qingyang Jiahui/Dora Contrast

It affects the development of fortune, and there is resistance to the actualization of predetermined goals, making it difficult to achieve wishes.

Be aware of physical injuries.

Tianma Jiahui

Maintains movement and change. There may be events such as moving, traveling, or changing jobs.

Working with auspicious stars can accelerate the performance of auspiciousness, and work and career will progress smoothly.

If it interacts with evil stars, you should also be prepared to encounter setbacks or traffic accidents in other places.

Literary Star:

Outstanding performance in literature, art and academics. You can also achieve greater success by working in the fields of medicine and finance.

Being good at promoting yourself will help you develop in the political world.

You are a confident and decisive person who handles things calmly. You have a firm attitude in doing things. You are able to face problems, have the courage to take responsibility, and try to slow down and observe carefully.

From the perspective of the horoscope, the key palace is "Xu", which is the palace of innate destiny. Lian Zhen and Tianfu sit in this palace. In terms of personality, it will have the character of fame and accumulation. The auspicious stars such as Zuofu, Wenchang, and Wenqu are in conjunction with each other, which means that attitudes such as tolerance and learning will also be strengthened. When Tuoluo enters this house again, it will promote the advantages of breakthroughs. Furthermore, Lucun, Hualu, etc. The stars and stars interact with each other to form a pattern of "double fortune and prosperity", which also has the influence of "slow, steady and cautious".

These stars and patterns are showing your innate personality advantages:

1. Have strong self-esteem, care about the opinions of others, and love face, so you can respect yourself and pay attention to yourself. His words and deeds are bold and easy to get close to, and he does not make people feel too serious. He attaches great importance to appearance and image. He emphasizes elegance in dressing up and likes to use brand-name items and clothing. 2. Have a tolerant mind and are not likely to take advantage of others or force others. They have strong ability to adapt to the environment and can gradually accumulate results and harvest. Even if they take risks, they mostly adopt a more controllable scale and method. The style is relatively stable. 3. Integrity and self-love, able to stick to principles, self-restraint, do something and not do something. Although there are various sexual desires in the heart and hope to be exposed to more, he can still be restrained and self-disciplined, so he often behaves Not outgoing and enthusiastic, but polite and considerate, observing etiquette, and handling advances and retreats appropriately. 4 Cares about reputation and likes the praise and applause of others, so he will pay attention to other people's eyes and reactions, show considerate and mature communication skills to harmonize interpersonal relationships, act responsibly and fulfill his duties, so as to gain recognition from others and become a good person. work partners. 5. Responsible, willing to take responsibility, able to withstand greater pressure, take on heavy responsibilities, and not prone to stage fright. Will deal with difficult things quickly and not let things delay. 6. Have the moderate ability to maintain emotional calm and reduce impulses. Sometimes even if you are impulsive, you can quickly restrain yourself, stop the car, reduce the amplitude of fluctuations, improve the integrity of thinking, be able to think longer-term, and have better affinity. Strengthened, able to coordinate and cooperate with others and exert team strength. As for shortcomings, you are more likely to be self-righteous and procrastinate. You often think too highly of yourself and are stubborn. Your views are more conservative and sometimes too trivial.

It must be noted that since you are more likely to have shortcomings, that is, your basic fortune is slightly bad, this is not doomed to achieve nothing, but your attitude is relatively unstable and you are not easily satisfied with things. It is easy for things to change, which will only increase troubles. Therefore, it is not advisable to be optimistic in your approach. It is better to be pessimistic. Prepare for changes first, and slightly lower your expectations or standards. Seek stability first, then progress, and you will be better able to perform.

The following is a detailed analysis of your shortcomings, as a reference for your daily attention and adjustments:

1. Compassionate, soft-eared, likes to take care of the weak, and also likes to listen to praise. Speech, so it is easy to be blinded by nice words. When interacting with them, try to keep your posture as low as possible and say more flattering words, and you will be able to get what they like. This also makes the truth easy to be blinded by villains. 2. He has an independent acting style and can be self-sufficient. Therefore, he does not like interference or being controlled by others. It is easy for people to feel that he likes to be alone. He is usually lonely inside. For his own growth, he is good at face and does not ask for help. Down, progress is also slower. 3. He has the introverted character of self-control. Although he thinks in his heart, he dares not express his position clearly in action. Instead, he gives people a sense of distance, often makes people confused, and gives people a fussy feeling, especially the strong self-restraint. It is easy for people to become perfectionists, for example, they tend to be mysophobic, or they are easily dissatisfied with the status quo. They often complain about the existing environment, or lament that their talents are not recognized, and they are troubled. 4. With reserved traits, being polite and considerate to the outside world, it is relatively easy to attract the attention of the opposite sex, and there is a tendency for romance. Act responsibly and do not give in easily. If you suppress yourself too much, you will easily set limits on yourself. If you are too aggressive, you may be hurting yourself. If you are not willing to give up, you still want to take revenge. If you are not willing to give up, you may be destroyed. 5. High autonomy, strong subjective awareness, not easily affected by the external environment and change oneself, so less likely to accept other people's opinions and suggestions. It is easy to only care about yourself and have a tendency to be selfish. 6. Decreased mobility, lack of energy, lack of positive attitude, slow movements, reduced independence, less knowing how to deal with setbacks, often can only complain, sometimes excessive worry, and unimportant factors. And adding it into consideration will lengthen the preparation time, make it easier to miss the deadline, and also make people feel more passive.

The basic fortune of your life is best in your old age. Your ability to implement is ideal and you can effectively adjust yourself and exert your strength. Therefore, you should take good care of your old age and try your best to move yourself and be brave. Action and performance. Young adults are the weakest time in life. Your situation becomes more unstable, your strength is easily compromised, and it is more difficult to use it effectively. Therefore, in young adults, your attitude should not be too optimistic, and you should be more cautious and conservative. act.

As for childhood and youth, it is not very good either. The stability is a little lacking and the space for expression is compressed, so the attitude should be a little conservative and cautious.

If you look at individual ten-year periods, the best performance time is from 2045 to 2054. Your implementation ability is very strong, you can exert your strength, and you have the ability to control the situation. If you work hard at this time, it will bring great help to other fortunes such as career, love, etc.

The time when your fortune is at its weakest is from 2015 to 2024. I am relatively unstable, my strength is obviously compromised, and I will be far behind my expectations. If you insist on going your own way, it will have a significant drag on other fortunes such as career, love, etc. The teacher suggested that you should give priority to avoiding mistakes in your daily behavior. You should be low-key and cautious to avoid the emergence of shortcomings, so that your destructive power can be effectively reduced, and then you can talk about making progress. In addition, you can also consider borrowing the strength of others to correct or adjust your own shortcomings to help reduce the impact of bad luck. In terms of practice, we should adopt the approach of "being tolerant and tolerant, being careful in our words and actions". Relax your mind appropriately and increase the space for acceptance to absorb external information. You can use external forces to soften your strong subjective consciousness, so that you can consider the suggestions of others. You should be careful when acting or speaking, avoid being too detailed and making people feel complicated, and reduce empty talk. You can make small attempts first, and then find feasible methods and put them into action steadily to increase substantial results. Good luck recipe: Bad luck in basic fortune is mainly related to "career". As long as your work and career become unstable, it will have an adverse impact on your basic fortune.

Therefore, you should pay attention to your interactions with company supervisors and try to avoid them influencing your opinions or ideas, so that you can effectively reduce your frustration! If the other person is a bit withdrawn, has stubborn ideas, or is a bit arrogant and only cares about the relationship, regardless of right or wrong, then you should pay more attention! In addition, you should also try your best to maintain job stability, so as to effectively reduce your own personality problems!