After being lovelorn, I insist on exercising, reading and studying every day. Why don't you do it?

Because the recovery of lovelorn love is a long process of self-reconciliation, a process of constant thinking and a dead end. There is no shortcut, haste makes waste. Fortunately, when you are in this whirlpool, you have already passed the most difficult first stage. What needs to be done is to work harder and get out of the shadow of lovelorn.

Numerous practices have proved that the feeling of "he doesn't love me" will not be redeemed until the boy says goodbye. Boys are rational animals and girls are emotional animals. Boys have thought about the consequences in their minds before breaking up. After some thinking, he thinks he will be better off without you.

Can't you believe it? There is no doubt that the facts are so cruel. This truth is not accepted by girls in love, and they always bump their heads. After trying thousands of actions, they finally admitted that he didn't love me. Having said that, it is not difficult to find that all the pain of lovelorn, from the beginning, was unwilling to accept lovelorn, and always felt that it could be recovered.

Stop blaming yourself. I am not perfect, but I deserve to be loved. Girls who are "broken up" always fall into a strange circle, that is, "Did I do something bad", "Should I understand him better" and "Should I be more considerate" and so on. The above mentality can be collectively called regret, and the answer is always "no".

Peng, our student, is a good example: being accused of being useless by her boyfriend when she broke up, her self-confidence defense line completely collapsed, and she was walking dead in the first month after falling out of love. On the eve of breaking up, my boyfriend suddenly said calmly, why do others have their own advantages, but I don't see what advantages you have?

At that time, pengpeng was still in love. He smiled and replied: There is nothing you can do. You like my size. The next day, my boyfriend broke up and I was completely at a loss. Pengpeng said that for a long time after breaking up, I felt that I was a very bad person and had nothing to do. I was rejected by my boyfriend because I was not good enough.

Everyone has his own strengths. Although they have big lines, they are more persistent than others. They wear scarves for their boyfriends and stay up late to watch videos. In order to get her boyfriend's favorite player's signature, they wandered around the forum and ran several book fairs for a book that her boyfriend loved to read.

Pengpeng finally figured it out, when he loves you, there are thousands of bad things that are lovely in the eyes of his lover, but when he doesn't love, no matter how many advantages are useless. Now that I have a beloved boyfriend, we can go to the snack street together, watch the comic exhibition together, and spit out all kinds of small tears in the forum together.

Pengpeng hasn't changed. She found her other half. Love is a game, and no one owes anyone anything. It is not because of perfection that you deserve to be loved, but because you find your own perfection in your feelings.

Lovelorn is a stage that won't kill you like wisdom teeth, just like you don't have to exaggerate your broken finger to cardiac arrest, and lovelorn doesn't have to exaggerate it to fear. Life goes on, bad things are still happening, the earth will not stop running, and he will not look back at the end of the world.

Sometimes life is simpler than we think. Birth, graduation, work and death go on and on. In such a cycle, if we are lucky, we will have laughter, and such a journey of life is worthwhile. Take lovelorn as a time node, and look back after this point, you will find that it was only a period of time.

Everyone needs to walk a long way, and someone will accompany you to finish the journey. Thanks for his company. He may not be the next step, but you will still go on. Losing love is like pulling out wisdom teeth. I can't sleep because of the pain. Many days have passed, but I still can't get used to it and feel empty.

But times have changed, and you can't remember the painful feeling, only the painful memory. You see, it hurts to pull out wisdom teeth, but it won't kill anyone. And everything will not knock you down, it will only make you stronger. My good friend Yuanbao started her life after falling in love. After breaking up for five months, I lost 30 pounds, tripled my salary, and found a department that suits me better.

He only knows how to play games every day, and he has become a literary upstart who reads books and goes out to take pictures on weekends, and has more opportunities to meet new friends and cultivate new hobbies. At every stage of your life, you need time to live in peace with yourself.

Being lovelorn is just a psychological experience of rebirth, and coming a few more times won't knock you down. You don't have to love me. I can buy my own perfume. I can choose my own color, quantity, taste and style. If you don't accompany me like this, I'll go by myself.