What are the good family styles and family precepts?

■ Don't be a little evil or a little good. Only virtue and virtue can serve others.

Liu Bei's "Empress Ci"

Comments: Morality should be put in the first place of self-study and education.

■ Top-grade people don't teach; People who are in the middle of the product, teach and then be good; Inferior people are hard to teach.

Shao Yong's Sun Wen Ring (Northern Song Dynasty)

Comments: The energy of education should be mainly focused on middle school students, with the highest efficiency.

■ I was born between heaven and earth, only thinking about being a man is the first meaning. Nothing else matters.

Being a good person is not cheap for a while, but it is still cheap in the end. I can't be a good person. I feel cheap for a while, but it's not cheap in the end. Throughout the ages, success or failure is obvious. How charming is it? What a pity! I send this sincere message to my children and grandchildren, so we should not read it casually.

Only by taking filial piety as the foundation, loyalty as the main, honesty as the first and honesty as the most important can there be room for others to take the lead; When the money is relaxed, there will be a aftertaste.

Good must be accumulated, accumulated today, accumulated tomorrow, and accumulated urine. The difference between an idea, a sentence and a thing is not terrible!

(Ming) "Gao Jiaxun"

■ If you are determined to be a gentleman, you will not be an official, and people will respect you, so I want you to stand up first.

(Ming) The Legacy of Yang Zhongyu

■ People often bite the roots of vegetables, so Pepsi can do it. Too arrogant, beautiful and useless.

(Ming) Yao Shunmu's Medicine Talk

■ Status is not in the sky, and the cultivation of virtue is not in me. Don't abandon him in me, and don't force him in heaven.

(Ming) et al. Record: Miscellanies of the Imperial Court.

■ Ambition trend is far-reaching; Whatever you want, you are invincible.

Michelle Ye, Ego Silla: The Sage's Courtyard Motto.

■ If you destroy yourself or yourself, you must make do. If you have a trip that can be destroyed, you should say it; If you can't ruin your trip, you are wrong. When there is no resentment towards each other, it is harmless to the body. ..... there is nothing better than self-study.

(Wei) Wang Chang: "Huan Yu"

■ Courtesy is the first virtue, and prudence is the foundation of action. I hope that you will do what you say and respect what you do. There is no mouth that makes people rich, no nonsense, no words that ruin people. It is acceptable to hear others' mistakes, but it cannot be published. Look before you leap. ……

Yang hu (Western Jin Dynasty): The Ring.

■ Diligent in learning, keeping the foundation, repairing the boudoir, and still idle. In this way, there will be no worries.

(Southern Dynasties. Qi) Xiao Ben's The Ring

■ Filial piety before respect; Devote oneself to hard work in order to do good deeds.

Li Shimin's "Emperor Fan"

Comments: A word "filial piety" and a word "public" can be well summarized! I am often ashamed of my parents' kindness in raising me. I get too much and report too little. Too many people who don't respect their superiors don't feel it themselves, so they often don't like it. This stems from feeling good about yourself and being conceited.

■ Those who are good at hiding are bright, and those who are quiet are safe. Use it when it is boring, and move it when it is quiet. Those who are good at storing are inexhaustible, and those who are good at coping are inexhaustible.

Ouyang Xiu's "Xiuzi"

Comments: The appearance is simple and honest, but the heart is dull, clear and smart. This is called cleverness and being fooled by cleverness. I, on the other hand, have the opposite taste. I want to talk less, and at the same time I want to do things and read books wholeheartedly, so that I can truly and naturally hide my great wisdom and look stupid. Confucius said: a gentleman speaks but doesn't do it. It seems that speaking quickly and doing slowly is a villain.

■ Although people are stupid, they are clearly responsible; Although you are smart, you will feel dizzy if you forgive yourself. Er Dan often blames himself for blaming others, forgives others with his own heart, and does not suffer as a saint.

Fan Chunren's Words for Children (Northern Song Dynasty)

■ In this world, since you have knowledge, you have troubles and disappointments. It's unfair for children to call their own numbers. At least from childhood to old age, there are often few good things and many bad things. Although people with great wealth are regarded as immortals by the world, their disappointment is different from that of the carefree poor. Therefore, it is called a defective world, and people who are dissatisfied with world life. If you can accept this principle, you can be less safe. ...

Faith and respect are the skills that saints teach people to attach importance to country songs. Cover property without harming others and benefiting themselves; In difficult times, you might as well be selfish, so-called loyalty. If you make a promise, you will pay; It is not easy to keep an appointment, so-called faithfulness is also. Integrity, integrity, is the so-called loyalty. Humble manners, humble words, so-called respect ...

Ordinary people do their own thing, aboveboard. You can serve God with this, but you can't slow God down with this. You can use this to serve people, but you can't be proud of it ... As for a gentleman who occasionally suffers disasters, he is often called to his ears by conceit. ...

A good man should respect himself, not his appearance; There's no need to say it.

(Southern Song Dynasty) Yuan Cai adopted Yuan Fan Shi.

■ Those who are indispensable to poverty are also loyal; People who have money but can't get it are full of enthusiasm.

Family proverbs in Fang Xiaoru

■ A filial piety and a good obedience are for filial piety and perfection.

Ordinary people plan for their children and grandchildren, and they all want to lay the foundation. But nobody cares for the longest time? Giving up one's heart and land, giving up one's morality and producing real estate have lost their foundation. ...

(Ming) Yao Shunmu's Medicine Talk

Comment: Touching the Dragon said in Touching the Dragon on Zhao that parents love their children and have far-reaching influence. What is profound? It is to distinguish what is the "permanence" of his survival and development, and cultivate long-term ability and prestige, just as Tou Chonglong said. The "mind" and "moral production" mentioned here are both "lasting" things, which are essentially the same as the "quality" advocated by quality education. What I emphasize is to cultivate the habit of education and memorize most of my childhood masterpieces. Generally speaking, for the survival and development of children, we should "teach people to fish", not just "teach people to fish"!

■ Knowing who you are, but not knowing who you are, is a disaster.

Clean up the bright place, store the past and present, and study history.

"Can you touch my mind?" These seven words are also true.

Teenagers should only cultivate themselves, study according to their destiny, and don't think deeply about gains and losses. The so-called solid and happy, defeat is also gratifying.

Personality must start from an early age, and expediency, hesitation and deception will lead to a bad personality all your life.

You must have a broad mind and measure.

A careless idea will ruin a person's wealth.

(Ming) Wu Family Instructions

Comments: It is not worthwhile for young people to read anything, especially in today's society. Ask someone else instead of your own brain. Before the age of 25, they should learn all the basic things, and their future development is limitless. I wasted too much time as a teenager. First, I don't know how to cherish. Second, I don't have expert guidance. I put too much energy into petty profits, so I should "not think deeply about gains and losses". Otherwise, if I am a doctor now, do I need to settle accounts all day? I have wasted too much time on the economy. On the other hand, I have been unable to solve the economic problem and I am not sure about the root of the problem. Today, this issue is still of concern to me. There is only one premise, that is, to ensure good health, and everything else can be ignored. My teaching career has basically come to an end, leaving only repetition and the possibility of retrogression. It's really hopeless to concentrate on your studies in another three or two years.

We should attach importance to children's moral education and start from scratch.

■ If there is a good house, there must be Qing Yu; If you accumulate a bad house, there will be more disasters. Good is not enough to become famous, evil is not enough to flow, it is a river; The burning of the stars, burning in the yuan leaf, starts from the micro and ends at the giant.

■ Be silent, timid, tolerant, elegant and dignified in language and behavior, and be a good scholar.

(Northern Song Dynasty) Liang Daoism talks about training

Comments: It is easy to have trust in stable people. I used to laugh a little too much. In the future, I will pay attention to this. I want to think about talking, don't talk in a hurry, and act calm and generous, pure and indifferent. Don't be afraid of being told that you are smart and have a good brain, and don't be afraid of being told that you are stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid.

■ There is nothing to eat. Reading one or two articles on history and literature is beneficial to people, which is better than ulterior motives.

The Ring by Jiang Duanyou (Southern Song Dynasty)

Comment: This is the best way to keep fit!

■ Don't expose your talent, don't rely on your potential, and don't enjoy it. Can retire, stay surplus, unlimited income.

It doesn't matter is the best word. Calm down, calm down, calm down. Calm and peaceful, without other delusions, how happy this heart is!

Seeing the words of sages is nothing more than teaching people to be good people. Some people say it is difficult to be a good person, others say it is easy. If you don't be a bad person, you are a good person.

■ Young people are not deeply involved in the world, and their conscience is not lost. Keeping this in mind is the foundation of holiness.

■ If you lie awake at night, you often need to rest your mind, don't plan useless things, and think evil things. When we observe this body briefly, after death, we bury it in a hurry to cover up its corruption. Only then, who will be mine? If you think like this, your intentions will be exhausted, your work will be ruined, and your fame and fortune will be ruined. In order to get involved in the world, I rarely encounter illness.

The Ring by Jiang Duanyou (Southern Song Dynasty)

Comment: I can see through the world of mortals.

Yu Yongsheng refused to tell a lie, but he was spared a lot of care.

Comments: One sentence tells the benefits of not lying, and it is also an important sentence to make your body and mind less implicated and live easily.

■ Be a good person and be sensible when reading.

■ No philosopher is not stupid.

Comments: Stupidity is an external manifestation, and stupidity is a simple and substantial grasp of the basic laws of things.

■ Flattery is shameful, stubborn and hateful, and it is the golden mean.

(Ming) Yao Shunmu's Medicine Talk

■ The most taboo of being a man is evil. There are many conspiracies in doing things, and there is no one who does not harm future generations. As the saying goes, there must be evil things for those who have evil things ... as the ancestors said, "I am always afraid of heaven and earth." I speak Sri Lankan and read it at night.